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Would you like to see who has added you to their frends/likes list?

Hi SH Team
I have used dating websites in the past and one of the cool tools they had was being able to show you who had added you to their fiends list.
It was really cool. As it allowed the other person to make first contact in case they forgot to drop you a line after doing it.
Adding a person to your friends or likes list is a lot more significant than just peeking at a profile which is what we have at the moment.
Ive attached a poll for people to mark if they'd like to see a facility like this addedd to our homepages.
Friday
There's no "not bothered" option. rolleyes
I have people on my friends list that are friends but I also have people there because I know I need to go back and check a profile, ad or want to bring something up to other mods for some reason.
So no, I don't want people to know that I have them on a friends list.
Quote by Fridayiminlove
I have used dating websites in the past and one of the cool tools they had was being able to show you who had added you to their fiends list.
It was really cool. As it allowed the other person to make first contact in case they forgot to drop you a line after doing it.
Adding a person to your friends or likes list is a lot more significant than just peeking at a profile which is what we have at the moment.
Ive attached a poll for people to mark if they'd like to see a facility like this addedd to our homepages.
Friday

this isn't a dating website....
so no, there are many reasons why I would have people on my friends list and me on theirs... it aint anyones business and certainly does not mean that I want to meet/get to know/or talk to them
splendid
I call it my hitlist...not my friends list, most people in it are on it for other reasons rolleyes
I don't have any friends. :smug:
In some ways it would be nice to know, but in my case it would probibly turn into a curse as the list would be far too long to cope with! Also I might develop a terrible ego and we wouldn't want that would we? :grin:
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have any friends. :smug:

Ahhhhh sad :( wave I'll be your friend. :giggle:
Louise xx
Quote by louise_and_joe
I don't have any friends. :smug:

Ahhhhh sad :( wave I'll be your friend. :giggle:
Louise xx
I don't have friends... I only have lovers. :grin:
Still interested?
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have any friends. :smug:

sad
H.x
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have any friends. :smug:

Ahhhhh sad :( wave I'll be your friend. :giggle:
Louise xx
I don't have friends... I only have lovers. :grin:
Still interested?
Of course :twisted:
Louise xx
Quote by H-x
I don't have any friends. :smug:

sad
H.x
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have friends... I only have lovers. :grin:
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have any friends. :smug:

sad
H.x
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have friends... I only have lovers. :grin:

cool
H.x
I'd say no, as we tend to use the friends list as an address book, a handy list of people we can PM or have already PM'd, and just want to keep track of without resorting to bits of paper.
but then ymmv
tc
h xx
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have any friends. :smug:

Yes you do :smug:
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I don't have any friends. :smug:

Nor do I. No, I really don't have any friends. In this context.
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Hi SH Team
I have used dating websites in the past and one of the cool tools they had was being able to show you who had added you to their fiends list.
It was really cool. As it allowed the other person to make first contact in case they forgot to drop you a line after doing it.
Adding a person to your friends or likes list is a lot more significant than just peeking at a profile which is what we have at the moment.
Ive attached a poll for people to mark if they'd like to see a facility like this addedd to our homepages.
Friday

Why not give the site, as it currently is, a chance to work, before you suggest improvements?
Its a good idea and reading the comments above it sounds to me like such a feature would need to allow you to enable/disable this feature to make it acceptable for everybody.
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Its a good idea and reading the comments above it sounds to me like such a feature would need to allow you to enable/disable this feature to make it acceptable for everybody.

I'd disable it, dont want people to know taht ive got them on my list
Maybe we should add an enemies option.
Quote by st3v3
Maybe we should add an enemies option.

:shock: :shock:
Quote by Freckledbird
Maybe we should add an enemies option.

:shock: :shock:
:uhoh: or something like that.........
It won't be long before someone mentioned the 'V' word in this thread :eeek:
Quote by Dawnie
It won't be long before someone mentioned the 'V' word in this thread :eeek:

Vagina? x
Quote by Dawnie
It won't be long before someone mentioned the 'V' word in this thread :eeek:

Ooooooooo shall we play 'Hangman' and see if anyone can guess the word? :giggle:
i say yes. it would be nice to know someone wants to be your friend. it would encourage me to make contact with less fear of rejection.
by the way Dawnie what's the v word please
Can open.........
Worms everywhere.........
H.x
i dont like the idea, same as others have said, notthose in my friends list are friends, i have got them there so i can check on their movements, ok that sounds weird, lol. what i mean is i may have viewed a profile and liked it but have not moved this to making contact for different reasons.
if people knew who was in my list i wouldnt add anyone. same as i actually avoid looking at peoples profiles in chat if they have the extras package cuse they can see ive done it and i dont want them viewing it as a invte ( im not saying everyone would, but i view profiles to get a idea of the person or to see who the prat is shoud they be acting one, not cuse i wanna shag them)
xxxx fem xxxx
Quote by Dawnie
It won't be long before someone mentioned the 'V' word in this thread :eeek:

Verification dunno
bolt
While searching for profiles under a certain distance say 5miles. There is no option to back to the search menu of your stated search, you have to click back via the internet back button and keep inputting the same info over and over again. Rather pointless and annoying too.