hi there, the missus and I have our first social coming up at the Easter bunnies BBW bash at chameleons, could any kind members give us an idea what to expect? We are nervous as hell about it but pushing through as its took us too long to realise our true horny natures and want to try something new yet again!
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hi there, the missus and I have our first social coming up at the Easter bunnies BBW bash at chameleons, could any kind members give us an idea what to expect? We are nervous as hell about it but pushing through as its took us too long to realise our true horny natures and want to try something new yet again!
Hi
We've been a members for over six years. Feel free to ask any questions you like, either in here or by pm.
Or you may wish to read this article
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/shm/chameleons-swinging-club.html
Or some of the reviews in the clubs section
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/reviews-3.html
Ian
Quote by special_club
the Mrs is worried about the ID aspect, whats the score there
You need two forms of ID. Something like a photo driving licence and a gas bill.
We have never ever received anything in the post from them. Nobody has knocked on the door. No phone calls. no emails, nothing.
You are then given a membership card which you show on future visits.
Sex God
Quote by special_club
the Mrs is worried about the ID aspect, whats the score there
I'm not a member at Chams but am at other clubs. You usually have to show some sort of ID to first join and become a member.
Do you have to become a member to go to the social though? Maybe best checking that with the organiser.
Quote by noladreams
the Mrs is worried about the ID aspect, whats the score there
I'm not a member at Chams but am at other clubs. You usually have to show some sort of ID to first join and become a member.
Do you have to become a member to go to the social though? Maybe best checking that with the organiser.
Every visitor needs to show identification. However as the single gents membership category is usually closed, or subject to long waiting lists, it probably won't be possible for everybody who goes to become a member.
Just checked on the chams website
Couples now have to pay £15 for lifetime membership. So if you show ID you get in or if you pays your money, you can go again another time when no social is on.
I joined Chams in Newport recently and was told that my membership would cover me if I visited Darlaston as well, so assume it will work the other way round as well 
Took along a photo/date of birth id (passport)and an address id (recent utilities bill). Filled in a membership form, the host checked the name/dob/address Id put on the form was the same as my id then handed it all back.
Lockered id away with the car keys / clothes and other "non play" trappings so all secure.
Took along a photo/date of birth id (passport)and an address id (recent utilities bill). Filled in a membership form, the host checked the name/dob/address Id put on the form was the same as my id then handed it all back.
Lockered id away with the car keys / clothes and other "non play" trappings so all secure.
Sex God
Quote by Ian
the Mrs is worried about the ID aspect, whats the score there
You need two forms of ID. Something like a photo driving licence and a gas bill.
We have never ever received anything in the post from them. Nobody has knocked on the door. No phone calls. no emails, nothing.
You are then given a membership card which you show on future visits.
ty ian you are bang on right as per hun
they need the id for insurance purposes i was told i do not know how or why this is the fact but i can only go on what i am told
Quote by noladreams
the Mrs is worried about the ID aspect, whats the score there
I'm not a member at Chams but am at other clubs. You usually have to show some sort of ID to first join and become a member.
Do you have to become a member to go to the social though? Maybe best checking that with the organiser.
no you do not need to become a member to attend the event as there is a huge waiting list for the single guys so this is an opportunity for them to be included in these event without having to wait to get memebership but if you are a single gal or couple i think you might as well take advantage of bieng there and join as you can then go anytime you like not have to wait for the next event to be held although you might prefer to attend the bash first to decide if the club is for you before you join but i'm sure they would let then join on leaving if you would prefer
and flower it is only to the club you show id not social organisers so data protection is fully in play
Quote by Nimbus
I joined Chams in Newport recently and was told that my membership would cover me if I visited Darlaston as well, so assume it will work the other way round as well
Took along a photo/date of birth id (passport)and an address id (recent utilities bill). Filled in a membership form, the host checked the name/dob/address Id put on the form was the same as my id then handed it all back.
Lockered id away with the car keys / clothes and other "non play" trappings so all secure.
it does work other way round too yes
Quote by __random_orbit__
no need to be nervous at a social, you should be absolutely fine.
take knives
lp
:twisted: no knives but i do have a very nice pin wheel wish i could temp you to join us
there really is nothing to be nervous of trust me it is a very popular event with around 120-150 attending and we tell peeps to treat it like a social to start with just get in there and chat to as many friendly faces as you can see you might find others that it is thier first time too or even old hands that are willing to hold your hand for you infact if you wish i'm certain i could arrange some hand holders for you if you so desire
have a good wander round the club as they night goes on and just watch whats going on and if at any time you feel tempted to join in just ask if they mind n if u get the nod then jump right in
always remember wether its you sayin it or its bein said to you no means no never push and don't stand for being pushed but that said its a very good club that everyone respects the rules
do not go with the expectation of playing that way if you do then its a huge bonus
there r lockable rooms if you prefer a bit of privacy of a couples only room if single guys are not your bag but this does have a two way mirror which is very popular i'm usually found standing drooling at it :lol: there is also the round room which isn't actually round just has a round bed this is very poplular and can be a bit of a free for all so maybe just watch for a while there to decide if its your bag if it is then jump on they always find room to squeeze more on honestly u should see the size of the pile sometimes :eeek: then there are a few other open rooms which are great for having a nosey at while you decide which route is for you and also a dungeon with a swing in it and 2 jacuzzis which are lots of fun but don't be too alrmed if there r wandering hands if its not a welcome hand just push it away and say no thankyou always worked for me
do not feel any pressure to join in with any play just go and chill and socialise in fact to be perfectly honest we don't do an awfull lot of playing ourselves at these events we use them more to catch up with friends we haven't seen for a while and many others do the same
look out for us there and we will be happy to chat and put your minds at rest you can't miss me i have blonde n pink hair
look forward to seeing you there
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Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__
no need to be nervous at a social, you should be absolutely fine.
take knives
lp
KNIVES !! far too difficult to conceal....try razor blades discreetly hidden about your person
Sex God
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
no need to be nervous at a social, you should be absolutely fine.
take knives
lp
KNIVES !! far too difficult to conceal....try razor blades discreetly hidden about your person
when your wearing nothing but a towel???
ouch :eeek:
