I can only cum with penetration with Jay. That's because of his patience and plenty of lovely foreplay. I can come with anyone else through clitoral stimulation but the "innies" are special to us.
I have a strange theory...when the male is only a little taller than me, I orgasm at the drop of a hat through penetration...however...when I have had sex with men much taller than me...it just DOESN'T happen :cry:
I think that it is something to do with bodies kind of 'fitting' perfectly and rubbing exactly on the right spot!
Am I nuts??!!