I placed an ad a few days ago and have had a good level response, every one of which contained several sentences that made sense and were interesting. Most of the responses met the criteria (except one who proved their submissive nature by sending me a list of pre-meet demands and not much else - should I laugh or send back a cyber spanking?
). So, I'm now at a crossroads on what to do next....As I've never had to consider a large (ish) number of responses before, my plan is to decide on the three who seem most suited, email them again with a few questions about themselves and a list of questions that I specifically want to ask and swap photos. I'd rather be honest and tell them that I'm doing this but is this a bit clinical and is there a better (politer) way to do that part? and should pic swaps wait a bit longer?
I want to be up front with people about how I'm going to make a decision but I don't want to make it seem like it's a test of some kind either. How would you guys do this
: Advice from anyone who's been on the receiving end of these kind of emails would be great too!!
).....so if he thinks about it and still decides to say no, I won't pursue it as it's not fair, I'd probably be really annoyed if I said no and someone persisted 
