I look at everyone like I imagine a bloke does...
Would I?
Wouldn't I?
In the first 5 seconds! :mrgreen:
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It is reported today that a man spends a year of his life ogling women.
I'm one of those and there are three catagories
Yes
No
Not sure and don't know why.
Like DG it tends to be a fairly quick desicion.
I'm one of those and there are three catagories
Yes
No
Not sure and don't know why.
Like DG it tends to be a fairly quick desicion.
Sex God
It's often more of a feeling than a conscious decision. And generally fast.
hmmm strangers i look at and if someone ctaches my eye its a case of "phwoarrr I wouldnt mind"
but friend wise....since becoming swingers its made us more liable to dip into new territory with friends who we fancy....whereas before it was just a bad time fantasy between us (pre SH days)
have engaged in various stuff with friends....some its worked great with....one it didnt and changed things.
But yep Flower, there are some I just thing....nope no way....good as a mate and thats the way I wanna keep it.
but friend wise....since becoming swingers its made us more liable to dip into new territory with friends who we fancy....whereas before it was just a bad time fantasy between us (pre SH days)
have engaged in various stuff with friends....some its worked great with....one it didnt and changed things.
But yep Flower, there are some I just thing....nope no way....good as a mate and thats the way I wanna keep it.
Sex God
Three catagories
Yes
No
I wouldn't stand any chance anyway
:lol2:
Said with tongue firmly in cheek ;-)
Yes
No
I wouldn't stand any chance anyway
:lol2:
Said with tongue firmly in cheek ;-)
Mine are arranged into these categories:
Yes but they're already with someone
Yes but they wouldn't see it the same way
Yes but I wouldn't want it to ruin a great friendship
Yes but I'd have to be pretty drunk
Yes but I'd never see them again
Yes and I bet they'd want it
and
Yes after money has changed hands
Yes but they're already with someone
Yes but they wouldn't see it the same way
Yes but I wouldn't want it to ruin a great friendship
Yes but I'd have to be pretty drunk
Yes but I'd never see them again
Yes and I bet they'd want it
and
Yes after money has changed hands
Sex God
Quote by flower411
Do you look at all of your friends and aquaintances as possible sexual partners ??
Or are some people just friends ?
I think I rate everybody I meet as "YES" or "NO"
Some people are confusing tho !!
We have a rich beautiful friend who I just wouldn`t !! No idea why ...confuses the shit outa me !!
Do you put people in categories ??
Fuckable
Or
No way !!
A good friend of mine (on my 'yes I would' list as it happens
) has a saying: the day you stop looking is the day you die.I like that :rascal:
I do sometimes think, "Yes!!!!!!!!, very nice"
I never think "No way", but there are those I think I rather have nothing to do with them and wish I could walk away never to see them again. Some I can walk away from others I can not.
Of the rest, well may be one day at the right time in the right place.
Travis
I never think "No way", but there are those I think I rather have nothing to do with them and wish I could walk away never to see them again. Some I can walk away from others I can not.
Of the rest, well may be one day at the right time in the right place.
Travis
I used to think I wanted to make friends and then have more in the way of bedroom fun with them. Since making friends with certain people off this site, it seems that once you reach a certain point of friendship, the sex thing slips away. Flirting is ok, but more than that is a no-no. It just doesn't feel right.
Our first experience of swapping partners, was with people we had been friends with for years, and although we are still friends, we no longer shag. At the time, we stopped socialising and seemed to just get naked every time we met. It felt like we weren't really friends as much as fuck-buddies for a while, so I called a halt. Fortunately our friendship survived.
Now I feel that we should distance ourselves slightly from potential bedroom partners, and just take the fun at the expense of true friendship. That said, I'm not sure I could shag someone, if I couldn't at least be friends with them under different circumstances.
My own personal ideal, would be to find a nice lady that fancied an occasional bit of FF fun but who also wanted to socialise and go shopping :twisted:
But I'm not holding my breath.
Our first experience of swapping partners, was with people we had been friends with for years, and although we are still friends, we no longer shag. At the time, we stopped socialising and seemed to just get naked every time we met. It felt like we weren't really friends as much as fuck-buddies for a while, so I called a halt. Fortunately our friendship survived.
Now I feel that we should distance ourselves slightly from potential bedroom partners, and just take the fun at the expense of true friendship. That said, I'm not sure I could shag someone, if I couldn't at least be friends with them under different circumstances.
My own personal ideal, would be to find a nice lady that fancied an occasional bit of FF fun but who also wanted to socialise and go shopping :twisted:
But I'm not holding my breath.
Quote by flower411
Do you look at all of your friends and aquaintances as possible sexual partners ??
no never !!
dont have friends as such anyway just people i work with and other aquaintances in life but never ever look at them as sexual partners even when i was very active swinging and dogging
did have some meets with a guy who works at the same place as me (very big workplace) but didnt know he did when first chatting here prior to meeting
