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Quote by chick0074
It's nice to see someone talking a "shy" approach, instead of all those posts from new guys "I REQUIRE a woman to fuck".
Well that's just the sort of person I am, but, when I get to know someone and get going........ :twisted: !!!!!
I'll take a look at your ad.
Quote by CarrieAnn
It's nice to see someone talking a "shy" approach, instead of all those posts from new guys "I REQUIRE a woman to fuck".
Well that's just the sort of person I am, but, when I get to know someone and get going........ :twisted: !!!!!
I'll take a look at your ad.
There are plenty of ads for couples seeking women, best contact a few, get to know them.
What we do when we meet a new lady, especially an inexpereinced one, is we meet up, have a drink, so we meet nice and socially before retiring to the bedroom.
Then we start, the girl can watch us, and decide when she wants to join in, decides her own level of lnvolvement.
And most, like you suggest, when they get started they really get going!
The most important thing is, you've come to this board and made your first step.
Rachel
Hi there CarrieAnn, i do not know the details of any munches after the 21stAugust, but i'm sure if you keep looking in the meet section on here it will let you off to watch the match now and put me feet up been to work today, ..... i know its Sunday !!!!! but it has to be done, have a great weekend love peppsxxxxxxx
Orgasminator
Thanks for all the advice so far. I do hope more people will air their views and experiences though - every little helps (so they say)!
I think that I am very nearly ready to get in touch with a lady via pm and see where we go!
What a relief to talk to such understanding people about this. Thank you all again. 
I think that I am very nearly ready to get in touch with a lady via pm and see where we go!
What a relief to talk to such understanding people about this. Thank you all again. 
Orgasminator
Quote by CarrieAnn
Hi all
I am fairly new to this site and would like a little advice.
When I was a teenager I dabbled a little with another female but it was only the once.
Now that I am a few years older I feel like I would like to try again but am very embarrassed. My ex, who I still live with as we are really good friends, is very supportive and says that he will help me however he can.
I am confused with regard to my sexuality as I do enjoy sex with men but am also curious as to what sex as an adult would be like with a woman :confused: I suppose you could describe me as bi-curious!!!
Does anyone have any advice they can offer me PLEASE?!?!?!?!
dont go to your grave with regrets saying i wish id............. thats the bests advice i can give you, sex should not be confused with gender dont let steryotypes put you down dont let other peoples conditioning stop you doing what feels right for you, they say we all haaaave a bi side , i havent found mine yet but i do prefer watching couples to same gender unless im there at the time , how far removed is that to being there in say a touchy involved mmf inviroment i dont know. live life to the full when you are ready you wont need to ask questions
love
mids
Orgasminator
Thanks so much for that.
I do need reminding of it sometimes. I had quite a sheltered upbringing although I went through alot of S**T as well - too much to say on open forum
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I have too many 'what if's' in my past to worry about what other people think about me now. Sod them all - I'll do what I like when I like - perhaps that sounds very selfish of me but I am now single and who else do I have to consider. Luckily, I do have a very good friend in Dambuster who is very supportive and is my best mate!
I do need reminding of it sometimes. I had quite a sheltered upbringing although I went through alot of S**T as well - too much to say on open forum
.I have too many 'what if's' in my past to worry about what other people think about me now. Sod them all - I'll do what I like when I like - perhaps that sounds very selfish of me but I am now single and who else do I have to consider. Luckily, I do have a very good friend in Dambuster who is very supportive and is my best mate!
Orgasminator
good for you just be safe lifes short but pvery precious
CarrieAnn , lucky u doing a parachute jump. Dont worry about the err worry . When it comes to it you will find that fear of being branded a wimp by your peers far outweighs any doubts you may have about jumping through a door on a plane with just howling slipstream outside .
Once you do it and are suspended in silence with the aircraft droning away into the distance in a blue sky with few fluffy white clouds you wil think oh wow , I could get used to this .
Oh and congrats on doing it for charity .
Once you do it and are suspended in silence with the aircraft droning away into the distance in a blue sky with few fluffy white clouds you wil think oh wow , I could get used to this .
Oh and congrats on doing it for charity .
Quote by Flipper
CarrieAnn , lucky u doing a parachute jump. Dont worry about the err worry . When it comes to it you will find that fear of being branded a wimp by your peers far outweighs any doubts you may have about jumping through a door on a plane with just howling slipstream outside .
Once you do it and are suspended in silence with the aircraft droning away into the distance in a blue sky with few fluffy white clouds you wil think oh wow , I could get used to this .
Oh and congrats on doing it for charity .
I done one CarrieAnn ooooooooh thousands of years ago now
and Flipper is right, the fear of being branded a wimp does help you out that plane - as does the instructors shove 
....... which I'm told helped me land in the field and not the motorway nearby 
And once the plane has gone, and you've stopped screaming and swearing, realised your parachute is open, then the silence is amazing as you're floating around .......... Until I spotted my mate about a mile away floating down too. We discovered how well your voice travels and didn't stop nattering about how brilliant it was all the way down
ops: Well up until about 100 foot off the ground and then the swearing started up again, cos the ground suddenly comes towards you a lot faster than you think.Landed, looked everywhere for my mate .......... then saw a load of corn moving in the distance and out she burst, complete with orange hat and parachute. The hat had little air holes in and all her hair was sticking out of them (luckily I didn't realise I looked identical) ....... couldn't stop laughing at her - although could've just been relief laughter that we done it!!!!!
