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Quote by Freckledbird
Amber and Felix:
Mr. Powers and the others are joking!
If you read back, you will see that.

Yes I know Frecklebird...I did think that and said so in my post but it isn't funny as it is an issue for a lot of people
If you know they're joking and it still offends you then don't read the thread!
I will read what I want - perhaps you should just not reply to me if what I say offends you!!
What you've said hasn't offended me. I was saying, if you're offended by what you know is in the thread, then don't read it. They are having a laugh - you're taking offence at it! If you don't read it, it won't. If you carry on reading, then it might offend, but that's not their intention so it's your choice to be offended.
As it is my choice to voice my opinions on this thread - as you chose to voice yours on my reply (in the same way you could have ignored it - but obviously it did stike enough of a cord with you to feel you had to reply!)
I have said what I wanted to say.... I am not in the mood to play, I am right/you are wrong games thanks!
Quote by Drewxcore

kiss exactly what i was thinking x

Drew, if all you're going to do is agree with anyone who has the opposite opinion to me, you're in the wrong place!
Thats not ALL i've been doing. Your negativity to people just gets on my nerves x
Awwwwwwww lol
Quote by Amber
As it is my choice to voice my opinions on this thread - as you chose to voice yours on my reply (in the same way you could have ignored it - but obviously it did stike enough of a cord with you to feel you had to reply!)
I have said what I wanted to say.... I am not in the mood to play, I am right/you are wrong games thanks!

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Nah, struck a chord because they've touched a nerve and they're only taking the piss.
But hey, you want to moan about them, feel free. They won't lose any sleep, I bet.
Quote by Drewxcore
Stop laughing at people FB rolleyes

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by Freckledbird

As it is my choice to voice my opinions on this thread - as you chose to voice yours on my reply (in the same way you could have ignored it - but obviously it did stike enough of a cord with you to feel you had to reply!)
I have said what I wanted to say.... I am not in the mood to play, I am right/you are wrong games thanks!

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Nah, struck a chord because they've touched a nerve and they're only taking the piss.
But hey, you want to moan about them, feel free. They won't lose any sleep, I bet.
You need to show a little respect to people.....you are so sad getting at people all the time - have you nothing better to do!?
lol
Quote by Freckledbird
Stop laughing at people FB rolleyes

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
:roll:
Quote by Amber
You need to show a little respect to people.....you are so sad getting at people all the time - have you nothing better to do!?
lol

I wasn't actually getting at anyone, if you read what I said - just pointing out that they are taking the piss and that if it offends you, you don't have to read it.
Oh, forgot these:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Because laughter is positive!
Quote by Freckledbird

You need to show a little respect to people.....you are so sad getting at people all the time - have you nothing better to do!?
lol

I wasn't actually getting at anyone, if you read what I said - just pointing out that they are taking the Ypiss and that if it offends you, you don't have to read it.
Oh, forgot these:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Because laughter is positive!
You are backtracking a little as you know you are being nasty now..... You were getting at me...... but I won't take it to heart as I know you are like that with most people! wink
Quote by Amber

You need to show a little respect to people.....you are so sad getting at people all the time - have you nothing better to do!?
lol

I wasn't actually getting at anyone, if you read what I said - just pointing out that they are taking the Ypiss and that if it offends you, you don't have to read it.
Oh, forgot these:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Because laughter is positive!
You are backtracking a little as you know you are being nasty now..... You were getting at me...... but I won't take it to heart as I know you are like that with most people! wink
Find me the bit where I was getting at you? dunno
Oh, and actually, you don't know me at all!
Quote by Freckledbird

You need to show a little respect to people.....you are so sad getting at people all the time - have you nothing better to do!?
lol

I wasn't actually getting at anyone, if you read what I said - just pointing out that they are taking the Ypiss and that if it offends you, you don't have to read it.
Oh, forgot these:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Because laughter is positive!
You are backtracking a little as you know you are being nasty now..... You were getting at me...... but I won't take it to heart as I know you are like that with most people! wink
Find me the bit where I was getting at you? dunno
I don't usually get into these type of childish games but you have drawn me in to yours.....here is the example you were wanting - I think you will find it hard to disagree you were not getting at me!!
Nah, struck a chord because they've touched a nerve and they're only taking the piss.
But hey, you want to moan about them, feel free. They won't lose any sleep, I bet.
Quote by Amber
I don't usually get into these type of childish games but you have drawn me in to yours.....here is the example you were wanting - I think you will find it hard to disagree you were not getting at me!!

Nah, struck a chord because they've touched a nerve and they're only taking the piss.
Ah, this is where I was supporting the pisstakers.
But hey, you want to moan about them, feel free. They won't lose any sleep, I bet.

And that's the bit where I said you can do what you want.
Where's that getting at you?
Quote by Freckledbird

I don't usually get into these type of childish games but you have drawn me in to yours.....here is the example you were wanting - I think you will find it hard to disagree you were not getting at me!!

