Spiritual love, Emotional love, Sexual love, love for a child, for a parent, for a sister or brother, for a friend, for God. : CAN LOVE LAST? I don't think so, people change their minds all the time, they love you today, fall out of love with you tomorrow, love can never be a permanent state because we are ruled by our emotions and they are always changing, the same as our minds, the same as changing our clothes, ruled by our moods, our desires, our wants, we get married, then see someone we desire more, never satisfied, always looking for someone or something better, seeking wealth and still more wealth.
The biscuit manufacturer THEADORE WESTON was a multimillionaire but he was never satisfied, he kept on and on accumulating wealth until he died, never had and could never get enough, arn't we all like him???
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I think that love can last,actually i don't think so i know so,i have to because i believe that me and my beautiful wife will be together always.
Obviously this isnt always the way it is,but if you cant believe that your love for someone will last the test of time then your doomed before you begin.
Obviously this isnt always the way it is,but if you cant believe that your love for someone will last the test of time then your doomed before you begin.
If I thought there was better out there for me then I wouldn't have married Morbius .... but I know that he is perfect for me. If I thought someone could give me greater love then I would still be waiting ..... because he gives me everything I need ~ love being the greatest.
Just after I joined someone posted the bible passage about love .... we have it inscribed in our wedding rings ... because love means everything to us.
I won't deny that we notice qualities in other people (we wouldn't be swingers otherwise ;) ) we do crave more wealth, our desires change, our emotions vary from day to day, but ..... because we are in love and have love in our lives we do these things together.
What I have learned is that you can't measure love ... you can't compare it to other people. Love is different and adapts to individuals and circumstances.
My grandparents celebrated their 50th Wedding anniversary in November, my darling Nan died on Xmas Eve, and watching my Grandad survive (because that's what he does now ~ he doesn't live without her) without her love and being unable to love her back is heartbreaking.
Love does last ..... it can last.
Just after I joined someone posted the bible passage about love .... we have it inscribed in our wedding rings ... because love means everything to us.
I won't deny that we notice qualities in other people (we wouldn't be swingers otherwise ;) ) we do crave more wealth, our desires change, our emotions vary from day to day, but ..... because we are in love and have love in our lives we do these things together.
What I have learned is that you can't measure love ... you can't compare it to other people. Love is different and adapts to individuals and circumstances.
My grandparents celebrated their 50th Wedding anniversary in November, my darling Nan died on Xmas Eve, and watching my Grandad survive (because that's what he does now ~ he doesn't live without her) without her love and being unable to love her back is heartbreaking.
Love does last ..... it can last.
Thought provoking stuff. I believe in love because without it there is nothing. I have been in love and I love my children deeply. they are my life and I know I willalways love and trasure them. I hope you can believe OK for your own sake
there are some amazing people around you just need to find one
All the best to you
there are some amazing people around you just need to find one
All the best to you
I do believe in love,as in that respect i have it all!
I have a husband whom i love dearly,and yes our desires and needs,and emotions change,but for us that is what makes an ever changing and evolving us it makes us closer and stronger all the time.
We have been together 8 years in October and i can't imagine a day in my life with out Steve in it,its that simple.
Of course we desire more wealth,but if you havent got enough then surely thats i have said before in another thread,its not money that makes you happy i think though if you already have happiness then a little bit of money certainly isnt going to do you any harm!!
I also have two kids whom i love with all my heart and soul,there is no comparison to the pure innocent unconditional love which i get from them,i would do anything for them and believe me that is a powerful love.
I have a husband whom i love dearly,and yes our desires and needs,and emotions change,but for us that is what makes an ever changing and evolving us it makes us closer and stronger all the time.
We have been together 8 years in October and i can't imagine a day in my life with out Steve in it,its that simple.
Of course we desire more wealth,but if you havent got enough then surely thats i have said before in another thread,its not money that makes you happy i think though if you already have happiness then a little bit of money certainly isnt going to do you any harm!!
I also have two kids whom i love with all my heart and soul,there is no comparison to the pure innocent unconditional love which i get from them,i would do anything for them and believe me that is a powerful love.
Well thats a quality reply Calista... and you can only relate that by having actually felt it..
For me personally, I believe in love but it seems to elude me. Just when I think I've found it something happens and it slips away. Some would argue that it wasn't love if it felw away so easily but to me it was real enough at the time. I'm not saying that I fall in love at the drop of a hat but I do tend to trust to soon and completely.
