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Sexlightened
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at the risk of offending lots of people, do we prefer babes non smoking, proportionately amazing and looking after themselves or:
50 a day, bbw............. or just fat?
And girls, come on let's have your views too! Fat, unshaven, doesn't know the difference between primark and selfridges.....
but does it matter?
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Erm, as someone who wouldn't be described as height/weight proportionate, I don't consider myself to not be 'quality' at all.
I may be on the larger side, but I take care of my appearance. I dress well and - not that designer labels matter - I certainly know the difference between Primark and Selfridges.
Each to their own, huh?
For me, it's about sexy, chilled people with open minds who are interested in sharing experiences. If someone judges me because I wear high-street clothes rather than designer ones then more fool them. rolleyes
Maybe I've misread your post, but I find the suggestion that 'quantity' (i.e. larger folk) are not 'quality' quite derogatory.
Warming the Bed
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In the Trafford Centre there's a Primark concession in Selfridges... could be very confusing as you can buy Primark and carry it in a Selfridges bag.....
Seriously, I don't really think it's about appearance is it? I do think that things such as personal hygiene are important, but that's about respect for the other person.
Surely it's as the old adage says - it's all in the eye of the beholder....
Warming the Bed
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For me, it's about sexy, chilled people with open minds who are interested in sharing experiences. If someone judges me because I wear high-street clothes rather than designer ones then more fool them. rolleyes
Maybe I've misread your post, but I find the suggestion that 'quantity' (i.e. larger folk) are not 'quality' quite derogatory.

Also I have to say that I agree with this...
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at the risk of offending lots of people, do we prefer babes non smoking, proportionately amazing and looking after themselves or:
50 a day, bbw............. or just fat?
And girls, come on let's have your views too! Fat, unshaven, doesn't know the difference between primark and selfridges.....
but does it matter?

If you judge your potential partner's sexual ability by how they look or if they smoke you are either going to be regularly disappointed or missing out on a hell of a lot of good fun/sex. It's the same as judging their ability to wire a plug by what car they drive and about as useful.
I'm overweight and FANTASTIC in bed. The two are not connected. :giggle:
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Wowzers! What a lovely post :shock: :shock: :shock:
I think the ladies above have answered very well and very diplomatically so I'll not add anything apart from what is wrong with shopping at primark? I don't as I don't have one local but if we did I'd be there all the time smile most of my clothes come from the highstreet or supermarkets. I only make high end purchases for real classic pieces not for fashion wear.
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Sorry but would never meet smokers for the obvious of reasons. I certainly do not want to kiss someone who smells of old cigarettes.
We make that clear though right from the start and better to be honest up front. Also people who work with animals such as horses as they can pen and ink a bit and a shower sometimes does not help. Nothing worse though than people who do not take their own hygiene seriously.
Quality defiantly over quantity.
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I check for a pulse...............after that anything else is a bonus lol
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Wowzers! What a lovely post :shock: :shock: :shock:
I think the ladies above have answered very well and very diplomatically

Hells yeah! :twisted:
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It's a good job one size doesn't fit all wink