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"Alternative" swingers - do they exist ?

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I just wondered, and hoped somebody on here could tell me, if a certain type of person crops up on the swinging scene much.
My "thing" is the alternative side - tattoos, piercings, dyed hair, scarification, light skin/dark makeup, etc, etc - that real raw rock/goth/punk thing that adds a certain wildness to the action.
Whilst starting to find my way in this rather daunting new world I've not really seen this type of person tending towards it.
Is this the case, from your experiences ?
Ta
Carpathian
Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and preferences. You see people with tattoos and pircings regularly in clubs. Goth, new Goth and Punk(ish) type images are also fairly common. When I go to the regular type of singers clubs and see all sorts, believe me! Some clubs attract more "alternatives" than others however. If you get into the fetish-swing scene what you describe would probably be seen as quite tame really. Depending on your location and preferences I could probably give you some suggestions for places to go if you don't know any. (Feel free to PM me if you prefer). If clubs are not your thing, advertise for people, they're out there!!!!
Cheers for that - I'm in the NorthEast (Gateshead/Newcastle area).
Really any advice would to be great to help get my foot (or other parts wink) on the ladder.
I'm not purely after that type of thing but you show me tattoos on pale skin, piercings available through ripped fishnet or bright-red dreads cascading over inked shoulders (to name but three out of many) and you'll see somebody more than happy to lose any inhibitions with anybody.......
Sorry, got a little diverted there :twisted:
To help you target your advice I'm probably after something 1-on-1 then working from there into group depending how things go. As a single male newbie (I know I am so I've qualms being honest about it) am I being unrealistic ?
Ta in advance,
Carpathian
Cheers - received and digested. Fair points made !
Carpy
I have found as with most communities that swingers are very diverse. There is something for everyone. Stick around and have some fun.
Love
Wilma
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Why, thank you for the encouragement, Wilma. I can see that once you've settled into the tone of this place you could have a ball (or two)
Actually, I just realised that after all my descriptions above as to what works for me, your hair in your avatar for you is, indeed, red. I really musn't dwell on that fact too long....should I 8)
Carpathian
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Why, thank you for the encouragement, Wilma. I can see that once you've settled into the tone of this place you could have a ball (or two)
Actually, I just realised that after all my descriptions above as to what works for me, your hair in your avatar for you is, indeed, red. I really musn't dwell on that fact too long....should I 8)
Carpathian

You see guys some of the newbies get the tone of the place so it's not just us!!
Dwell all you like Carpathian......fine by me....rotflmao
Love
Wilma
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Hey Carpathian - ask Wilma about her tattoo and piercings! lol wink
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Dwell all you like Carpathian......

I've heard it called many things...... 8)
Alternative? Well that would be me mate,sadly I doubt I'm what you had in couples are normally famed for their free and easy appraoch to sex though so they must be out there,infact I KNOW they are.
Pierced
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Alternative? Well that would be me mate,sadly I doubt I'm what you had in couples are normally famed for their free and easy appraoch to sex though so they must be out there,infact I KNOW they are.
Pierced

Indeed, I'm sure they're out there - it's just why aren't they in here :P
I'm normally the sort to go for a combination of body and brains but you show me a basque, fishnet, an artistic approach to blank eye-liner and piercings to overload airport metal detectors and I'll show you......actually I'll stop there before I incriminate myself any more !
I was talking to somebody I know today and she's added four more facial piercings and gone for green dreadlocks in a cyber-goth style {shiver down spine}
God, I could have taken her on the the counter of the shop where she was..........
I really am such an easy tart :twisted:
Carpathian {drifting into a daydream even as we speak......}