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Overcoming embarrassment

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The first thing is... labels dont help!!!!
For a lot of people, its the worry about having the label attatched that is the worst thing.
Now to use some labels, lol.
I honestly believe that if someone is "curious" then they have already gone past the mind set and most probably are bi. Just accepting it as a fantasy and moving that into the idea of what it would really be like, means you have already thought about same sex sex and dont find it "icky or distastefull"
But wether this is ever put into reality, is a different issue.... and even if someone does, they may decide that they didnt like it.
The Kinsey Institute says there is a scale of totaly straight to totaly gay... I personally believe this is wrong, to me "gay or straight" is more about the emotional aspects, ie if you could fall in love or have a relationship with someone... to me there should be two scales, and emotional one, and a sexual one, because the two may not be linked, its quite possible to enjoy a sexual relationship with others of the same sex, or during a a group senario, yet someone may never contemplate living with someone of the same sex or find themselves emotionally attatched.... after all someone may enjoy a different sex physical relationship and still find themselves emotionally un-attatched, does that make them "gay?"