That sort of thing shocks me too re:- barebacking but I dont whinge on about barebacking nowadays as all it gets is a load of ,otherwise, intelligent people saying, "Oh but it's personal choice" and disregarding the fact that it takes just one cheating or lying bastard to put possible innocent people in jeapordy. I just get frustrated in the end.
I guess another thing that shocked me initially are the variety of, single guys usually, that are "straight" but will suck cock/orally bi and will suck cock of the male of a couple as long as he gets to tup the fem.
Edge play Kaz ffs sake talk about sanitizing risk innit
Interesting subject this. I like sex without condoms, so much so I had the snip which meant that within my relationship we never would need to use the pesky things again.
Outside this, the condom is no longer a pregnancy prevention device and more a life saver. This being said the attraction for non use is still very high and I would say that given the right situation, person and trust we may waver the condom rule.
I really don't think its naive to believe most use condoms in sex situations. I reckon on a couples basis its the exception rather than the rule to bareback. As for clubs We have attended a couple and with only one exception did we witness no condom use and on talking to one of the couples, not on about their barebacking i'm not that overtly nosey, in the bar later Idiscovered that the two couples had been ,as they called it, wife swapping between themselves only for over 20 years and used the club as a cheap pleasant and convenient location to play.
As a matter of fact on a few occasions I have witnessed, and been one of, the people verifying that they are "suitably" equipped meaning having a condom with them.
I have been asked quiet a few time's to assist in pregnancy, manyly in cuckold couple's, Im not sure if it is all fantasy to be honest in some case's, but one couple where very keen on the idea and wanted me to father not only one child but over the years two or three, I did ask the question about the guys fertility, and was asured there wasn't a problem,my problem was one of morality, and if I father the children what if the couple split up in the end, ect. ect. so apart from the health issue there is a lot more to think about.
Hey, if you can live with it and your doing some you know a favour, it's not the end of the world, but don't forget the old CSA could be just around the the judge is saying who is the father of this child, I don't think there is a place on the form for,"well I was doing them a favour"
