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Sexlightened
the way we have always seen it is being a cpl and swingers u can still play whilst still being faithfull to your partner thats the diferance between being a swinger and being a cheat
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Sex God
Fact is you don't have to swing. You sound like a very lucky and well matched couple. If your partner feels the same way about you as you do about her then I wouldn't mind betting that she'd be relieved if you said that you'd like to give up the swinging side - even if it is for a trial period to start.
Good luck - heartwarming story. I am sorry I can't offer any experiences of my own.
Good luck - heartwarming story. I am sorry I can't offer any experiences of my own.
Sex God
In that case I'll change my first sentence to 'You don't have to swing individually'.
I for one do not feel sorry for you
I kinda envy your position - Good luck - let us know how you get on.
I for one do not feel sorry for you
I kinda envy your position - Good luck - let us know how you get on. Coolcatz,
First off - congratulations!
Secondly - for my the two of us swinging is not about us having sex with other people as individuals but about 'us', the couple, having sex with other people. We might, one day, swing separately but to be honest neither of us feels the urge to do so if we can play as a couple. I would say that you two should try only swinging as a couple for a while and see how it works out. You can always go back to playing alone if you want to. Have fun!
H
First off - congratulations!
Secondly - for my the two of us swinging is not about us having sex with other people as individuals but about 'us', the couple, having sex with other people. We might, one day, swing separately but to be honest neither of us feels the urge to do so if we can play as a couple. I would say that you two should try only swinging as a couple for a while and see how it works out. You can always go back to playing alone if you want to. Have fun!
H
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Coolcatz,
First off - congratulations!
Secondly - for my the two of us swinging is not about us having sex with other people as individuals but about 'us', the couple, having sex with other people. We might, one day, swing separately but to be honest neither of us feels the urge to do so if we can play as a couple. I would say that you two should try only swinging as a couple for a while and see how it works out. You can always go back to playing alone if you want to. Have fun!
H
Couldn't agree more
You beat me to it. Was just about to say a very similar thing.
John and I discussed swinging separately and it just does nothing for either of us. I guess everyone is in it for their own reasons, for us it’s the enhancement to our sex lives and therefore our relationship that swinging brings to us. Also the wonderful friends that we have made in such a relatively short time.
Primarily though we swing because it (and this may sound contradictory) has tightened the bond between us, it has strengthened the feelings we have for each other and has opened our minds to each others needs and deepest wants.
In the last few months we have learned more about one another than we have in 26 years of marriage. We now talk openly and honestly about our deepest desires which enables us to make each other happy.
We will not be swinging separately, John had the chance once but said the guilt trip was so intense that he just could not go through with it, even though he had my full permission.
Guess we know just what you are going through.
Enjoy each other, enjoy others, just do it together.
Xxx Katie
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Coolcatz,
First off - congratulations!
Secondly - for my the two of us swinging is not about us having sex with other people as individuals but about 'us', the couple, having sex with other people. We might, one day, swing separately but to be honest neither of us feels the urge to do so if we can play as a couple. I would say that you two should try only swinging as a couple for a while and see how it works out. You can always go back to playing alone if you want to. Have fun!
H
Agree with donsidelovers. You have both been swinging as singles now you are a couple stick to that part of your relationship. get used to each other as a couple and also discuss what you both want out of it for each other, not as individuals.
Congratulations by the way .
:love: xxx
You are now in a relationship with a woman. Despite the backdrop of swinging etc. it is more than likely to become conventional. That is, swinging is allowed in the same way as footie and Fridays in the pub. So don't lose your sense of reality. She may drop the swinging at some point, she has the right to do so, then you may be left wondering what happens next.
Don't forget the hook. As you say its a situation that many would give their arm for. That's the hook matey.............................................
Don't forget the hook. As you say its a situation that many would give their arm for. That's the hook matey.............................................
