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Hi people
we'll we are from the south too, West Sussex to be exact. Trouble is we have been tryingto organise parties for months now and most of the time, despite lots of interest you guys seem shy of turning up.
We always see lots of chit chat about and lots of people saying they are up for meets yet having spoken to over 500 guys in the past year we met just 10 and 4 of those we already knew.
It not as if we charge either we play at home and all it costs is the price of a packet of 3's
Maybe at 50 we are just too old for everyone here or maybe you all think we are too ugly or too grey or too something.
What troubles us most of all is the lack of good manners of course people have lives apart from swinging but a simple text message or a quick email cost nothing more then a few seconds to send. But there are guys here who have made arrangements to meet and simply vanish of the face of this earth, only to return 3 months later and ask for another date and time and they dont turn up the secoind time either. Needless to say they never get a third invite.
The main reason wny people up north get more fun is they are more open minded, and a lot more honest than us southerners. They also have a greater sense of adventure and a better sense of humour
Cheers
CK + Annabell
Well All the Admin Squirelss live in Portsmouth or Southampton, the SH office is in Segensworth.
We should have a munch, so who is going to be brave enough to hold a munch!
:P i hampshire hog born and bred too
lived most of me life ere. cant say all of it cos im still livin redface
Quote by Martin_M
Well All the Admin Squirelss live in Portsmouth or Southampton, the SH office is in Segensworth.
We should have a munch, so who is going to be brave enough to hold a munch!

well seeing as Segensworth is right in the middle between soton & pompy i think you should hold the munch in sh HQ biggrin
a travel lodge or two very close as well for people coming from further away sounds a great idea to me :D
my first munch thanks martin_m :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Quote by lovejoy68
Well All the Admin Squirelss live in Portsmouth or Southampton, the SH office is in Segensworth.
We should have a munch, so who is going to be brave enough to hold a munch!

well seeing as Segensworth is right in the middle between soton & pompy i think you should hold the munch in sh HQ biggrin
a travel lodge or two very close as well for people coming from further away sounds a great idea to me :D
my first munch thanks martin_m :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Try and keep us away if you dare rotflmao
so come on, when where?
Quote by Pete_sw
Well All the Admin Squirelss live in Portsmouth or Southampton, the SH office is in Segensworth.
We should have a munch, so who is going to be brave enough to hold a munch!

well seeing as Segensworth is right in the middle between soton & pompy i think you should hold the munch in sh HQ biggrin
a travel lodge or two very close as well for people coming from further away sounds a great idea to me :D
my first munch thanks martin_m :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Try and keep us away if you dare rotflmao
so come on, when where?
well seeing as we have seven pages of people from down ere i hope SH HQ is a big place :D
martin i am willing to be used as a drip tray for the barrel of brandy as long as the tap leaks lol
I'm in South Wales....does that count? :giggle: God bless the M4 !
Quote by worthingcouple
Hi people
we'll we are from the south too, West Sussex to be exact. Trouble is we have been tryingto organise parties for months now and most of the time, despite lots of interest you guys seem shy of turning up.
We always see lots of chit chat about and lots of people saying they are up for meets yet having spoken to over 500 guys in the past year we met just 10 and 4 of those we already knew.
It not as if we charge either we play at home and all it costs is the price of a packet of 3's
Maybe at 50 we are just too old for everyone here or maybe you all think we are too ugly or too grey or too something.
What troubles us most of all is the lack of good manners of course people have lives apart from swinging but a simple text message or a quick email cost nothing more then a few seconds to send. But there are guys here who have made arrangements to meet and simply vanish of the face of this earth, only to return 3 months later and ask for another date and time and they dont turn up the secoind time either. Needless to say they never get a third invite.
The main reason wny people up north get more fun is they are more open minded, and a lot more honest than us southerners. They also have a greater sense of adventure and a better sense of humour
Cheers
CK + Annabell

I reckon you'll find that meeting single guys off the internet is the same regardless of whether they are from up north or down south. I disagree with all of your assumptions about southerners. Also judging the honesty of southerners on the basis that lots of single guys don't show up for meets with you i find very bizarre.
theres been a lot of talk about a munch here in this list, has one been set in stone yet? if so please can i come.
also has the worthingcouple been invited who complained there were a shortage of takers it would be nice to put a face to a complaint wink
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm in South Wales....does that count? :giggle: God bless the M4 !