I have always held the opinion that I will like you until you give me a reason not to then it's shutters down, fences up and full security team in place.
Can Love Last?
For some, for sure... they are the lucky ones who have found their soul mate.
For the rest, well we keep on searching until we find the true One, but I would say that the over-riding answer to the question is an emphatic Yes.
Wishmaster.
You cannot be what you want to be if you do not know who you are.
Time is relative.
The past is gone and the future isn't here yet.
Thoughts of the past happen in THISmoment.
Visions of the future happen in THISmoment.
Your point of power is NOW.
For me personally, I believe in love but it seems to elude me. Just when I think I've found it something happens and it slips away. Some would argue that it wasn't love if it felw away so easily but to me it was real enough at the time. I'm not saying that I fall in love at the drop of a hat but I do tend to trust to soon and completely.
I have always held the opinion that I will like you until you give me a reason not to then it's shutters down, fences up and full security team in place.
Can Love Last?
For some, for sure... they are the lucky ones who have found their soul mate.
For the rest, well we keep on searching until we find the true One, but I would say that the over-riding answer to the question is an emphatic Yes.
Wishmaster.
You cannot be what you want to be if you do not know who you are.
Time is relative.
The past is gone and the future isn't here yet.
Thoughts of the past happen in THISmoment.
Visions of the future happen in THISmoment.
Your point of power is NOW.
I believe deeply in love.
I love my children and husband with all my heart. I not only love him but am in love with him.
Some may think then I am being hypocrital by being on here. Perhaps I am. But I also feel a love for my friends - a different type of love perhaps - but love or an emotion very close to it anyway. It does not detract however from my love for my family.
And can love last - yes I believe it can.
Alex x x
I love my children and husband with all my heart. I not only love him but am in love with him.
Some may think then I am being hypocrital by being on here. Perhaps I am. But I also feel a love for my friends - a different type of love perhaps - but love or an emotion very close to it anyway. It does not detract however from my love for my family.
And can love last - yes I believe it can.
Alex x x
Sex God
Alex what wise words..........and mine too.
People are individuals and so is love. I have found my true love.........soulmate......whatever you would like to call it...........and have been lucky to have found it, and ..............................................ohhhhh nooooooooo !!!!!! Mrfc don't ou dare be sick on my new carpet !!!!!!!!!!!
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People are individuals and so is love. I have found my true love.........soulmate......whatever you would like to call it...........and have been lucky to have found it, and ..............................................ohhhhh nooooooooo !!!!!! Mrfc don't ou dare be sick on my new carpet !!!!!!!!!!!
:evil: :evil: The love a parent feels for their child never diminishes. I love my daughter more than life itself. I don't always like her, but I will always love her, regardless of the type of person she may grow up to be.
The lasting love others feel for their partners is amazing. I don't think it's something that will ever happen to me. Just as well I like my own company!
The lasting love others feel for their partners is amazing. I don't think it's something that will ever happen to me. Just as well I like my own company!
Sex God
Boy do I like Alex's distinction between love and being in love. Being in love is ephemeral - it can evapourate in an instant. Love - true love builds on itself (although I think it can be eroded too) - this is the meaningful condition in which a parent unconditionally loves their children (practically unerodable - new word??) or a long term relationship between adults, tempered by time and still strong and affectionate.
Sex God
i believe in a thing called love . . . . wowhooehagheiu . . . . .sorry strangled the high notes . . .
i have no kids! thank the lord!!! i get as much as i need 1 or 2 days a week from the bleeding 9 year old i have here every weekend! pesky feckers ain't they! always soooooo relieved to give him back ffs!
girlfriends???? hmmmmm!!!! can't seem to get the hang of that, even with 12 years between 3 of 'em.
not a bad way to live . . . . make sure you give 'em a long enough rope to hang 'emselves though, should work out fine! ;-)
neil x x x x x ;-)
i have no kids! thank the lord!!! i get as much as i need 1 or 2 days a week from the bleeding 9 year old i have here every weekend! pesky feckers ain't they! always soooooo relieved to give him back ffs!
girlfriends???? hmmmmm!!!! can't seem to get the hang of that, even with 12 years between 3 of 'em.
Quote by Wishmaster
I have always held the opinion that I will like you until you give me a reason not to then it's shutters down, fences up and full security team in place.
not a bad way to live . . . . make sure you give 'em a long enough rope to hang 'emselves though, should work out fine! ;-)
neil x x x x x ;-)
