not quite sure if this is the right place to post this but i'm having problems getting replies. just never seem to get any. this is a genuine post, not trying to get people to look at my ad and dont mind if men or women have any suggestions to prove it is genuine. is it because of my age? dont count myself to be too bad looking so doubt its that, without being big 't i being taken seriously? or is it generally because nobody is interested? i am genuinely looking to the swinging scene and if anyone can give me a few pointers to get more response then please let me know. thanks in advance.
john xxx
oh and my ad is
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-258522.html
so you can check to see what im doing wrong, if anything
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Pointers... Help Please
Sex God
Hi John, just had a quick look at your ad and it may be worth adding a bit more information about yourself, for example can accommodate, or do you only travel, is just single females you are looking for or would you consider couples etc etc etc. Rather than just start with the line about wanting a f**k (which does make it sound a little like you are just looking for an hooker rather than a swinging friend), perhaps you could re-phrase it?
Remember there are thousands of single males out there looking for couples/females and you have to show why they should contact you rather than the other 999 of them. You need to show why you are special.
Just my thoughts for what they are worth. Anyway, good luck and hope you have fun.
Remember there are thousands of single males out there looking for couples/females and you have to show why they should contact you rather than the other 999 of them. You need to show why you are special.
Just my thoughts for what they are worth. Anyway, good luck and hope you have fun.
Sex God
I would say one of the main reasons you are not getting any replies is because you are one of thousands of men who advertise daily.
Women on the other hand are few in comparission, so can afford to be more choosy about who they wish to reply to.
What makes you so special compared to the other guys ads? Certainly not the expression "I want a good fucking"
You ad is much the same as many other ads, although it does not stand out particularly IMO.
Maybe if you removed the bit about oral and replaced it with some details about yourself instead - likes, dislikes, maybe offer to meet for a drink first etc, it may help?
Asking for an instant shag won't work I'm afraid. It takes time to make friends and lets face it, most women want a friend who they can shag, not a total stranger whom they know nothing about at all
Patience is the name of this game and I'm afraid you will just have to learn some if you hope to succeed on this site mate :?
Tracy-Jayne
Women on the other hand are few in comparission, so can afford to be more choosy about who they wish to reply to.
What makes you so special compared to the other guys ads? Certainly not the expression "I want a good fucking"
You ad is much the same as many other ads, although it does not stand out particularly IMO.
Maybe if you removed the bit about oral and replaced it with some details about yourself instead - likes, dislikes, maybe offer to meet for a drink first etc, it may help?
Asking for an instant shag won't work I'm afraid. It takes time to make friends and lets face it, most women want a friend who they can shag, not a total stranger whom they know nothing about at all
Patience is the name of this game and I'm afraid you will just have to learn some if you hope to succeed on this site mate :?
Tracy-Jayne
Sex God
Much better John.Hope you find what you are hoping for
T-J
Sex God
Nah sorry mate! You're too far away and I never need travel more than a few miles for my fun :twisted:
T-J
:twisted: T-J
Sex God
Just had a look at the new ad - brilliant!
Now you need to start joining in with the banter on the forums, get yourself known a bit and I am sure you will have a great time!!
Good luck,
Now you need to start joining in with the banter on the forums, get yourself known a bit and I am sure you will have a great time!!
Good luck,