Me too. I've not been through all the post so might have missed it but are there any munches in this neck of the woods or do I have to travel half way across the country?
H.
Quote by worthingcouple
Hi people
we'll we are from the south too, West Sussex to be exact. Trouble is we have been tryingto organise parties for months now and most of the time, despite lots of interest you guys seem shy of turning up.
We always see lots of chit chat about and lots of people saying they are up for meets yet having spoken to over 500 guys in the past year we met just 10 and 4 of those we already knew.
It not as if we charge either we play at home and all it costs is the price of a packet of 3's
Maybe at 50 we are just too old for everyone here or maybe you all think we are too ugly or too grey or too something.
What troubles us most of all is the lack of good manners of course people have lives apart from swinging but a simple text message or a quick email cost nothing more then a few seconds to send. But there are guys here who have made arrangements to meet and simply vanish of the face of this earth, only to return 3 months later and ask for another date and time and they dont turn up the secoind time either. Needless to say they never get a third invite.
The main reason wny people up north get more fun is they are more open minded, and a lot more honest than us southerners. They also have a greater sense of adventure and a better sense of humour
Cheers
CK + Annabell

when i get the invite, i will be there...what are you up to tuesday evening..28/03/06 ... pack of 3 already in my pocket wink
from berkshire myself . if any one from berks or southeast wants too contact me feel free ! take care
Quote by worthingcouple
The main reason wny people up north get more fun is they are more open minded, and a lot more honest than us southerners. They also have a greater sense of adventure and a better sense of humour
Cheers
CK + Annabell

nah... it's not the North vs South thing goin on here is it?
I think you will find a lot of peeps on SH me included would not go to a meet unless it was posted on SH & then for security & privacy's sake it would have be hosted by a 'known munch organizer'
anything less would have to be a social & even then I would never go to a social hosted by an 'unknown' sorry for the unfortunate use of words but I hope you get my drift.
Personally I don't have that much time right now, but I know there are like minded guys n gals here who would love to hook up with you.
keep dipping your toe in the water... build up your fan base meet new peeps & bingo!!!
when you start to post for a new social you know you will have a full house... all for the pack of three :giggle:
keep on fluckin!
Quote by redpantherman
The main reason wny people up north get more fun is they are more open minded, and a lot more honest than us southerners. They also have a greater sense of adventure and a better sense of humour
Cheers
CK + Annabell

nah... it's not the North vs South thing goin on here is it?
I think you will find a lot of peeps on SH me included would not go to a meet unless it was posted on SH & then for security & privacy's sake it would have be hosted by a 'known munch organizer'
anything less would have to be a social & even then I would never go to a social hosted by an 'unknown' sorry for the unfortunate use of words but I hope you get my drift.
Personally I don't have that much time right now, but I know there are like minded guys n gals here who would love to hook up with you.
keep dipping your toe in the water... build up your fan base meet new peeps & bingo!!!
when you start to post for a new social you know you will have a full house... all for the pack of three :giggle:
keep on fluckin!
Have to agree..we are from the south (Bristol) and we go to lots of events..however, as it says above we would not to a party in the home of people we did not know..in the same way that, when I was single, I would not meet anyone in their own home either. Best to meet people on 'neutral' ground first (socials, munches) and get yourself known on here...then have a party and, I'm sure, plenty will turn up biggrin
As a midlander, we seem to be considered by Northerners to be from down south, and of course Southerners think we're from the north....so we cant win either way..... lol
Quote by Dlep
As a midlander, we seem to be considered by Northerners to be from down south, and of course Southerners think we're from the north....so we cant win either way..... lol

No you cant you northerner type person you!!! :giggle:
Hi Guys Im Dorchester, anyone else near by?
Ahhh... nothing like a really old thread! :-D
I'm in the south wave
So's the wife ;-)
Quote by berksbex
So, anyone else going to the London munch in March then?

Anyone planning to arrange another London Munch?
Btw im a southerner too biggrin yipeeeeeeeeeeee
Louise xx
I'm from the south but not in England. Does that matter?? dunno
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Quote by westerross
I'm from the south but not in England. Does that matter?? dunno
.

Normally yes, but we'll make an exception for you wink biggrin
Quote by louise_and_joe
So, anyone else going to the London munch in March then?

Anyone planning to arrange another London Munch?
Btw im a southerner too biggrin yipeeeeeeeeeeee
Louise xx
there is one, on the 11th November...or is that sosh?..
oh, I dunno....
Im south!!
have been known to venture above watford... >scary!<
but im from southerer than that!
Quote by LondonPlaything
have been known to venture above watford... >scary!<

Wuss!
Quote by LondonPlaything
So, anyone else going to the London munch in March then?

Anyone planning to arrange another London Munch?
Btw im a southerner too biggrin yipeeeeeeeeeeee
Louise xx
there is one, on the 11th November...or is that sosh?..
oh, I dunno....
Im south!!
have been known to venture above watford... >scary!<
but im from southerer than that!
Southerer, ive never heard of that word before. lol Does it exist.? Watford? Wheres Watford? :lol:
Louise xx
Quote by louise_and_joe
Southerer, ive never heard of that word before. lol Does it exist.? Watford? Wheres Watford? :lol:
Louise xx

*southerer* exists in my book...
but ive heard *watford* is naught but a myth
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have been known to venture above watford... >scary!<

Wuss!
see?!
told ya!
yep me to chandlers ford.. luvly place
:thumbup: Hi all. :shock: So many of you out there!! Give us a wave wave when we pass in the street! wink
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