People and how they handle rejection

12 Feb 2004

Well, well....... a few days ago a post was made about (well when it came down to it rejection) and how people handle it names were said insults made etc....... Well now that has all passed under the bridge etc.......... I just think I need to say to people does it matter ? People we are here to have fun I am not gods gift and don't walk around with that attitude (unlike some couples and single women and men that frequent this forum and the chat room) but hey that is their choice fuk em* People don't like the way I look, so what? I don't like their attitude, so what? I have met some people off of here and they like me. I don't give a **** if those couples and single women who say "oh no I don't like such n such a man" .There will be people on this forum and in the chat room that will like how someone else looks and behave's which is the most important thing to me. There were when I started coming to this forum lots of people I wanted to meet, most of those people I cant stand now, why? because of how they interact with people and me. They don't like me I don't like them it does not matter what matters is how we deal with that don't go slagging each other off, just meet the people you want to meet and smile at those you don't want and who knows maybe that couple or single woman will regret what they said or how they treated you when word gets around about how you treat the people you like. Yes what a race as in human, you got to love it. lol

12 Feb 2004

When I met you at the NW munch, I thought you were an OK geezer lol

. Although I get on with most people (well, I think I do!), there are definately a few around here (as in all walks of life) that need to either take a chill pill, grow up, or think before they hit their keyboards. This isn't directed at anyone, I'm just grumpy this morn :shock:
Now, I'm moving this to the cafe were we can discuss further rolleyes

12 Feb 2004

I dont think you can judge a person truly until you have spent some time in their company, God knows I have been guilty in the past of taking a dislike to somebody after a brief meet only to find once you get to know a person they turn out to be great company. biggrin

My better half(she) on the other hand is one of the sincerest people yuo could ever meet and I'm not just being biased 8) , she will not pre-judge anyone. I can come across as being miserable :sad:, only because I dont open up until I'm familiar with the company I'm in, however behind the scenes we both like fun and laughter and that's what life is about :D :D .

12 Feb 2004

Hi there OneOf wave

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What bluexxx has said goes for most of us who met you at the NW Munch. A great guy! None of us can get on with absolutely everyone but we should always be civil and polite at the very least. To be honest, if someone treats you badly then it says a lot more about them than it does about you. Leave them to it - they are very much in the minority around here.
That reminds me, it's about time we had that beer we promised ourselves! :cheers:

12 Feb 2004

Hello Will wave

how are you?
Think I have given the wrong impression here I was not talking about me and some other couple it was about a post made by somone else and how they were dealing with it the couple in question made the post and a single guy who was rejected (for whatever reason) was not happy about it and a slanging match kicked orf so to speak. Was just saying to people here get a grip and loosen up I wont be meeting any of the ladies I wanted to meet originally and I am not going to name names but. I have since found out what they are like and I dont care that I am not going to meet them its my choice. I dont care if there are people who dont like me. Life goes on people that is what I am trying to say to you all.

12 Feb 2004

Well said...It's having a cest la vie attitude that gets people through in life...Getting wound up about each and every little misshap causes ulcers,heart failure and we sure as hell don't want that on this site eh?!