Partys for newcomers

23 Jan 2005

I was wondering if there are such things as partys that go on that are suitable for non hardened swingers , i`ts just that despite trying to talk my wife into meeting others she thinks that it is all very seedy, but she would really enjoy a nice party where she can dress seductively and we could do what ever takes our fancy without being too pestered by others. Anyone know of any clubs or parties like that. We are from the Cambs area.

23 Jan 2005

I would suggest a munch, they are social events and everyone has a bluddy good laugh with no pressure.
Shireen
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23 Jan 2005

Quote by shireen-steve
I would suggest a munch, they are social events and everyone has a bluddy good laugh with no pressure.
Shireen
xxx

What she said! cool

23 Jan 2005

Thats exactly what a munch is all about
no pressures, just a chance to laugh and chat with the people from here, nobody is expecting you to drop ya drawers and start shagging everything in sight, hell most much's are in PUBLIC venues from what I have read about them ( aint been to one yet as I am still a newbie myself) Could somebody please confirm that point for me, whether they are held as I believe in public venues
The only aim of a munch is for people to have a good night out WITHOUT the pressures of being expected to pick up or be picked up

23 Jan 2005

thx what exactly goes on at a munch and do you know of any in our area

23 Jan 2005

A munch would be ideal for you both then, it's purely social, you get to have a drink and chat/flirt with other like minded people, no strings attached and without any expectations of taking it further.

23 Jan 2005

oops cross posted!
Yes Kristof they are held in public places e.g. pubs so discretion is a must but it's a good way of making a first tentative step.

23 Jan 2005

Quote by paperhanger37
thx what exactly goes on at a munch and do you know of any in our area

check the Lets Meet forum, all much's are shown there

23 Jan 2005

Quote by paperhanger37
thx what exactly goes on at a munch and do you know of any in our area

A munch is a social gathering for swinging heaven members. Have a look at the sticky posts of the lets meet up forum for munches currently being organised.

23 Jan 2005

ok thx kristof

23 Jan 2005

Oh absolutely agree with Shireen there, a munch sounds ideal for the sort of atmosphere you are after. Purely social events which just give you the chance to meet up with the biggest mix of people you're ever likely to get in one room. From people in the same boat as you, right up to the very experienced people. All meeting up just for a few drinks, to put faces to names etc, absolutely no pressure at all, a great way to chat to people and air some of your questions/worries etc, and it's also a bluddy good laugh - guaranteed a great night out! biggrin

At the end of the evening, you still don't have to actually go down the swinging road - but you would definitely of had a great time in coming to whatever decision you make :D