Photo Ad responses - choosing/replying etiquette?

8 Sep 2005

Sorry Duncan, you've lost me with that last post, I don't really get what any advice given to guys has to do with it anything I posted about me, but it's making sense to you and I'm happy enough despite being in need of some saucy bi totty.........so it's all ok biggrin

8 Sep 2005

Thanks for being very reasonable. I think I was into something not related to what you are doing.
Have fun and take care

8 Sep 2005

Quote by duncanlondon
Thanks for being very reasonable. I think I was into something not related to what you are doing.
Have fun and take care

Have you been at the sugar coated cereals again,duncan????
what does this mean?

I think I was into something not related to what you are doing.

And how does that relate in any way to you saying 'dipity got better advice because she is female?
Or were you just posting the first thing in your head?

8 Sep 2005

Hi postie, where did you get the snip quote from?

8 Sep 2005

Quote by duncanlondon
Hi postie, where did you get the snip quote from?

Use the quote button..... located here>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> in the corner!

8 Sep 2005

Quote by deancannock
they will be more than pleased to have made it to last three......and if they answered correctly the first time...will be more than pleased to try again to be that lucky one.....but hey don't throw away those other two..keep them in reserve incase your first choice doesn't turn out as expected...good luck and just wish i lived closer !!!!!

I did try and warn you....hope you found another now !!!!

8 Sep 2005

You did and I listened!

8 Sep 2005

Quote by duncanlondon
Hi snippie, where did you get the snip quote from?

:laughabove: :laughabove:

8 Sep 2005

if he was submissive why did he not give in to your charms???????????????

9 Sep 2005

Quote by kazswallows

It was all going so well!!
Took all the advice, asked all the questions, sent polite no thanks emails to the other guys as I found the perfect person for what I wanted to arrange.....and now he's got cold feet <sniff>
Obviously I'm glad he's being honest and telling me, but there something about this person that really stood out from the others! I have no intention of pushing him but I have tried to talk through his concerns in the hope that he'll reconsider trying something for the first time, I know he's interested as he replied to my ad but am I wrong to be emailing him back? I think it's a lot of nerves and possibly a little fear of his own sexuality but by giving him time to think, am I just making it worse for him - I'm worried that I'm being passively pushy when I don't mean to?
This wasn't meant to be this difficult!! Help needed again, please!!

mwahhhhh hun, it is probably just cold feet, thou' most men won't admit to them smile

Send him a chatty email back, no pressure, and just say if he changes his mind (warms his feet up) to give you a call (email/text etc). Then I would leave it alone and give him some breathing space.
If it is a simple matter of just cold feet then hopefully he will understand that you arn't going to push him faster than he's willing to go and in a few days get back in touch.
If he does, take it slow, I understand you want NSA but if he's worth it, then what harm will it do.
There is the other side, that he's 'spoken for', a piccie collecter or tease......I hope thats not the case, but taking a step backwards should give you some idea if he's just playing the game, and if he is you will just have to chalk it up to experience.
Hope it works out for you :)
kaz xx
i have go t cold feet in the past..... it can just be that i am not in the mood
MikeC