I am a mature married guy on Swinging heaven looking for some NS fun. This is from what I can see similar to many other guys and gals. What is puzzling me is this handle many of us chaps get associated with....Pervs, Sickos, Weirdos and Dirty Old men. I know I don't see the replies some men sent the ladies, so there may well be a lots of these chaps around. I have also noted that this site is used by ladies and gentlemen of all ages, races, marital status, religions, sizes and sexual oriemtation. Lots of ads from both sexes state what it is they want to do or be done to them, sometimes in graphic detail. I can't for teh life of me understand why a guy who places and ad saying come and do this and that, or who replies to an ad asking for this and that saying 'Sure thing Baby I'll do....this for you' is classified in such a way. If the lady, young or old places a graphic ad or replies in detail about what she is prepared to do, how is she classified? Are all guys pidgeon holed as sickos and pervs? Are all guys over a certain age boxed as dirty old men?
I'm curious to know, how the ladies put the guys in yes, no, possible piles? How the guys pidgeon hole the ladies, if they do?
As I say I am a mature guy, married after some healthy fun. Does this make me a Perv, Sicko, Weirdo and Dirty Old Man all together?
GH
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Casanova
Dont ask me, I am a Letch
Who has classified you in this way?
I have to say it's not a labelling I've come across frequently on this site, without either good reason, or when people are joking with one another.
For instance we all know that Sarge is a dirty old man, that Mal is a Perv, that Vix is a Sicko, and you don't get much more Weirdo than Venus, but there you go, such is life. :P
Jas
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I have to say it's not a labelling I've come across frequently on this site, without either good reason, or when people are joking with one another.
For instance we all know that Sarge is a dirty old man, that Mal is a Perv, that Vix is a Sicko, and you don't get much more Weirdo than Venus, but there you go, such is life. :P
Jas
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Hi Jas,
I cannot say that I have been called any of these things directly. I am asking a question based upon what I read in ads posted by some ladies. The label(s) are specific, implied or perceived from these. I have no wish to insult anyone or categorise all, I am just baffled.
If a 50 year old married guy places an ad is it viewed in exactly the same way as a 50 year old married lady? In fact is any ad placed by a married man the same as a lady of any age? Is there any differance in the way an explicit ad is viewed if it is placed by a guy or gal?
GH
I cannot say that I have been called any of these things directly. I am asking a question based upon what I read in ads posted by some ladies. The label(s) are specific, implied or perceived from these. I have no wish to insult anyone or categorise all, I am just baffled.
If a 50 year old married guy places an ad is it viewed in exactly the same way as a 50 year old married lady? In fact is any ad placed by a married man the same as a lady of any age? Is there any differance in the way an explicit ad is viewed if it is placed by a guy or gal?
GH
Sex God
I'm not sure whether I really want to raise this but....there is a whole can of worms associated with you being a married guy looking for NSA sex. Many women here and elsewhere are unwilling to get involved with someone like that because it can lead to real trouble down the line. Others have very strong views about people cheating on spouses (which most will say is not part of swinging). So if you are expecting people to have sex with you on spec as it were i.e. without knowing you then you are expecting quite a lot.
Can't comment on the name calling but it may be a reaction in light of the above.
Can't comment on the name calling but it may be a reaction in light of the above.
All I see are the nicest bunch of blokes this side of the Atlantic..
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I am a mature married guy on Swinging heaven looking for some NS fun. This is from what I can see similar to many other guys and gals. What is puzzling me is this handle many of us chaps get associated with....Pervs, Sickos, Weirdos and Dirty Old men. I know I don't see the replies some men sent the ladies, so there may well be a lots of these chaps around. I have also noted that this site is used by ladies and gentlemen of all ages, races, marital status, religions, sizes and sexual oriemtation. Lots of ads from both sexes state what it is they want to do or be done to them, sometimes in graphic detail. I can't for teh life of me understand why a guy who places and ad saying come and do this and that, or who replies to an ad asking for this and that saying 'Sure thing Baby I'll do....this for you' is classified in such a way. If the lady, young or old places a graphic ad or replies in detail about what she is prepared to do, how is she classified? Are all guys pidgeon holed as sickos and pervs? Are all guys over a certain age boxed as dirty old men?
I'm curious to know, how the ladies put the guys in yes, no, possible piles? How the guys pidgeon hole the ladies, if they do?
As I say I am a mature guy, married after some healthy fun. Does this make me a Perv, Sicko, Weirdo and Dirty Old Man all together?
GH
no but if your married and wifey dosnt know, you could be called a cheat .....
not by me because i dont care what people do as long as it dosnt hurt me. its your karma
x rache x
Sex God
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For instance we all know that Sarge is a dirty old man,
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Oih!! You Cheeky Mare!!
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: I thought I was being kind
I mean, you do actually qualify for all of them :P
Jas
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You were. You wanna hear what some people call him in front of his back. :shock: :shock: :shock:
I didn't know such words even existed until I joined here (being sweet an' innocent an' all. :angel: )
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You were. You wanna hear what some people call him in front of his back. :shock: :shock: :shock:
I didn't know such words even existed until I joined here (being sweet an' innocent an' all. :angel: )
I no what you mean easy me to!.......... Dare i say the word what us peep call him sometimes! :shock:
Ok here we go i will type it small ......as we dont want any one else to be corrupted
Here we go
nearly there
Sarge
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Are all guys over a certain age boxed as dirty old men?
I'm curious to know, how the ladies put the guys in yes, no, possible piles? How the guys pidgeon hole the ladies, if they do?
As I say I am a mature guy, married after some healthy fun. Does this make me a Perv, Sicko, Weirdo and Dirty Old Man all together?
GH
Warwick
we have a problem this guy is trying to steal our thunder here i always thought we were the only two who qualified for all of these tags
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It was something about the way you walked!
:shock: :shock: you mean i can walk and i no longer need this wheel chair! :shock:
It's amazing what a little bit of good old fashioned sex can do to your legs!
tell me about it
Whats the wife doing....I really must have a word. Can you do this Debbie?
Sex God
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It was something about the way you walked!
:shock: :shock: you mean i can walk and i no longer need this wheel chair! :shock:
It's amazing what a little bit of good old fashioned sex can do to your legs!
tell me about it
An OAP Pole Dancer, and who says cod liver oil doesnt work :thumbup: :giggle:
Warming the Bed
I can be any of these when needs be. Try getting yourself known mate before making the advances. This is what I am trying to do and sometimes it's a bit 
but persevere and I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for.
but persevere and I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for. 
Sex God
GH, it's worth pointing out that only a tiny minority of the people who put ads in the ad section are users of this forum.
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Whatever happened to "Kinky" ?
'Snot fair.
It's all them pervs and weirdos and dirty ole men taking over this site.
Equal rights for kinky feckers in SH
ER! Nowt, I'm right here. Thanks for being concerned though mate.
I think there is really only one perv on the site and that is Debs! :twisted:
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