Nah, struck a chord because they've touched a nerve and they're only taking the piss.
Ah, this is where I was supporting the pisstakers.
But hey, you want to moan about them, feel free. They won't lose any sleep, I bet.

And that's the bit where I said you can do what you want.
Where's that getting at you?
Strange.....can't see the bit where you say I can do what I want!! I thought you decided what I should do! lol
Don't be bitter because you can't win this hun x
Quote by Amber

But hey, you want to moan about them, feel free. They won't lose any sleep, I bet.

And that's the bit where I said you can do what you want.
Where's that getting at you?
Quote by Amber
Strange.....can't see the bit where you say I can do what I want!! I thought you decided what I should do! lol
Don't be bitter because you can't win this hun x

No Amber, I said feel free to moan about them - ie., do what you want. Hun.
rotflmao @ bitter!
Quote by Freckledbird

But hey, you want to moan about them, feel free. They won't lose any sleep, I bet.

And that's the bit where I said you can do what you want.
Where's that getting at you?
Strange.....can't see the bit where you say I can do what I want!! I thought you decided what I should do! lol
Don't be bitter because you can't win this hun x
No Amber, I said feel free to moan about them - ie., do what you want.
rotflmao @ bitter!
well thanks for the go ahead...but I usually do what I want to anyway wink
Sorted then - you'll carry on reading and getting all offended.
I'll be rotflmao and seeing the funny side of the thread. Everyone happy - and now I'm off for a shag smile
Quote by Freckledbird
Sorted then - you'll carry on reading and getting all offended.
I'll be rotflmao and seeing the funny side of the thread. Everyone happy - and now I'm off for a shag smile

Enjoy...........
Quote by Freckledbird

kiss exactly what i was thinking x

Drew, if all you're going to do is agree with anyone who has the opposite opinion to me, you're in the wrong place!
Thats not ALL i've been doing. Your negativity to people just gets on my nerves x
Awwwwwwww lol
Arr...Bless.....FB i think Drew has a crush on you!
Now to anyone else who this has struck a nerve with...if you can honestly believe any of the remarks in this thread about gingers...was serious...you are in need of a humour transplant!....one day i hope humour will cure the world...right now lets start with the gingers! :lol:
ok, i have read through all of this thread and i actually felt the origonal post was intended as having serious tones.
i understand also that many people have been having a laugh at it all.
what i want to say is that this topic may be trivial to lots of people and even those with ginger hair may find it funny. but i have to say as soon as it became apparent that it had started to offend i feel it crossed the line.
if this had maybe been about something else, like overweight, black disabled etc then it would not have been allowed.
the person who started the post did make it clear he was intending it to not be a funny thread but still the jokes carried on.
i know it has also been said that if its found offensive then stop reading it, but i feel that is unfair.
is it ok to insult the disabled as long as they dont read it??
to me it is not about the topic but the fact it offends.
some people have sufered deeply and been bullied just down to the fact of their hair colour, its not a joke.
xx fem xx
Quote by fem_4_taboo
to me it is not about the topic but the fact it offends.
some people have sufered deeply and been bullied just down to the fact of their hair colour, its not a joke.
xx fem xx

My hair used to be a lovely carrotty shade when I was younger - it's gradually darkened to a shade of auburn as I've got older (although nos has white in it too!).
I've been called all sorts of names over the years and I was bullied at school. I grew up and got over it though - developed lovely thick skin. Now I can laugh about it, as can blondes who have many jokes made at their expense.
I don't think a bit of pisstaking about hair colour is the same as making fun of someone who is disabled though, fem. The original thread starter may have intended it to be a serious discussion and if it had, I think it might then have become worse than it has. I was one of those who was more cautious of how the thread might end up. I think the people who have taken offence may not have read the whole thing, as you have.
Quote by fem_4_taboo
ok, i have read through all of this thread and i actually felt the origonal post was intended as having serious tones.
i understand also that many people have been having a laugh at it all.
what i want to say is that this topic may be trivial to lots of people and even those with ginger hair may find it funny. but i have to say as soon as it became apparent that it had started to offend i feel it crossed the line.
if this had maybe been about something else, like overweight, black disabled etc then it would not have been allowed.
the person who started the post did make it clear he was intending it to not be a funny thread but still the jokes carried on.
i know it has also been said that if its found offensive then stop reading it, but i feel that is unfair.
is it ok to insult the disabled as long as they dont read it??
to me it is not about the topic but the fact it offends.
some people have sufered deeply and been bullied just down to the fact of their hair colour, its not a joke.
xx fem xx

