may i just say when i first asked to go to asocial i had to be verified by someone else and indeed i on several occassions have had to verify blk guys who wanted to come so where is the problem and it is agood idea to point out to someone what the aim of the social is i only go cause i only play with guys who are blk .P articularly since alot of guys cant read all my ads say only blk but surprise surprise loads of white guys still reply what is this all about ??????
All true Ahab mate. I dont condemn you for using whatever technique you wish to 'get your foot in the door' :-) thats your perogative and if thats the way you see your adventures panning out then sure.
Of course most of the other 'attributes' you use for your argument bear no relationship to being part of a race. The closest I suppose is being bisexual or lesbian as that can engender descrimination, but not quite the same as both of those relate very strongly to the definition of a persons sexuality - I would say that being of a race or colour does not do that.
Of course the main reason even those examples are less than relevant is that if you define yourself by sexuality in an exchange about sexual adventure that gives implicit permission for people to make generalised assumptions about the individual .
Making such generalisations or assumptions about someone on the basis of their race, or the colour of their skin would,I imagine,largely be frowned upon or seen as negative stereotyping ..............at least thats how I would see it, always assuming that if we argue as decent human beings on the basis of human dignity we agree that its always wrong to pick and choose when being defined by a stereotype suits us.
hi ahabs see u topic is still making headlines babe xxx
most people have preferences whether it be black..white...fat ..thin...tall...short...older...younger....females..males...couples..married... single...what worries me is and i steer clear of are people that say age race size unimportant..its like shag anything regardless whether they get on with the person they meet
Well well well, i have been reading most of the posts on here. Now for my two penneth worth.
Someone said somewhere on one of the posts, shouldn't it be about whats on the inside not whats on the outside? Well yes thats true, cause i for one whether it be a one off, or a long term need to have a connection mentally as well as sexually. I prefer black guys, but If a black guy is absolutely gorgeous, but has the personality and inteligence of a pea, then i wouldnt go for him just because he is black, but for example, give me two guys, one black guy and one white guy, both with exactly same personalities, sense of humour, intelligence ect and i will go for the black guy and this is because i very very rarely find white guys attractive, but i do find most black guys soooo attractive and very very sexy and yes it is also to do with their skin colour, i love it, its sexy to me, its what turns me on....ITS MY PREFERENCE! And it not as most people think, to do with the size of their dicks, if that was all that mattered to me, i would want any guy with a big dick, be they black, white, green whatever.
I would assume that this would be the same for people that have other preferences, IE. bbw's/slim peeps/tall/short/Blondes or Brunettes ect. So why is it sooooo damn difficult for peeps to accept my preference, just because its to do with colour of a persons skin???? How can i be called racist against my own race?
So yes i go into the rooms for white women for black men, its not cause i dont like white guys as people, its because sexually they don't turn me on!! So peeps, please accept it the same as you would accept anyone else's prefernces, dont take it personally!!
Feisty X
