right i may as well tell it how it is,
i know a girl who i think has an std, my mate overherd her saying about it to his girlfriend, this was about a month ago, would a condom 100% cut out the risk of sleeping with her?
dont know what she has or even if she has anything but im guessing using a rubber will be safe,
if this is a load of rubbish please lock and delete but could someone let me know
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question, std's
Condoms are never 100% safe, since they sometimes break, but they do offer a great deal of protection against most (but not all) STDs.
If you want to know more, I suggest talking to a doctor rather then a bunch of perves :-)
Try (a free NHS information site aimed at 'young guns'!) to find out what people who really know about this sort of thing have to say.
Oh, and you can always edit your posts, by clicking the 'edit' button if you want to tidy up spellling
If you want to know more, I suggest talking to a doctor rather then a bunch of perves :-)
Try (a free NHS information site aimed at 'young guns'!) to find out what people who really know about this sort of thing have to say.
Oh, and you can always edit your posts, by clicking the 'edit' button if you want to tidy up spellling
im not sure about the whole condom full protection thingy,
umm do you know she actually wants to sleep with you , and just because you think she might have something is causing you to think about condoms? shouldnt you use them anyhow.
if your at the stage of having sex with this lady, maybe you should therefore feel comfortable enough with her to talk first and mention what you overheard , or sod it all have sex and use that condom everytime, ok not the same condom everytime.
im talking crap , im off for mi t
xx lou xxx
umm do you know she actually wants to sleep with you , and just because you think she might have something is causing you to think about condoms? shouldnt you use them anyhow.
if your at the stage of having sex with this lady, maybe you should therefore feel comfortable enough with her to talk first and mention what you overheard , or sod it all have sex and use that condom everytime, ok not the same condom everytime.
im talking crap , im off for mi t
xx lou xxx
Condoms help.... but there is still a risk! STD's amongst the under 20's and the forty age group are at epidemic levels.
Dont forget........STD's are not only of the genitals. You gonna put a condom over your tongue? hehe Seriously! You can get bad throat infections and chlamydia of the throat!
Is it worth it???
Hope this young lady has got treatmet?
Take care and good luck
xanaisx
Dont forget........STD's are not only of the genitals. You gonna put a condom over your tongue? hehe Seriously! You can get bad throat infections and chlamydia of the throat!
Is it worth it???
Hope this young lady has got treatmet?
Take care and good luck
xanaisx
Quote by essex_young_gun
right i may as well tell it how it is,
i know a girl who i think has an std, my mate overherd her saying about it to his girlfriend, this was about a month ago, would a condom 100% cut out the risk of sleeping with her?
dont know what she has or even if she has anything but im guessing using a rubber will be safe,
if this is a load of rubbish please lock and delete but could someone let me know
She should go to the GU clinic - not for your peace of mind - but for her own well being. Whether she thinks she has or hasn't - there is no harm in having regular checks if you are sexually active. May be you should go as well.
Condoms protect against most STD's but only for penetration and as already mentioned - if they don't break
. Oral sex is a different matter - and I doubt you were thinking of using a condom then too. Of course a condom won't help you when it comes to lapping the gravy.Check out some of the NHS sexual health sites.
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BTW - you think she may be carrying an STD, you are not sure if she has sought treatment and you are considering this an appropriate time to dip your toe in the water
Do they do condoms for toes.. sorry tasteless hi-jack there...
As for STD's some clear up quite quickly with the right treatment, as long as you go get it. Others are lifelong, like herpes. However it is only contagious when the spots are showing. Obviously some others show no signs and are lifelong, like hepetitus and HIV.
Condoms a good start in protection, as I hear is a spermicidal lube. However for oral sex you may want to consider using a dental dam. As for example herpes is the same virus as cold sores, and you dont want it over your face. Lots of nasties out there but most can be treated / avoided if you are careful...
Sex God
Quote by essex_young_gunyour knob if you thinking of shagging her in a fortnights time :shock:
blimey :shock:
hope she is alright, what sort of things do these permenat std's affect?
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serious they can kill ya?
no way
serious?
hep a, b, c etc can kill and very contagious, aids kills as there is only treatments, not cures. herpes hurts like hell but wont kill you, neither will thrush. However oral thrush not somthing you want to have...
So play safe
Risks still low, but be careful is the message... Quote by essex_young_gun
serious they can kill ya?
no way
serious?
My advice is just about to take a turn - go away - grow-up, read lots about STD's, HIV and all the other risks and don't try putting people on here at risk with your bloody ignorance!
And finally - please, please please - don't ever aks me to meet you.
Sex God
Quote by stephwell done steph could save some one getting something nasty if they met him and never bothered to check his post out well done hun :cheers:
Anyone catch this thread by any chance
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/488406.html#488406
It seems our young friend has problems about spots on his dick as well
Just wondering now if there is a connection
Steph
Quote by PoloLady
serious they can kill ya?
no way
serious?
Hope you don't mind me asking.....but how old are you,its just that you seem very naive in these matters.
Old enough to cosider taking unnecessary risks and probably add to the country's STD problem through total ignorance
Obviously skipped the sexual health lessons in school
these days you get videos, talks and lessons on the subject and I can't believe that someone is unaware that some stds are life-threatening. 
Orgasminator
how can anyone be ignorent of life enough to never have heard of aids?
Sex God
Essex_young_gun you seriously need to go and see a doctor and get some proper advice. I am not suggesting you have any thing but if only to put your mind at rest.
Easyease, I think Im stalking you hun
Easyease, I think Im stalking you hun
Orgasminator
thats ok. closest ive had to a woman showing an interest in a while.....
Quote by tallnhairy
serious they can kill ya?
no way
serious?
hep a, b, c etc can kill and very contagious, aids kills as there is only treatments, not cures. herpes hurts like hell but wont kill you, neither will thrush. However oral thrush not somthing you want to have...
So play safe
Risks still low, but be careful is the message...could i just add to this that hep a is highly contagious but you do get over it without any probs as long as you are reasonably fit & healthy
but its still better to be safe than sorry!!!
blimey shoot me down ehh :shock: , i was asking a question,
i was asking about chlamidia and herpes etc, not at all thinking of aids, or anything serious hence i was shocked, nothing like that was in my mind at all,
tall n hairy thank you mate seems your the only person who actually gave some advice on the matter,
honestly i am shocked at the way this thread went, if ya user name aint a regular one up there you better watch out,
o yeah thanks for the link aswell steph, very nice of ya
i was asking about chlamidia and herpes etc, not at all thinking of aids, or anything serious hence i was shocked, nothing like that was in my mind at all,
tall n hairy thank you mate seems your the only person who actually gave some advice on the matter,
honestly i am shocked at the way this thread went, if ya user name aint a regular one up there you better watch out,
o yeah thanks for the link aswell steph, very nice of ya