this is about hair colour for crying out loud...so do gingers think they are the only ones who have the mickey taken out of them/...i think not!You only have to watch Little Britain or Catherine Tate just to see it all the for joke that it is...wether its hair colour,chavs,little balding men in wheelchairs,gingers,TV's....i use to wear glasses at school....don't you think i had to put up with a bit of stick?....well of course i did...but i got other it!...over sensitivety...is going to kill as for the original question...even that's wrong...when was it considered racist to have a laugh at someone's hair colour....the next time someone says something stupid...will they now have to think twice before they say they had a "Blonde Moment"?
something small to one person can be a big issue to another, thats fine and everyone is entitled to a opinion.
my reasoning was not about the topic but the fact the way the thread was going was being seen as causing offence.
like i also said i understand people have faced bullying, just because some people are able to get through it does not make it ok.
we are not children in a playground now, but adults who should be able to empathise with peoples emotions.
if something is causing offense why continue to do it?this is not directed to anyone, just my observation.
regarding people having preferences to not wanting to meet ginger haired people i think that is acceptable, after all we do still have the right to say no to having sex with people we find unattractive. ive ofetn thought how much more sex i would get if i could enforce this ruling as wrong however. lol
again like i said i know this was "only" about hair colour, but if the way the thread was going was becoming offensive to some then i think its sad.
its often situations like this that comments start to get hurlled and peoples backs are up.
from little acorns great oaks grow and from little shits come big smells lol
and we all know its not the size that matters.
im rambling now, see what youve made me do. lol
but just remember ginger people have feelings to.
xxxxx fem xxx
Quote by Freckledbird

to me it is not about the topic but the fact it offends.
some people have sufered deeply and been bullied just down to the fact of their hair colour, its not a joke.
xx fem xx

My hair used to be a lovely carrotty shade when I was younger - it's gradually darkened to a shade of auburn as I've got older (although nos has white in it too!).

:shock: :giggle:
bolt
Quote by BiWelshMinx

to me it is not about the topic but the fact it offends.
some people have sufered deeply and been bullied just down to the fact of their hair colour, its not a joke.
xx fem xx

My hair used to be a lovely carrotty shade when I was younger - it's gradually darkened to a shade of auburn as I've got older (although nos has white in it too!).

:shock: :giggle:
bolt
:shock: at my hair or the typo? lol
Quote by Freckledbird

to me it is not about the topic but the fact it offends.
some people have sufered deeply and been bullied just down to the fact of their hair colour, its not a joke.
xx fem xx

My hair used to be a lovely carrotty shade when I was younger - it's gradually darkened to a shade of auburn as I've got older (although nos has white in it too!).

:shock: :giggle:
bolt
:shock: at my hair or the typo? lol
Your hair is lovely kiss
If I didn't colour mine it would be salt n pepper hair confused Yeah, thanks Dad! :lol:
Quote by BiWelshMinx
If I didn't colour mine it would be salt n pepper hair confused Yeah, thanks Dad! lol

Salt and Pepper....Will have to remember that :lol:
I thought this thread was funny now I'm just bored of it sad :(
Quote by Mr-Powers
this is about hair colour for crying out loud...so do gingers think they are the only ones who have the mickey taken out of them

No
But what about hatred, I for one have suffered violence because i have ginger hair! so shall we all laugh at that? i was happy to see this thread and i wanted to keep it serious, Why?
Firstly because i still to this very day suffer an immense amount of stick because i have ginger hair.
Secondly because i have seen mothers of new born babies crying and prying that there child DOES NOT have ginger hair
so why is there so much hatred towards ginger hair?
Quote by felixx1416
Secondly because i have seen mothers of new born babies crying and prying that there child DOES NOT have ginger hair

I remember the birth of our kids.
Who cared what sex it was, I wanted to know if I had a carrot top kid :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
Quote by felixx1416
so why is there so much hatred towards ginger hair?

I had no idea there was dunno
I don't like the fact my ginger hair is now going brown, I miss having ginger hair!
The red/ginger/blonde I have now is out a sodding bottle because I find brown way to boring for me!
I loved having bright ginger hair :lol2:
Mr-Powers, maybe best not start a thread on having a 'blonde' day rolleyes
Quote by felixx1416

this is about hair colour for crying out loud...so do gingers think they are the only ones who have the mickey taken out of them

No
But what about hatred, I for one have suffered violence because i have ginger hair! so shall we all laugh at that? i was happy to see this thread and i wanted to keep it serious, Why?
Firstly because i still to this very day suffer an immense amount of stick because i have ginger hair.
Secondly because i have seen mothers of new born babies crying and prying that there child DOES NOT have ginger hair
so why is there so much hatred towards ginger hair?
Hatred towards to ginger hair??...abit OTT don't you think!
I'd start worrying when they decide to burn ginger haired people at the stake!
Which is unlikely to happen of course rolleyes
so you got stick for having ginger hair...alot of people get stick for all sorts of things not just ginger haired people...you just to rise above it!
your really just jealous..that theres more blonde jokes than ginger jokes!