Do you go into a paticular chatroom alot? Have you found that the people in this chatroom have become more of a friend to you now and so that means you couldn't possibly give a blojob on cam or play on cam in that room?? Do you find that the people in that chatroom have become more like family than swingers??
I held a bit of a social gathering last week and we all agreed we could never do anything in our regular chatroom now as it would be too imbarresing. Do you find this too?? I know its strange as it is still a swing site at the end of the day but do you find that the more you get to know about ur swing mates the less your lightly to swing with them?
Lassy i agree with you on this one....
it also becomes a thing that you never want to play with the friends that you have made as you don't want to ruin the friendship.....
nor do you know if certain people want to play as neither person will state it so you end up never having the fun in the bedroom because they have become 'such' good friends
but how do you sort the dilema hmmmm ?
mmmm Lassy say it again it just turns me on even more !!!!!
YOU LIKE THAT DON'T YA HAH??? OHHH YEAH BABY LOL
ewww nope i just cant do it lol your a friend I couldn't possibly be dirty with you grrrr somone do some stiring so i fall out with gurl then i can be as randy with them glow in the dark spongebob panties as i like :twisted:
i know exactly what u mean. I would never play on cam in mids room and get embarassed if i have my tits out in another room and someone from mids comes in.
We have some fantastic friends in mids room who we know so well we just couldnt get it on with and others that we played with first and become good friends after and still play with.
So my advice is shag everyone first then make friends with em lol
well thats my excuse whats yours
Did someone say "bigger tits?"
If you don't know me, let me know, so I don't get to know you, and then you can show me them if you like.
I think that makes sense.
That's not the first time someone has suggested a bag over the face for me! lmao!
Do I know you? You see I'm worried if I do know you, and I wear my bag (I'll draw a smiley face to make you go weak at the knees), then you may not know me, which renders the bag unnecessary, however if you do know me then the bag may well be necessary, but I could then pretend that I don't know you which, if you are bonkers, you may well believe and then think you don't know me. As such we could both know and not know each other and still, I think, resolve the breast fondling situation.
Or, you can keep your eyes closed through it all and pretend you know me, even if you don't. Or pretend you don't know me, even if you do.
Problem solved!
Oh hell yer we know this one very well. We won't go to far on cam in NE room because it's like extended family, If we do want to do hornier stuff we tend to find a different room and if I sany NE room regs come in I go bright red...Geoff doesn't tho cos he's a tart...lol
AT LASTTTTTTTTTTT
I have found someone as bonkers as me just when i had given up all hope....
come fondle and fiddle til you keel over!! bag or no bag this is worth a giggle
<<Warms hands by radiator>>
Now do you want the left one tuning first or the right one? If I'm good I may be able to pick up BBC Radio 5.
And you think this is mad? You've not read my profile then obviously.
As for the OP... I can understand it to an extent if you have a close circle of friends in any one room, however I am kind of the opposite. I feel much more comfortable with people that I know and I know Mrs R feels the same. Whether that's in the flesh or in a virtual room. I find anonymity a bit disconcerting.
Great thread.
I couldn't agree more with almost everything that has been said because I am all of those things depending on what mood I am in.
Can't say I've got a problem with anyone seeing the old chap....I just seem to find the allure of exhibitionism is waning as my waistline grows...you might think me vain but such a base emotion is beneath me ....honest
well my beautiful partner has put on a post, echoing what we have discussed privately and in groups, it brings about great conversation. I have been a member on here since its birth, and have met some fantastic people, most becoming good friends. Its how lassy and myself met,swinging as a foursome with our previous partners, so yeh, we did the sex, then became friends for life. However, those that know me, know I have no problem being seen live and on cam, minus clothing! Normally for a giggle, but occasionaly for horny fun too. Some great friends in the mids room, and yeh, it would feel odd performing amongst 'family' but would not phase me either! Getting inside someones mind, being attracted to their personality, intrigued by their conversation and aroused by their sexuality, would want me to get up close and personal, so I can see the logic in both approaches, friends or performing seals, both do it for me lol, great thread duchess!