Preparation for the Perfect Evening

21 Jan 2008

Hello to all that visit,
I'm new to swinging and whilst I'd love to find a partner to enjoy it more with, I'm having to go it alone redface

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Anyway, I have a lovely couple that are interested in meeting me at the end of the month for an evening of 'social friendship' wink

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My question is this rolleyes

, what would be the perfect way to prepare the evening so that we're all at ease and comfortable with one another?
Many Thanks,
Mark
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21 Jan 2008

Hiya, not seen you in the forum before, so :welcome:
I can't help you, but I'm sure some helpful people will be along shortly lol

Nice profile, by the way :thumbup:

21 Jan 2008

Hiya Mark and welcome to the world of the forums wave

First there is the physical preparation - make sure you're immaculate. Showered n fresh, clothes that are not looking old faded or tired, any facial hair groomed to it's best, as well as head hair of course. Fingernails, make sure they're clean!
Just making sure you're clean and sparkly will help make you feel comfortable biggrin

Mental preparation - I would go along with the presumption that nothing will ever happen with the couple. This takes pressure off all concerned ..... and if nothing else, you want to come away with a couple of friends that are on the scene and you can chat to etc. Of course, if it all goes brill and it goes further, then it's a bonus.
Remember, there's a difference between someone interested in the swinging scene in general, and someone just looking for a shag ..... and it does seem to become clear when you meet people, what category they come under ........ so make sure you're clear in your mind what you want, and be honest with others about yourself as well biggrin

Above all else - have a blast!!! :bounce: One thing I've found out from meeting people in and around the swinging scene - you're never gonna meet a more open minded, diverse, great fun bunch of people :happy:

21 Jan 2008

Thanks Cherrytree,
Yes, this is my virgin post on the forum. lol

Thanks for visiting and the compliment on my profile. biggrin

Mark

21 Jan 2008

Hello Mark. Welcome to the forum.
Hope it works out well for you.
Don't expect too much and fall in with what they want to do and you never know - it might be magic.
Good luck!
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21 Jan 2008

Thank you Missy, I was looking forward to it before but now I'm just really excited. Good advice. biggrin

Thanks
Mark
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21 Jan 2008

Quote by Missy
Hiya Mark and welcome to the world of the forums
First there is the physical preparation - make sure you're immaculate. ..........

I agree. :thumbup:
So as a way of a little more help I recommend you read this thread and pay particular attention to a post by "davej".
Hope that helps. ;) :thumbup:

21 Jan 2008

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22 Jan 2008

Quote by LondonPlaything
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offer them a drink first surely?

22 Jan 2008

Quote by Warmer
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offer them a drink first surely?
surely it would be very rude to proffer the penis fountain so early on a social introduction?
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22 Jan 2008

Hellooooo!
The best preparation advice I can give from a woman's perspective is...
-be yourself and be immaculately clean!
Would be nothing worse than if things go well and you had got ready in a hurry by passing the shower! confused

(speaking from experience unfortunately!)
Treat the meeting as you would a vanilla date, share the cost of the meal/drinks, there's nothing worse than meeting up with someone who sits there and allows the couple to pay for your night!
Good luck anyway, I'm sure you'll be fine because as you've taken the trouble to ask sounds like you are a very nice person x

22 Jan 2008

Quote by jaymar
Good luck anyway, I'm sure you'll be fine because as you've taken the trouble to ask sounds like you are a very nice person x

Agreed! the fact that you are asking for and prepared to take on "our" advice tells me you will go a long way ;)
As above really - personal hygiene and grooming are essential, be yourself, don't try too hard but most of all just relax and enjoy every second.
Good luck!