Nope...I tell her what to do and she's entitled to her opinion as long as she keeps it to herself...... then I do as she says and she does what she likes.... yes dear fine dear of course not dear...life's to short to argue.
Isn't it supposed to be a partnership not a conflict. We don't always see eye to eye, but then we work out a compromise no winners no losers.
Argue yes, but not fight. Not the same thing.
I could never last long with someone who did not have a mind of their own.
……..and some have taught me about myself, a subservient woman could never do that.
A man is better off simply doing something which he needs to do. You consult with the woman afterwards, its a lot easier.
i prefer the word debate,
its good to be with someone who has experiences and can offer a reasoned and thought provoking debate.
argue to me is pointless, nasty, and not the type of person i would want as a friend lover or partner.
i think it works both ways, a woman doesnt want a man who is a door mat, thats not to say i want a bully.
i dont want a soppy man who is ALL about pleasing me, but i want a man who is concerned im finding pleasure.
partnerships, equality and fun.
xx fem xx
I prefer a confident woman who is not afraid to say/act what she thinks/how she feels.
Personally I'd rather spend my time and effort challenging and pleasuring her...so she cans reciprocate...well it makes sense in my head lol
a wise man once said to me
"it is easier to ask for forgiveness after the act,
than ask for permission before it"
of course he was divorced and living in a bedsit whilst his ex-wife continued living in their former family home (with most of his earnings) - not saying that is right or wrong, just the way it was for him then.
*gulps* .. erm ... ok then ... best start drinking more water - got soooo dehydrated last time eh!!
))) and besides, Gem could easy have me in a fight. :uhoh: I know what a raised eyebrow means, and I'm not ordinarily about to argue with it. :scared: 
