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As I'm new here, I'd like to check what the accepted rules are regarding PM'ing people in the forum. I know that you need to ask permission in IRC, and was wondering if similar rules apply here? It's common sense that it's impolite to start propositioning people at random, but do you need to ask before chatting to people in PM?
Apologies if I'm asking something that's answered in a FAQ somewhere, I did have a hunt around, honest smile
I don't think you need to ask permission before PM-ing someone in the forum - although obviously be polite and don't send them something you know they won't want to receive.
Chairman Mioaw,
Pms are allowed as has already been said if your polite etc etc,it just nice to get a pm saying hi sometimes(its been a while rolleyes )or if you like someones profile
Clare,xxx
wink
Just warning anyone thinking of sending a PM to me, asking for a shag. DON'T, unless I have a post on the forum asking for one. I will not be happy and I will most probably be rude. (Some people are exempt from this rule - you know who you are wink )
You have been warned evil
Other types of PM are of course OK lol
Blue - you know if many of the regs see that - you will get a stream of 'Fancy a shag' PMs!!!!
rolleyes
ooo ive pm'd before and not asked permission
but never been told off yet :twisted:
mind you mine were general advice stuff......and thats my story and im sticking to it.....
Ah, but how shocked would you be if I said yes? wink
Just warning anyone thinking of sending a PM to me, asking for a shag. DON'T, unless I have a post on the forum asking for one. I will not be happy

I suppose a bj is out of the question?
Join the queue, there are only 130 people in front of you wink
ChairmanMiaow, hey!
well i can honestly say that most pm's are always very welcome!!! so long as they don't ask in a crude, crass way for a shag ((( i should be so damn lucky )))
or tell you that you're an absolute, sad, fecking twat for deciding, say for instance, to become an op in a chatroom not a million miles away!!! :lol2: but you learn to shake that sorta thing off quite quickly! :P
neil x x x x x
Can you borrow one of those ticket machiones they have on the deli in Tescos ands a little sign
NOW BLOWING No __
biggrin a ticket machine like that would make a very funny Chrismas present for someone!
Thanks for the answers - if I understand this ok, PMing's fine, just try not to leave your social skills at the door smile
CM
Quote by clarensteve_lincs_69796
Chairman Mioaw,
Pms are allowed as has already been said if your polite etc etc,it just nice to get a pm saying hi sometimes(its been a while rolleyes )or if you like someones profile
Clare,xxx
wink

Don't know why you think that????
Quote by neilinleeds
ChairmanMiaow, hey!
well i can honestly say that most pm's are always very welcome!!! so long as they don't ask in a crude, crass way for a shag ((( i should be so damn lucky )))

awhhhhh shucks Neil ..... i was just gonna send u a PM about that rolleyes confused Won't bother now ! :P :grin:
Lucy kiss
Blue can I be please. I'll only keep you a minute , pfomise
Quote by Jags
Chairman Mioaw,
Pms are allowed as has already been said if your polite etc etc,it just nice to get a pm saying hi sometimes(its been a while rolleyes )or if you like someones profile
Clare,xxx
wink

Don't know why you think that????
Why not????
If youd like to explain....
Clare,xxx
:wink:
Explain?? :shock:
Explain whats wrong with what i think of pms confused
Clare,xxx
wink
Blue can I be please. I'll only keep you a minute , pfomise

I was joking , (now there's a first). I suggest you Read BlueXXXs profile./web site If it still floats your boat . then I have no problem with that before anyone gets on their high horse .
It's just you Mark, turn your central heating down, it's nearly summer you know lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by bluexxx
I will not be happy and I will most probably be rude.

I've seen some of what Blue is capable of when she's not happy. You really really really don't want to do it.
On the other hand, who wouldn't welcome a nice polite "that was a great post", "thanks for making me laugh", or "you sound like you need a big hug"?
My impression (please correct me if I'm wrong, I'm just a newbie!) was that uninvited PMs were banned in chat mainly because they mess with the java browser.
As useful side-effect of the ban is that it doubles as good way to quickly filter out people who can't follow rules and have them kicked, which doesn't really apply to the forums.
I've had quite a few uninvited PMs here and in chat, and I've not been offended by any of them, simply because they were nice polite (and occasionally very attractive sounding) people who I would have said yes to if they had asked for permission to PM, and who were new enough not to know the ropes - but then again I don't use the java chat, so I can cope with many threads of conversation at once.
If anyone wants to PM me here or in chat, please do so.
Maybe it's one of those 'single men' things and I'd feel differently about it if I was female / a couple and therfore getting pestered more often?
Just thought I'd dig this out. lol :lol:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/6977.html
Quote by DJohn
I will not be happy and I will most probably be rude.

I've seen some of what Blue is capable of when she's not happy. You really really really don't want to do it.
On the other hand, who wouldn't welcome a nice polite "that was a great post", "thanks for making me laugh", or "you sound like you need a big hug"?
Fantastic idea John - as usual. Oh, and welcome back, was going to send out the St Bernard's for you. biggrin :D
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Wise words from JudyTV - as always!