Now all these years later, I still tell anyone that even glances in my direction :? was an amazing experience.
D'ya want me to tell the story again? I will if you want :lol2:
Enjoy it
Sex God
Carrie ann wrote:
Hi Carrie ann, in any contacts made via this site or any other, everyone has the right to dictate the pace, deciding what pace they are most comfortable with. If the person you link up with is being impatient and pushy, or just wanting things to go too fast for you, tell them, and either they will understand, or they're not for you. The same would apply to anyone who was going too slow for you. You have the right to say how you want any friendship you start here to build up. If you're not comfortable with the way someone is, tell them. You're not stupid or naive, just naturally sensible and wary - the best way to be!
Good luck!
MikeNorth.
Are there women out there who would take it steady, for example, e-mailing, talking on the phone, going out for a drink/meal and then see where it goes ? (stupid and naive again!!! )
Hi Carrie ann, in any contacts made via this site or any other, everyone has the right to dictate the pace, deciding what pace they are most comfortable with. If the person you link up with is being impatient and pushy, or just wanting things to go too fast for you, tell them, and either they will understand, or they're not for you. The same would apply to anyone who was going too slow for you. You have the right to say how you want any friendship you start here to build up. If you're not comfortable with the way someone is, tell them. You're not stupid or naive, just naturally sensible and wary - the best way to be!
Good luck!
MikeNorth.
Hi Misscheif , I used to jump when I was in the forces , you got about one a year since they wanted you to feel current , but minimise the cost etc LOL .
The first jump I did the dispatcher was a grizzled para sergeant who would have been a shoo in for the part of the Anti Christ if that is ever being cast . I can claim no hardness points at all for jumping , when he said go it would have taken more balls to say to no to him and stay in the plane !
The first jump I did the dispatcher was a grizzled para sergeant who would have been a shoo in for the part of the Anti Christ if that is ever being cast . I can claim no hardness points at all for jumping , when he said go it would have taken more balls to say to no to him and stay in the plane !
Orgasminator
Hi Squiggles,
Is it something that you have spoken about since? If so, what are your wife's thoughts about 'taking the plunge'?
Is it something that you have spoken about since? If so, what are your wife's thoughts about 'taking the plunge'?
Hi, kev part of the twosome, my wife had two lesbian friends who we became very friendly first i suppose as a male i did enjoy the thought of having become really friendly and understanding the relationship which was one of love and understanding between them the thought disappeared.
In fact they left the area and i suddenly found a gap in my life, they had become really close and i appreciated their friendship more than any male from my point of view( A MALE) go on explore your feelings ypu might find friendships you never dreamt of having.
In fact they left the area and i suddenly found a gap in my life, they had become really close and i appreciated their friendship more than any male from my point of view( A MALE) go on explore your feelings ypu might find friendships you never dreamt of having.
Orgasminator
Hi Kev,
Thanks for that. I think we tend to forget about friendship sometimes - how bad of us.
I am meeting some great people on this site who are offering loads of opinions and advice. I am thinking of going to the NW munch next month to see how it goes!
Has Mary ever been in a situation similar to mine? If so what happened?
Thanks for that. I think we tend to forget about friendship sometimes - how bad of us.
I am meeting some great people on this site who are offering loads of opinions and advice. I am thinking of going to the NW munch next month to see how it goes!
Has Mary ever been in a situation similar to mine? If so what happened?
Orgasminator
Quote by niceguysdoexist
....be bold brave and astonishing .
Hi and thanks for that. I have been told in the past that I am all of those things - I really need to find her again!!!
Q. Is your avatar a picture of you?
Hi , Carrie
Mary here.I occasionaly get an urge to have a fem / fem relationship but the opportunity seems to pass quickly ie last day of a holiday!
Its not something i find i can suddenly turn on,its so occasional and never when the moment is the thought of a nice new warm cock to play with is upper in my mind,suppose were all different,thank goodness.
Mary here.I occasionaly get an urge to have a fem / fem relationship but the opportunity seems to pass quickly ie last day of a holiday!
Its not something i find i can suddenly turn on,its so occasional and never when the moment is the thought of a nice new warm cock to play with is upper in my mind,suppose were all different,thank goodness.
Quote by CarrieAnn
Hi and thanks for that. I have been told in the past that I am all of those things - I really need to find her again!!!
Q. Is your avatar a picture of you?
The fact your posting what you are on here I have every confidence you will be whatever you wish to be ....go get em girl
The avatar may have certain similarities with me ...but I am nothing like that firerce....honest :lol: or that grey....or that hairy...or that tattoed.....in fact why is it my avatar
Orgasminator
Quote by marmalaid
I firmly believe that there's no such thing as a stupid question - only stupid answers
If you never ask it you will never know the answer.
I said exactly the same thing to a guy I gave the knock back to last week when he asked me out for a meal! Perhaps I should be listening to my own advice too!!!!
Orgasminator
Hi guys,
I haven't received your PM yet - just wondering if you have sent it or whether you are still typing it!!!
I haven't received your PM yet - just wondering if you have sent it or whether you are still typing it!!!
