I am not keen on passive women, I'm never sure if she is into it. I find them at clubs with their husbands. Even when I make it obvious that I want them they do not indicate yes or no.
Put simply even a "I want you" would stop me wondering 'is she here because she wants to be, is there another reason'.
Passive turns me off, an engaging woman is a big turn on for me. I'm far more comfortable if I know the lady is enjoying.
What do you think?
It works both ways!
Nothing dries me up more than if I'm going down on a guy and he's just lying back with his hands behind his head! It's very hard to muster any enthusiasm for the task if he seems he's not into it at all.
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It works both ways!
Nothing dries me up more than if I'm going down on a guy and he's just lying back with his hands behind his head! It's very hard to muster any enthusiasm for the task if he seems he's not into it at all.
I can understand that. I will keep it I mind when a lady goes down on me .
Thank you hot
Typical of so many of the guys on here. We're not mind readers and we're not sex workers. We are human beings, you still need to give us reason to want to have sex with you. The fact that you're 'up for it' means nothing. Have you considered treating us in the same way you would anyone else.
Hubby and I both find it endlessly amusing when guys think that paying a subscription to this site makes them entitled to sex with anyone of their choosing and in all seriousness, this thread shows just how far removed you are from reality in your expectations.
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The fact that you're 'up for it' means nothing. Have you considered treating us in the same way you would anyone else.Hubby and I both find it endlessly amusing when guys think that paying a subscription to this site makes them entitled to sex with anyone of their choosing
In reality, this discussion just doesn't need a gender attachment. It would make for a much better discussion to have asked "how do we all feel about passiveness?"
I think we can all agree that whatever the gender, if a person doesn't seem into what's going on it's a turn-off for everyone.
Unfortunately it's very much a theme on the forums in general: "why won't my wife_"; "why do women_"; "isn't it annoying when your woman_". We could have much more engaging conversations if we started by addressing "people who do the thing" vs "people who don't" rather than the "GRR WIMMIN" of a lot of the threads here.
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There You go X
Awesome. Thank you!
