Just curious why a lot of cpls only post pictures of the woman and not of the male or if they do its hard to make them out,
I dont mind looking at the woman but my wife realy wants to see who the bloke is as this will help her choose if she would like to meet up.
So camon all u men stop taking pics of the mrs and get her to take some of u lol.
Thanks all
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Quote by Fragglerocks
Just curious why a lot of cpls only post pictures of the woman and not of the male or if they do its hard to make them out,
Fraggle.
Yes, it's interesting isn't it - it's been remarked on before.
In some cases members have said that the male of the couple is too camera-shy and modest, and believes that his female partner is the attractive one.
More sinister is the suspicion that the female of the couple is being used as "bait".
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Quote by lyns
I have wondered this also. Have to admit tho on our profile there is only pics of me as mr lyns doesn`t join in so I don`t feels its necessary.
Ditto this post re:- mrs playing mr not. But also add i'm a dead ugly feck and camera shy.
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Quote by Lost
Ditto this post re:- mrs playing mr not.
Sometimes it is the other way round!
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Quote by lyns
I have wondered this also. Have to admit tho on our profile there is only pics of me as mr lyns doesn`t join in so I don`t feels its necessary.
Yes it is curious. However if one of the two don't actually play, as above, then that is probably alright.
Quote by MikeNorth
More sinister is the suspicion that the female of the couple is being used as "bait".
This is more worrying and is something that has concerned me, not only because it seems a little cynical, but also there is the implication that the "bait" may not be a wholly willing participant.
My account is a couples account but I only have pics of myself in private.
Ian only has pictures of himself in his private gallery.
We play alone as well as together so I don't want a female Ian is talking to to have access to my pictures and any male I talk to might not need to see pictures of Ian.
If we are looking to play as a couple, then we both send out invites to our gallery
Don't think that helps but it is just a different way of looking at things I guess
Ian only has pictures of himself in his private gallery.
We play alone as well as together so I don't want a female Ian is talking to to have access to my pictures and any male I talk to might not need to see pictures of Ian.
If we are looking to play as a couple, then we both send out invites to our gallery
Don't think that helps but it is just a different way of looking at things I guess
Sex God
Yes Fraggles, this is my bug bear too. I love to see good pics of the male half of a couple (and not just a cock 
) I like to see his build at least. Seeing as I do most of the initial choosing, those profiles with male pics spark my interest naturally as it's a way of partly assessing whether I'll find them attractive physically....
We have two pics of Blue on our profile, an arse shot and a full body shot, so at least the shoppers can see what is on offer :grin:
Whatever people's excuses:
"He's too shy" (that's not good if i'm gonna have sex with him)
"The wife's prettier" (yes but I'll be having sex with you)
"Haven't got any good pics of him" (well go take some then, it's easy enough)
....it just doesn't wash with me
Sell yourself, that's what we're all here for (well some of us anyway
)
Rant over
pink x
) I like to see his build at least. Seeing as I do most of the initial choosing, those profiles with male pics spark my interest naturally as it's a way of partly assessing whether I'll find them attractive physically....We have two pics of Blue on our profile, an arse shot and a full body shot, so at least the shoppers can see what is on offer :grin:
Whatever people's excuses:
"He's too shy" (that's not good if i'm gonna have sex with him)
"The wife's prettier" (yes but I'll be having sex with you)
"Haven't got any good pics of him" (well go take some then, it's easy enough)
....it just doesn't wash with me
Sell yourself, that's what we're all here for (well some of us anyway
)Rant over
pink x
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We'd want to see a picture of a male (as well as the female if he was part of a couple) before we met, just so that we knew who to look for in the pub!
There are no pictures of MrFB on this profile's gallery. The people we've met, have seen him at munches/socials/meets for drinks, or in the past we've sent pictures via email.
There are no pictures of MrFB on this profile's gallery. The people we've met, have seen him at munches/socials/meets for drinks, or in the past we've sent pictures via email.
Quote by Freckledbird
We'd want to see a picture of a male (as well as the female if he was part of a couple) before we met, just so that we knew who to look for in the pub!
There are no pictures of MrFB on this profile's gallery. The people we've met, have seen him at munches/socials/meets for drinks, or in the past we've sent pictures via email.
I agree, there's no law says the male has to be in the profile pics but when it comes down to getting to know one another then yes it's a must to see his picture. We don't show our faces at all until we know people.
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Quote by Dawnie
There are no pictures of MrFB on this profile's gallery.
I know there isn't
Oh, you've looked then, have you? :giggle:
He says if you want a picture, you only have to ask!
Should he have his own private gallery, do you reckon?
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Dirty cow - bet you want rude pictures too don't you?
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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only old ones! He's gone all shy now, gone for a shower.:lol:FB wonders where the camera is :giggle:
Quote by Fragglerocks
Just curious why a lot of cpls only post pictures of the woman and not of the male or if they do its hard to make them out,
Must admit we are guilty of the said crime,
But we do have full face/body pictures of us both on our gallery.
So Mr sweet will be ordered to strip to update profile, and to stop using the old excuses, of I’m shy, ugly; I’ll break the camera lens, etc
Thanks Fragglerocks gives me an excuse to get him naked, now where did I put the camera
