has anyone experienced false message sending from this or any other swinger site??? reason for asking is that ages ago we registered with a contact site( that we will not name but it was not this one) because we could not reply to any messages before paying lots of money we forgot all about it....then recently we registered with yet another supposedly free site under a different name and within a day we had received a message, all excited we logged in and found it was supposedly from our old profile details... miffed??? it read as if the two profiles were totally unconnected but WE know very well we did not send it to ourselves.... surely this is conning any genuine swingers and what can be done????
we tried sending the site admin a complaint and low and behold it had an error delivering.... Swingers Heaven is the only site for us from now on.
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loads of dodgy sites out there............
we dont do any pay 4 stuff ....
and hopefully never will !!!!!!!!!!!
we dont do any pay 4 stuff ....
and hopefully never will !!!!!!!!!!!
Sex God
we were members of one site that also used our details on others, so now we're long gone!
we also had a hilarious experience of 'single bloke pretending to be couple'! (not from this site mind)
We had been chatting to the couple, and thought it was strange that they kept suggesting the guy come 'check maz out to make sure his bird fancied her first' they were really pushy about meets etc. unfortunately it was back in our early days so we had swapped pics with them quite happily, but then began to get suspicious and thought they might not be a couple after all, but a single bloke. They also kept trying to get us to buy stuff from an online site!
One day, den was searching for new sites and stumbled across a profile of the 'girl' from the couple.
This couple had claimed they were from newcastle (no, not u stenrach!) and the pics den found were actually of a girl from milwauke that this sad bloke had obviously pinched!
When den pulled him up on it, he still pretended to be 'her' and said that 'she had contacted the internet police, because someone must have stolen her pics and den needed to give her his contact details becuase she needed to catch the pic stealer
hahahhahahahahahah
it was thee most hilarious thing! even when he had blatantly been caught, he was still trying to lie his way out!
and still said he wanted to meet me (maz alone) but him and his couples profile quickly disappeared, no doubt just to be in another disguise!!!!
So, unfortunately it has made us very wary now, but we're 'older n wiser' n just dont give out our pics so easily and like to chat well n suss everyone out heheh!
Dont seem to have any problems on here so far though!
xoxox
we also had a hilarious experience of 'single bloke pretending to be couple'! (not from this site mind)
We had been chatting to the couple, and thought it was strange that they kept suggesting the guy come 'check maz out to make sure his bird fancied her first' they were really pushy about meets etc. unfortunately it was back in our early days so we had swapped pics with them quite happily, but then began to get suspicious and thought they might not be a couple after all, but a single bloke. They also kept trying to get us to buy stuff from an online site!
One day, den was searching for new sites and stumbled across a profile of the 'girl' from the couple.
This couple had claimed they were from newcastle (no, not u stenrach!) and the pics den found were actually of a girl from milwauke that this sad bloke had obviously pinched!
When den pulled him up on it, he still pretended to be 'her' and said that 'she had contacted the internet police, because someone must have stolen her pics and den needed to give her his contact details becuase she needed to catch the pic stealer
hahahhahahahahahah
it was thee most hilarious thing! even when he had blatantly been caught, he was still trying to lie his way out!
and still said he wanted to meet me (maz alone) but him and his couples profile quickly disappeared, no doubt just to be in another disguise!!!!
So, unfortunately it has made us very wary now, but we're 'older n wiser' n just dont give out our pics so easily and like to chat well n suss everyone out heheh!
Dont seem to have any problems on here so far though!
xoxox
Sex God
yup . . . fake profiles and fake responses are the stock-in-trade of the commercial sites! ((( which goes a long way towards explaining the concerns we had here? ))) i've seen the exact same ad, word for word, on sites, and each time it has a different pic. sometimes, it's even on the same pigging site FFS! same ad, different pics. i doubt someone thought, that's such a good ad, i'll copy what they said, cos the ads were shite! 
muppets! 
odd isn't it, that you can put a profile up for free on most sites, and lo and behold within a day or two you get a reply ((( which as any single guy on any swinging site in the world will tell you, is almost unheard of! ))) but hey presto . . . sorry . . . you need to cough up 30 / 40 / 50 quid to reply to your reply? now i'm guessing, that reply is faker than the fakest thing on a corfu market stall full of fake things?
despite the perennial question "who's genuine" i think SH is infinitely more genuine than just about any other site ((( paid or free! ))) i've come across, cos there's no need for that kind of ripping punters off here?
neil x x x ;)
muppets! odd isn't it, that you can put a profile up for free on most sites, and lo and behold within a day or two you get a reply ((( which as any single guy on any swinging site in the world will tell you, is almost unheard of! ))) but hey presto . . . sorry . . . you need to cough up 30 / 40 / 50 quid to reply to your reply? now i'm guessing, that reply is faker than the fakest thing on a corfu market stall full of fake things?
despite the perennial question "who's genuine" i think SH is infinitely more genuine than just about any other site ((( paid or free! ))) i've come across, cos there's no need for that kind of ripping punters off here?
neil x x x ;)
What Neil said lol!
I just wanted to ad that I tried a few sites before discovering SH and this is definitely the most genuine by a long way. I think it's partly the other members that keep it that way, because there aren't 2,0754332 members and 1000's of 'dead' profiles the forum is small enough to have a community where the fakes are very easily spotted and 'outed'!
If I know this lot, most of them could 'sniff' out a fake profile at a hundred paces whilst wearing a blindfold! :grin:
I also think it's a matter of experience too - I can recognise a picture stolen from the internet in a second and I find it quite amusing. The way I deal with it is I insist on a early cam or phone chat before swapping pics etc.
IMHO the difference with SH is the Mods and Ops are real people that are visible within the website and do actually care and answer questions and deal with complaints - yes making money is a priority as SH is a business but I feel they have the balance right!
I just wanted to ad that I tried a few sites before discovering SH and this is definitely the most genuine by a long way. I think it's partly the other members that keep it that way, because there aren't 2,0754332 members and 1000's of 'dead' profiles the forum is small enough to have a community where the fakes are very easily spotted and 'outed'!
If I know this lot, most of them could 'sniff' out a fake profile at a hundred paces whilst wearing a blindfold! :grin:
I also think it's a matter of experience too - I can recognise a picture stolen from the internet in a second and I find it quite amusing. The way I deal with it is I insist on a early cam or phone chat before swapping pics etc.
IMHO the difference with SH is the Mods and Ops are real people that are visible within the website and do actually care and answer questions and deal with complaints - yes making money is a priority as SH is a business but I feel they have the balance right!
