Hey Everyone, i've been a regular reader of of this site for a year or so but never really posted anything cos i'm in a relationgship and my partner is not into swinging and she is very jealous of me but i always had the curiousity and have been to dogging sites but never got any action.
But this has changed as i went to a location in south manchester which is mainly frequented by gay guys but i was told that sometimes couples would come. well i decided, for the first time, to get out of my car and walk around to see what happens, well to cut the story short i got a blowjob of a guy, something really7 weird cos i never really thought about it, i just did it. Now i have a seriuosly sence of guilt on me, and the worst, i don't know where that guy has been or if he was desease free, i'm really paranoid about the idea that there is a possibility of catching std just by receiving oral sex, so i ask, you guys, and ladies, do you ever worry about it? i know a lot of the meetings today are pre-planned, but what if a stranger comes up to your car, how do you know he is clean?, am i over-reacting and being paranoid? tell me what you think plz
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Sex God
Quote by Jduk
but do you ever worry about it? i mean do you think i'm over reacting?
If you're worried about your sexual health go and get a check up at your local GUM clinic. That goes for anyone else who's worried as well.
Sex God
Quote by Jduk
if you can help then plz don't post, there's no need fo you to be opffensive about it, i'm looking for some advice from people that can give me an idea about the subject.
The appropriate people are the trained professionals at a GUM clinic, not people chatting on a swingers forum.
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Sex God
Quote by Jduk
i just wanna know how are you guys feel about the subject, i'm sorry if i'm annoying everyone, i guest i'm posting in the wrong forum.
I would give the same advice to anyone else who was worried about their sexual health. No point sitting around chatting about it, just go and get checked out and put your mind at rest.
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i just wanna know how are you guys feel about the subject, i'm sorry if i'm annoying everyone, i guest i'm posting in the wrong forum.
YES you are.............. if you have been watching this forum for over a year!.............. i find that fooking surprising!.............................. as your post has not been put in the right way!........and that makes me think that you are not gen in what you have said
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Have you heard of condoms?????? Maybe Im being abit harsh, but we all practise safe sex on here, regardless of if its oral or not.
Think maybe you are being a bit harsh. From our experience the use of condoms for oral sex is not widespread.
JDuk get yourself to a clinic if you are worried about sexual health as Blue said.
Sex God
I'm very suspicious about this guy..... are you a reporter or something Jduk..... ? Sending PMs cos you are not getting the answers you want are not going to help you.....
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hi, blue, you sound like a wise guy, could i ask you.. do you ever think about it, i mean do you ever question yourself if you are having sex with someone that might have a std? even if you only just met them?
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I rest my case, and yes I know a "PM" means "private message" but hey, it's only the same question that he's put on here, again and again
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hi, blue, you sound like a wise guy, could i ask you.. do you ever think about it, i mean do you ever question yourself if you are having sex with someone that might have a std? even if you only just met them?
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I rest my case, and yes I know a "PM" means "private message" but hey, it's only the same question that he's put on here, again and again
i totally agree with you blue, and i will get checked up, but i have to wait 3 months before i can get an acurate result, in the mean time i thought maybe i would get some opinions about the subject, i agree pinkblue i think condoms should be used unfortunatly i wasn't really expecting to get any action and things just happened.
Sex God
You have your answer. Now, is this thread going anywhere or shall I lock it?
Sex God
Yes.... I can see this going nowhere fast. Thread locked.
