can i just add on to accidental overdoses on over the counter medication .... true about the lockets btw fabio .... if you have a cold and take paracetamol for your aches and pains and then have a lemsip ... this also contains paracetamol, this will lead on to an overdose and if not treated can result in the horrific and painful death.
all i can say is please please please read what you take carefully and if you have not read it in a while (because you take it regulary or have taken the product before) take a few moments to read the enclosed leaflet
now then all you nice people, enough already!
I'm just an old drunk after all... but thankyou x
so... about this business of seeking help, or knowing what to do/how to help those close to you whom may be having problems of their own.
I think with any addiction/dependance and its attendant problems, everybody does have to follow thier own path, as difficult as it can be for those close.
Support is always a good thing of course... though even that can have a negative effect of prolonging the suufering of all concerned... sometimes the junkie/drunk/addict simply has to be cut loose to find their own level, the rock bottom as some may call it.
(if I'm using any language here that you, the reader finds offencive, please do not take it as personal against you or yours, I'm simply using the words I have, and do apply to myself... and am only relating what I know and understand from personal experience, or as an interpretation of the experinces of people I have known with similar problems... whether they 'made it' through to the other side or not)
Missy, up there mentions the AA and NA... all good resources for those who may have questions of thier own, and they are generally very accepting people, prepared to help and listen to those who come along simply to see if they *relate* to the 'condition'
I used the AA for a long time... a good source of biscuits and a cuppa when the cupboards were bare!
Also I could sit shivering and shaking, cursing and blinding and no-one would punch me in the face as a consequence... not bad at all.
many people attend such self help groups... and perhaps buddy up with a sponsor, take a look at a 'step programme', that sort of thing... as simple as it sounds, it's hard work... all boiling down to the fact that you can talk your way out of addiction, if you're lucky, honest with yourself, and have fully come to terms with the fact that you may have a problem in the first place.
i could accept my problem, but my own journey took a few years of struggle from there... and then a move on to a treatment centre/rehab whatever you chose to call it... everybodies story and everybodies situation is different. There are no rules.
of course, my focus here has been predominantly alcohol based... though mentioned earlier..Ive know and still know those addicted to painkillers etc, and other prescribed or illegal drugs to help them cope with physical or emotional conditions.
I truely believe that for those who believe that they may have the beginnings of a slight problem, taking a look around for a group of similar folk to talk to, with whom you feel you can be honest ... and doing just that: talking... will go a hell of a long way to helping understand where you can go from there.
Fire, watching son number 2 may be incredably dificult and painful for you at the moment.. and I do feel for you, having seen the effects from 'the other side' as it were... but lets hope that he is following his own course... and will reach a destination or staging point at which he'll be able to 'step off'.
(also, nothing is carved in stone... no matter what his father may have been...) x
don't let me in this thread again.
I have a sandwich to make
lp
It has took me a few hours to respond to this post. Prescription drugs I believe can be lethal.
I recieved a phone call yesterday informing me that my ex husband had taken an overdose of his anti depressants with alcohol. Fortunately, a friend of his turned up and found him and got him to hospital. Basically he was drunk when he overdosed. He has been on anti depressants since we split up 2 years ago and to be honest, I can't help but blame the doctor (not totally may I add). For someone to be on anti depressants for 2 years, that to me is saying there is something seriously wrong and needs a review.
All the hospital has done is send him home and refer him for therapy to deal with his alcohol. Now I have to make decisions in regards to the 4 children we have together and at this moment in time, I have no idea what to do.
So, is it easy to overdose on prescription drugs. YES most definitely, whether intentionally or not. Just like it has been said on other posts - it is the difference between the legal and illegal aspect and the person taking the meds.
I cant resist another story.
A respectable middle class lady with a very high standard of living broke her leg skiing and was prescribed powerful pain killers. When the prescription ran out she suffered terrible withdrawal and being unlucky enough to know a local drug dealer (hubby being a respectable businessman she had lots of local connections) secretly established an illegal supply. All was reasonable until after 6 months or so the dealer said he couldnt get his hands on her particular pill. What he did have was lots and lots of cocaine and he suggested she try that. I met her six months later in rehab. She had spent fifty grand on coke,funded by money hubby had put in her name to use up her tax allowances. When that finally ran out she had to confess to him. She told me tales of shopping trips that had to be planned around the location of public toilets so that she could snort.
