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Profile Pics......Where is the mystery?

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Would you prefer to see no picture rather than have an anatomy lesson

Since many people do not put a face picture on their profile for many different reasons, how do you feel about the biology lessons we are subjected too?
Anyone seen a piece of anatomy recently that was sooooo different they had to exclaim...... "God, I'm glad I've seen that!!"
Where is the mystery?
Sweetie ........... Each to their own! kiss
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jameswanna... please, you may not like some pics and you may like others. Some may choose face pics, others may not.
We're all different. We all like and look for different things. That's the beauty of this place.
Instead of finding things to criticise in here, find the things to celebrate - like bloody great people for a start!!
Nola xx
I have to admit I do not mind seeing a bit of flesh on a profile.
At the end of the day this is a swinging site and most people are interested in seeing a lot more than a face ;) sillyhwoar:
i dont get why its a mystery?????
i have face pics and body pics on some close some not what pics people put on is there choice i know one or 2 peeps who use distorted pics for a reason
by my pics i mean the ones on my other profile
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jameswanna... please, you may not like some pics and you may like others. Some may choose face pics, others may not.
We're all different. We all like and look for different things. That's the beauty of this place.
Instead of finding things to criticise in here, find the things to celebrate - like bloody great people for a start!!
Nola xx

Sorry, I wasn't casting an opinion, rather asking a question I have heard others (particularly ladies) mention on many occasions. I'll keep my own opinion to myself until later.
As I have said elsewhere, I think this is the BEST site with some lovely people....
If I wanted a kebeb I'd buy one..... rolleyes
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Sorry ... :confused: Maybe I have just not drunk enough .. hehehe
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If I wanted a kebeb I'd buy one..... rolleyes

Sorry ... :confused: Maybe I have just not drunk enough .. hehehe
or maybe you haven't had enough kebabs...... cool
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I'm kinda with ya there, James. I've no real desire to see every tiny detail although I do like some pics I prefer the more mysterious than the graphic.
That's why I don't have graphic pics myself.
On another site, mine was the only ad where the pics were of a clothed body and my ad got more hits than anyone else. Less (flesh) is more?
where is the option for - yes, pics but not showing everything?
A naked torso or nice bum is lovely. cool
Quote by noladreams30
jameswanna... please, you may not like some pics and you may like others. Some may choose face pics, others may not.
We're all different. We all like and look for different things. That's the beauty of this place.
Instead of finding things to criticise in here, find the things to celebrate - like bloody great people for a start!!
Nola xx

Spot on, Nola! :thumbup:
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I'm kinda with ya there, James. I've no real desire to see every tiny detail although I do like some pics I prefer the more mysterious than the graphic.
That's why I don't have graphic pics myself.
On another site, mine was the only ad where the pics were of a clothed body and my ad got more hits than anyone else. Less (flesh) is more?
where is the option for - yes, pics but not showing everything?
A naked torso or nice bum is lovely. cool

I'd have to agree that less is more..... thus the mystery
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I'll keep my own opinion to myself until later.
As I have said elsewhere, I think this is the BEST site with some lovely people....

It's kind of good etiquette around here, to give your opinion first when starting a thread.
Proclaiming that the site is good on any thread you start, when people point something out to you, will not win you any brownie points.
A bit of originality with pics never goes a miss, but I would rather see an effort made in profiles instead of a blank one. So for us keep em coming… wink
Vert2go
P.S Well said Freckledbird
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A bit of originality with pics never goes a miss, but I would rather see an effort made in profiles instead of a blank one. So for us keep em coming… wink
Vert2go
P.S Well said Freckledbird

Thank you!
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I'll keep my own opinion to myself until later.
As I have said elsewhere, I think this is the BEST site with some lovely people....

It's kind of good etiquette around here, to give your opinion first when starting a thread.
Proclaiming that the site is good on any thread you start, when people point something out to you, will not win you any brownie points.
I think if you read my first post again you will find I have given an opinion. Several posts later I stated I wouldn't give an opinion, and infact i do have an opinion that I may choose to expand on later, nevertheless, the first post is an opinion......
Sometimes, I'm amazed how quickley people jump in to critisize....
Quote by jameswanna

I'll keep my own opinion to myself until later.
As I have said elsewhere, I think this is the BEST site with some lovely people....

It's kind of good etiquette around here, to give your opinion first when starting a thread.
Proclaiming that the site is good on any thread you start, when people point something out to you, will not win you any brownie points.
I think if you read my first post again you will find I have given an opinion. Several posts later I stated I wouldn't give an opinion, and infact i do have an opinion that I may choose to expand on later, nevertheless, the first post is an opinion......
Sometimes, I'm amazed how quickley people jump in to critisize....
Your first post isnt your opinion.....
So many people start threads here asking for opinions on this and that yet dont give theirs dunno
Perhaps they want to see what the majority think and go with that train of thought :dunno:
Either way giving your own opinion on a thread you start asking for opinions is by far the best way to go..... :thumbup:
Having pics on a profile isnt something that bothers me either way. I wouldnt chose to interract with someone based solely on their whether clothed or unclothed.....
As I said in another thread, we chose not to place any on our profile, our choice and dont think we ever will.
Sometimes though a profile will stick in my memory because of the pics......I must admit to saying to someone at a social recently "Oh hello, ive seen your sexy bum already, nice to finally meet the rest of you"......which, by the way, was a compliment.
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I think if you read my first post again you will find I have given an opinion. Several posts later I stated I wouldn't give an opinion, and infact i do have an opinion that I may choose to expand on later, nevertheless, the first post is an opinion......
Sometimes, I'm amazed how quickley people jump in to critisize....

Quote by jameswanna, in his first post,
Since many people do not put a face picture on their profile for many different reasons, how do you feel about the biology lessons we are subjected too?
Anyone seen a piece of anatomy recently that was sooooo different they had to exclaim...... "God, I'm glad I've seen that!!"
Where is the mystery?

How is this an opinion?
i like to see photos on profiles altho not just cock shots biggrin
however i dont hav any on mine, partly cus iv got no idea how to do it, and partly cus i hate having pics of me took
however i used to hav some i could send by email if needed
yesterday i asked gary if we can take some pics to put on our profiles tho .... he is better on the pc than i am :D :D
Yep, we like to see pics on a profile. In the first instance it give us an indication as to whether we'd potentially be interested in meeting.
We're not the type of couple who are into endless mails etc and looks do count a lot for us. If there is no physical attraction then we'll not move forward. Pics on the profile provide a fairly immediate decision really... Ideally though, the pics shouldn't all be cock shots though...
just to get bk to the original question...we prefer to see face pics on profiles so that we can see whether or not there is an attraction, we understand that some peeps choose not to put face pics up or blur them for one reason or another that is personal to themselves, that is their choice, however i dislike openin a profile to be greeted by a close up shot of someones genitals... This only makes us close the profile.
This isnt an opinion jus a preference, each to their own i am not offended by it i jus dislike it