question for the ladies on here

11 Jun 2005

I am now leading a seperate life from my husband even though we are still living under the same roof, after many years being in a shit relationship why is it we are now talking to each other like normal human beings, Anyone else in this situation???? And if any lady out there can tell me how to find a nsa genuine guy all help will be most welcome biggrin

11 Jun 2005

We dont exist smile

11 Jun 2005

Quote by sizzling
I am now leading a seperate life from my husband even though we are still living under the same roof, after many years being in a shit relationship why is it we are now talking to each other like normal human beings, Anyone else in this situation???? And if any lady out there can tell me how to find a nsa genuine guy all help will be most welcome

Exactly the same boat here. I split up with my Ex (who i lived with for 12 years) just over a year ago and moved out. A few months later, circumstances meant i needed to move back in and she was good enough to let me. . Since then, although strained for the first couple of weeks, things have gone mostly very well.... a coule of nights ago we were sharing a bowl of popcorn, watching TV with my head on her lap with no sexual connotations at all... We have seperate rooms and keep our social lives apart and have a rule of no partners back while the other is around, which is fair for both of us.
Good luck with finding your NSA fella... (and the longer you live in that situation , the more often you'll hear it isn't so unusual..)

11 Jun 2005

Maybe now you both realise the pressure is off, you can treat each other like normal human beings.
However, if the relationship is that bad, why are you both still in it? It must have some plus points or surely one of you would have walked out of it a very long time ago? dunno

However, no doubt because you are a woman you won't get the lecture about *cheating* *playing away without partners consent* and all the other stuff the married guys get rolleyes

Tracy-Jayne
PS. From your past pm's to me, I know there is more to this post than what you have said on here and I think it's a cheap trick . . . . . Guys beware confused

11 Jun 2005

Quote by sizzling
. . . . . . why is it we are now talking to each other like normal human beings, . . . . . .

Maybe because the pressures of the "relationship" have now been lifted ???
Enjoy.

11 Jun 2005

some of us exist wink

11 Jun 2005

T-J, did you and I just nearly agree there? wink

11 Jun 2005

Quote by dambuster
T-J, did you and I just nearly agree there?

I thought we'd come to an agreement a while ago :wink:
Now come here and give us a snog kiss

:twisted:
T-J

11 Jun 2005

Quote by sizzling
I am now leading a seperate life from my husband even though we are still living under the same roof, after many years being in a shit relationship why is it we are now talking to each other like normal human beings, Anyone else in this situation???? And if any lady out there can tell me how to find a nsa genuine guy all help will be most welcome

Bollox!

11 Jun 2005

Quote by Sharif
We dont exist

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Nope nary a one of us around.
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11 Jun 2005

If they have no strings attached then they are probably limp .
Signed Pinnochio

12 Jun 2005

Quote by RedHot
T-J, did you and I just nearly agree there?

I thought we'd come to an agreement a while ago :wink:
Now come here and give us a snog kiss

:twisted:
T-J
You're right - we did. But then, I used to be blond and I'm a bloke. What chance of I got of remembering the important stuff ??
Here - have this

12 Jun 2005

it's true.. the genuine NSA guy has been believed to be extinct for the last few years, although there are rumours of the occassional one floating around in the deepest darkest corners of the country, on a whole.. there are not many, if any.

12 Jun 2005

Quote by dambuster
T-J, did you and I just nearly agree there?

I thought we'd come to an agreement a while ago :wink:
Now come here and give us a snog kiss

:twisted:
T-J
You're right - we did. But then, I used to be blond and I'm a bloke. What chance of I got of remembering the important stuff ??

So what are you now then - grey or cueball or rug wearer? :grin:
T-J

12 Jun 2005

Quote by Vix
I am now leading a seperate life from my husband even though we are still living under the same roof, after many years being in a shit relationship why is it we are now talking to each other like normal human beings, Anyone else in this situation???? And if any lady out there can tell me how to find a nsa genuine guy all help will be most welcome

Bollox!
Wise advice Vix, always go for a man with bollox - unless it's wayne bobitt of course :shock: wink

12 Jun 2005

Quote by sizzling
I am now leading a seperate life from my husband even though we are still living under the same roof, after many years being in a shit relationship why is it we are now talking to each other like normal human beings, Anyone else in this situation???? And if any lady out there can tell me how to find a nsa genuine guy all help will be most welcome

I am in a similar situation at present Sizzling, and it's true, we seem to get on better now than before.
But she has just met a new man, and things look set to change.
Good luck in your quest.
John
xx