i used to be a lurker and only ever read, but that was because i was married and wouldnever cheat so i just used to watch from the sidelines.
how bizzare that i still never cheated but getting divorced anyway. i feel comftable in typing because i can back up anything i say and not have to hide behind respectability or the wife thinking i was cheating.
with any luck got a first meet with a couple this afternoon, would be the best xmas present i could have will be first new person in 18 yrs