Here's a question for you
I'd like to know your thoughts about polyamoury
Can it work???
Or anything else u may have to say about it
Gotta say I'm not sure
Sorry if something similar may have been done/asked before
i never knew what the word meant before i looked at the link
its quiet comman in a lot of cultures in the world many asian cutler beliven in multiple wives. ( but personall i think one would be more than enough.. just think of the nagging factor!).
i think ive got the meaning correct!..
i think due to the jealous factor ( and everyone suffers from it). i think it not ont of those thing that could curvive. but there are probalby a few that breat the rule.
JGL
I think the only way it could work would be if the women were Stepford Wives, which would be great from the mans point of view. (Or the womans if they were Stepford Husbands). But with real human beings? Think it would be very difficult!
John
I have been shouted down by my mates on this one before, becuase I honestly believe that it does and can work - as long as those involved are open, honest and are ALL polyamorous. You can't have one person who might have been cajoled into the idea for example (bit like swinging there then). I KNOW that I could fit very easily into a polyamorous situation. Okay - so I have never actually been in that situation - but it is one of those things that I "know" deep down.
I think it would work very well, actually. I don't think all parties need to be polyamourous either, as long as all are happy with whatever the situation is. Oh and JGL, not everyone suffers from jealousy, in fact I think there may be more non-jealous people on here particularly.
PS, we all know you're rubbish at spelling but some of the mistakes in that post look like you've been too idle to correct them, just made it more difficult to read!
Bev
If those involved are secure and comfortable with the arrangement .... then why not?
Each to their own! Who are we to judge?
Love and Respect
Joe
I do not think I could love more than one person, in the way I love my partner. Scratch that, I know I couldn't.
Of course I have been in love before, and every time is completely different. I do not think I could have emotional equality in such a set up. Maybe, for those that live that way, some days X is the be all and end all, sometimes Y is.
Sex and stuff is different. I have grown to love some of our swinging partners, but I am not in love with them. Same as you might feel for siblings, say. We can have sex with others, purely because of the love and trust we have for eachother. Put someone else in this equation and, for us, it would collapse.
Im sure it does work for many. I fear that it would be the day to day, nitty gritty that could kill it, the who left the top off the toothpaste type thing!! Obviously im making the assumption that everyones living under the same roof here.
I think in the traditional type of relationship where the female is responsible for the house and the kids then it would be a whole lot easier.
Is nt the type of relationship where the man has a bit on the side but tucked quietly away from home polyamourous , or is ther a nother definition for that?
I prefer dogs , cant really be doing with any birds as pets .