She was kicked out of rehab for using. I dont know if she is dead yet or if she is one of the few lucky ones.
Thing about us human beings if we are in pain physically or emotionally we do something to take the pain away. Its usually whatever is easily available. I am thankful to the core of my being that I was lucky enough to ease my own mental pain before I got addicted to any of the available "painkillers". I was very lucky. Conscious of my good fortune I refuse to be disdainful of anyones behaviours.
Before you accuse me take a good looka at yourself. There is an awful lot of pain in this world and an awful lot of damaging ways to take it away.
As far as prescription drugs go its the Drs who are at fault for over prescribing or prescribing them in the first place. Someone I know recently went to the Dr because he had extreme pain in one of his arms, every movement was agony. What did the Dr do? Send him for scan, x-ray or the like? Nope he gave him co-dydramol and a few months down the line he is still taking them and the pain is just as bad. There has been no diagnosis as to what the cause of the pain is and being a blokey type person it is doubtful that he will go back to the Dr within a year or 2 by which time the addiction will be pretty much set. Get rid of useless Drs is my thought and then prescription drug addiction won't happen
There is another side to this - underdosing.
TheVilians is currently recovering from an eye operation (details avialable to anyone with strong nerves) and has to take 2 sets of drops. One was clearly marked antibiotics - no prob. The other just had the brand name and generic name. He ran out of these on Friday and thought it would be ok to get the new batch on Monday at the Doc's. Saturday moring arrives and his eye is closed, throbbing and watering. This gets rapidly worse. We checked the name of the drops on Google and it turns out they were steroids to reduce inflamation.
Great - we just need to get the prescription made up sooner. Problem - dos's is shut, it's prescription only, NHS Direct says got to A&E.
6 (that's SIX) hours later we stumble out of the hospital with the drops needed and instructions to take them every hour and come back tomorrow - hence sat up at typing.
The lesson here is know your prescription. Understand the effects of over and under-dosing.
There are some excellent sites describing drugs of all kinds in lay-man's terms.
Tomu, I wasn't on the site when this was originally posted so I read it with great interest.
My hubby died three years ago from a side effect of a tablet which shouldn't have been prescribed to him as he was an alcoholic. I have also had addictions to pain meds, I have fibromyalgia, and suffer extreme pain at times, and the only thing that helped was co-codamol 30/500 strength. I started to get addicted to them, and like others that have posted, couldn't get started in the day without my "hit".
I actually worked in a pharmacy when I started on these tablets, and it was my job to advise customers to stick to the right amount of tablets.. not easy taking your own advice when you're in pain. It took a blood test to realise my liver was suffering, and was causing more pain than they were supposed to help.
I am now only taking paracetamol with the odd tramadol when the pain is really bad, but don't take them regularly. My really bad migraines have all but stopped now - they were rebound headaches from the painkillers a lot of the time, my stomach has settled down, and I do feel better in myself. It could have quite easily gone the other way....
Addiction is a terrible thing, whether its drugs, or alcohol... a lot of people forget it IS a disease... and sometimes people can't help themselves...
peanut....
I was talking about holistic with a small h. A Holistic therapist is a slightly different concept.
havent read all the replies but i am one of those peeps who dish out prescriptions. One thing that amazes me is how demanding people are. The current demand is for diet pills ..... if you read the list of side effects for some of them you would be happy to stay is my policy to look at a persons diet and advise them to eat and exercise sensibly but 9 out of 10 dont want that they wish to continue stuffing large quantities of fat sugar and refind carbs down their throats and pop a pill for a quick fix despite being given full information about the side effects. I have refused many times to prescribe them only to get a letter of complaint sent to the health authority. Not all people are cognitavely able to make informed choices and even whe n clearly stated only take 3 a day they think they will work faster if they take 6.
Also people demand repeat prescriptions and refuse to attend for medication reviews .... i refuse to repeat prescribe in those circumstances until i have seen them.
So there is another side to all of this.