Personal meet or clubs

23 Sep 2005

I was wondering what peoples opinions were on clubs or personal meets. Are personal meets better than clubs or vice versa?

23 Sep 2005

clubs are good because you can sit back take it all in ,if your new to the scene and can give people a chance to take you 2 in,then you can have alook around facilitys get a drift of what goes on,private meets are good its gives you a chance to see who your meeting and to see if there is s spark there any way try both set your limits and stick to them. and any way welcome and take your time and enjoy.

23 Sep 2005

If I am playing as a single female then only a club will do unless I know and trust the people whole heartedly. Meets I've had outside of clubs are very intimate and cosy as you have all the home comforts around you.
Just from a safety aspect really I would never go to a big club on my own where the reception is downstairs or well away from the playing areas cos I have my own well-being to think of if anything should go wrong... not that it would but I like to plan ahead.
I've only had onebad meeting and thats cos the person wasn't into the club scene and the person was pushy, impatient and quite offhand so I'd be inclinded to say...
It's not where you go, it's who you're with that makes a good time.
kiss

Gem. x

23 Sep 2005

I thnk Steph has got it right. For us we like to socialise and then be in private with the person or people we choose to be with. We've thought about clubs and whilst H would probably be up for that with little or no reservations, it is me who (at the moment at least) has all the reservations about the club scene, particularly as we are still very very new to all this.
So it's all down to how you feel really.
M