rape fantasies

13 Nov 2009

For me a fantasy is exactly that, provided it is agreed before hand and is between two consenting adults, in the privacy of there own homes and does not effect any one else then that is fine.
My wife, on occations likes to pretend she is being forced to have sex by a stranger, we have never used the word in this fantasy. I think the word, , is a big word and rightly so.

14 Nov 2009

I'd say words are just that words, however words do carry a meaning and a fantasy is never , it is some damsil in distress, some coersed woman, a shy woman who has the wanton slut brought out of her,
basically the woman cums at the end of the experience.
is none of the above, I'd say forced roleplay or reluctant woman or slave and master, dom sub anything other than .
I've never read a fantasy that actually acts out , it's not possible as ain't sexual.
In fact it's never about sex it's about power and the abuse of power

14 Nov 2009

Squeal like a pig, boy!
lp

14 Nov 2009

If you look on erotic fiction sites, the section for non-consent is often very well read or contributed to.
I think that many women fantasise about being forced into sexual situations or having control/choice removed from them. As others have said however, this is not .

14 Nov 2009

Is this rapism?

14 Nov 2009

Quote by duckandbunny79
I'd say words are just that words, however words do carry a meaning and a fantasy is never , it is some damsil in distress, some coersed woman, a shy woman who has the wanton slut brought out of her,
basically the woman cums at the end of the experience.
is none of the above, I'd say forced roleplay or reluctant woman or slave and master, dom sub anything other than .
I've never read a fantasy that actually acts out , it's not possible as ain't sexual.
In fact it's never about sex it's about power and the abuse of power

:thumbup:
Acting out a fantasy such as this requires the utmost trust in your partner. It's not just a case of rough sex ( and hands up all those women who like a bit of that now and then? :twisted: ) It's the ultimate dom/sub scenario and, for those who have this fantasy, can be incredibly enjoyable. There is no connection at all between fantasy and actual

14 Nov 2009

i expect that in genuine cases of its possible that the fantasy has been used as an excuse to avoid admitting real intentions. i expect that the innocent may have suffered and the guilty been let off, depending on how good the lawyer was.

15 Nov 2009

Maybe i'm the only one, but I dont see the problem with fantasies.
REAL is a horrible thing. But so is being slapped around and having your throat fucked when you arent in the mood. Is there a difference?

15 Nov 2009

Quote by duckandbunny79
I'd say words are just that words, however words do carry a meaning and a fantasy is never , it is some damsil in distress, some coersed woman, a shy woman who has the wanton slut brought out of her,
basically the woman cums at the end of the experience.
is none of the above, I'd say forced roleplay or reluctant woman or slave and master, dom sub anything other than .
I've never read a fantasy that actually acts out , it's not possible as ain't sexual.
In fact it's never about sex it's about power and the abuse of power

I think that's the best way I've ever seen it put into words. :thumbup:
Trust. Consent. Respect.

15 Nov 2009

Quote by Anoush
Maybe i'm the only one, but I dont see the problem with fantasies.
REAL is a horrible thing. But so is being slapped around and having your throat fucked when you arent in the mood. Is there a difference?

There is a huge difference.
In a fantasy, the person being 'slapped about' can say at any point "Whoa! Time out" and it stops. This is because the aim of the exercise is for two people to explore different ends of the same scale, one to be dominant, the other submissive, dipping their toes into this somewhat world. The dom will know when the sub is enjoying it and when they are not. It may appear that this is , but it is entirely consentual. If it ever strays into something the sub is not happy with, then they should say. Even within the fantasy, there are still boundaries that are agreed upon by both.
That doesn't happen in . In it is about one persons abuse, power and control over another. In the other persons feelings are entirely discarded and abused regardless of what they say and do. In fantasy, they are honoured at all times even if they seem, and that is a crucial word, not to be.
Anyone who continues a fantasy to the point where there partner has said "Look ok, fantasy over, let's stop now" runs the serious risk of losing the "fantasy" aspect of it.
And even if consent is given to indulge in this, the level of trust and mutual respect required to take part in it, is so high that it takes a long time to build up.