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Hi
Last sat 4 of us (2 cples) went to a club in Blackpool which has a swimming pool.
After a little while we all ended up in pool and began palying with the lilo and generally having a laugh and indeed a cple of others joined in .
After 10 minutes or so a man came into the pool swam up to me and said this is a swingers club not a playground.
We carried on but have to say his attitude rather spoilt things and killed a fun atmosphere.
None of us are kids but we are young at heart and like a laugh
Yes its a swingers club but I did not see a sign saying its only for sex !
Thoughts anyone ???
Did you tell him to knob off ?
I would have ......
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Did you tell him to knob off ?
I would have ......

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Haven't heard that expression for ages!
I would have told him to "fuck off"......but thats just me.....cheeky git!
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Hi
Last sat 4 of us (2 cples) went to a club in Blackpool which has a swimming pool.
After a little while we all ended up in pool and began palying with the lilo and generally having a laugh and indeed a cple of others joined in .
After 10 minutes or so a man came into the pool swam up to me and said this is a swingers club not a playground.
We carried on but have to say his attitude rather spoilt things and killed a fun atmosphere.
None of us are kids but we are young at heart and like a laugh
Yes its a swingers club but I did not see a sign saying its only for sex !
Thoughts anyone ???

was it his lilo?
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Hi
Last sat 4 of us (2 cples) went to a club in Blackpool which has a swimming pool.
After a little while we all ended up in pool and began palying with the lilo and generally having a laugh and indeed a cple of others joined in .
After 10 minutes or so a man came into the pool swam up to me and said this is a swingers club not a playground.
We carried on but have to say his attitude rather spoilt things and killed a fun atmosphere.
None of us are kids but we are young at heart and like a laugh
Yes its a swingers club but I did not see a sign saying its only for sex !
Thoughts anyone ???

was it his lilo?
lol
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Hi
Last sat 4 of us (2 cples) went to a club in Blackpool which has a swimming pool.
After a little while we all ended up in pool and began palying with the lilo and generally having a laugh and indeed a cple of others joined in .
After 10 minutes or so a man came into the pool swam up to me and said this is a swingers club not a playground.
We carried on but have to say his attitude rather spoilt things and killed a fun atmosphere.
None of us are kids but we are young at heart and like a laugh
Yes its a swingers club but I did not see a sign saying its only for sex !
Thoughts anyone ???
He sounds like a right one! Swingers don't just want sex, a bit of fun goes a long way :silly:
Have fun with the lillo and stich him up :giggle:
Ou, I don't want to go against the grain here, oh what the hell.
I was at a party with a pool where several of the guests were mucking about, it made it impossible for anyone else to use the pool cos we kept getting kicked or elbowed or hit with an inflatable :shock:
A little consideration would have been nice.
Oh, look the flip side - I don't get down here much!
H.x
Agreed H-x, I think there has to be a balance. As long as you aren't being banged into and putting everybody off , then it shouldn't be a problem. I would say having a bit of common sense goes a long way smile
Not that I have any personal experience yet wink
Well theres always one who wants to spoil the fun... take no notice! Swinging is supposed to be fun.... you were having fun. Maybe he wasn't getting any and was jealous you guys were?
Have fun..... we do lol.
Mike x
It was the Lilo ............... Lilo rage.........
Its a growing menace causing encounters of the unwanted kind in swimming pools, paddling areas and groundsheets on camping sites.
You are lucky you are not being put back together by a forensic coroners team.
Now we all learned how to leave towels on the loungers in Malaga, to stop the Krauts grabbing the best places by the pool......................... lilos are next.
cool
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Ou, I don't want to go against the grain here, oh what the hell.
I was at a party with a pool where several of the guests were mucking about, it made it impossible for anyone else to use the pool cos we kept getting kicked or elbowed or hit with an inflatable :shock:
A little consideration would have been nice.
Oh, look the flip side - I don't get down here much!
H.x

I'll come down to the flip side with you lol
We're ones that find it essential to have a wet area in a swinging club - now, depending on the wet area at the time, will affect our behaviour....
For instance, if there's noone else in the pool, then we'll muck about, have a bit of a laugh and play fight cool :bounce:
If there are a few people in there, but no playing, then we'll natter to them, or just bob about yapping to each other (while secretly trying to flip the other persons feet from under em! 8-) :twisted: )
If there are people in there already getting cosy, then there's noway we'll get in, muck about and destroy that atmosphere confused Nowt worse than being in a sexual playing environment, things heating up, becoming more and more erotic - and someone does a dive bomb, with shrieks of laughter and general 'mucking about'. So offputting and I can't abide it.......... Same goes for the other play areas too - can't stand it if you're getting all hotted up and people are stood watching, talking about the weather, football n stuff :shock: Thoroughly bad manners IMO, which should be kept away from playing people and if theres nowhere else to have their natter - then why can't they go back to the lounge rooms, that are social? dunno Anything like that is guaranteed to have me stop playing and going back to the lounge until these people have gone :?
My thoughts are that it is a swinging club and once an erotic atmosphere builds up between people, full respect should be given to that.
But, like I said - if the atmosphere in a pool is general mayhem as opposed to sexual play, then we'll join in with that and have a blast, we love it :bounce: But the moment play starts, then we do tone down our behaviour to suit.
totally agree about judging the atmosphere etc
When we were all playing in the pool we were the only ones in it
None of us would dream of mucking about if people were in the water and getting intimate
This was early in the evening and was just us lot warming up and having a laugh
And no the lilo was not his lol
And we plan to go back and we are taking a blow up ball !!!!
The trouble with the pool in that club is that it is in the bar area. If you step back from the bar 2 paces your are in the water. A lot of the seating is beside the pool and since many people are stood or sat still clothed they could well be soaked by those splashing in the pool.
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totally agree about judging the atmosphere etc
When we were all playing in the pool we were the only ones in it
None of us would dream of mucking about if people were in the water and getting intimate
This was early in the evening and was just us lot warming up and having a laugh
And no the lilo was not his lol
And we plan to go back and we are taking a blow up ball !!!!

And a volleyball net ....... and count us in the team!! :lol2: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Like you said, there is a time and a place for different things. Most people can and do guage an atmosphere and act accordingly - sounds like the guy who approached you was trying to speed things along and not reading an atmosphere at all confused :? :? rolleyes
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The trouble with the pool in that club is that it is in the bar area. If you step back from the bar 2 paces your are in the water. A lot of the seating is beside the pool and since many people are stood or sat still clothed they could well be soaked by those splashing in the pool.

Ewwww no, don't think I would like that confused Wouldn't know whether to be sexual or social :confused: Then what happens after play and you just wanna be social :? Bit difficult if you're surrounded by playing people, I would be scared of ruining their time :?
Must admit, I do like defined areas! :?
I've returned from the flipside - frankly wasn't keen!
Lots of peace and quiet and women knitting bedsocks.
H.x
Quote by H-x
I've returned from the flipside - frankly wasn't keen!
Lots of peace and quiet and women knitting bedsocks.
H.x

Sorry redface
Can't help myself
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The trouble with the pool in that club is that it is in the bar area. If you step back from the bar 2 paces your are in the water. A lot of the seating is beside the pool and since many people are stood or sat still clothed they could well be soaked by those splashing in the pool.

Ewwww no, don't think I would like that confused Wouldn't know whether to be sexual or social :confused: Then what happens after play and you just wanna be social :? Bit difficult if you're surrounded by playing people, I would be scared of ruining their time :?
Must admit, I do like defined areas! :?
This club seems a little cramped!