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Assuming you mean PM's to individuals/couples?
I'd hazard a guess that the majority of couples and females on this site - and every other adult site like it - receive a million zillion PM's a week.
If they are anything like me, they don't log on to the site just to reply to the million zillion PM's to say "thanks but no thanks" cos after a while it's just damn boring! Especially when you'd rather be in the chatroom or reading the forums, catching up with friends, whatever.
All I can suggest is you try to make you PM's that bit different from the rest.
Personally, I find the "i'm this tall, this age, this coloured hair ... I love giving oral/taking it up the ass/peeing on your cat .. blah blah" really dull. Sorry, but after a million zillion of those, I'm tempted to just hit "delete".
I also see my PM's on here to be very much like my snail mail that comes through the letter-box: some I have to reply to, some I want to reply to, some gets ignored till they simply won't leave me alone and then they get an angry response from and the majority hits the bin straight away.
You've only been here a couple of weeks. Give it time. Some wait years. Honestly!
I'd hazard a guess that the majority of couples and females on this site - and every other adult site like it - receive a million zillion PM's a week.
If they are anything like me, they don't log on to the site just to reply to the million zillion PM's to say "thanks but no thanks" cos after a while it's just damn boring! Especially when you'd rather be in the chatroom or reading the forums, catching up with friends, whatever.
All I can suggest is you try to make you PM's that bit different from the rest.
Personally, I find the "i'm this tall, this age, this coloured hair ... I love giving oral/taking it up the ass/peeing on your cat .. blah blah" really dull. Sorry, but after a million zillion of those, I'm tempted to just hit "delete".
I also see my PM's on here to be very much like my snail mail that comes through the letter-box: some I have to reply to, some I want to reply to, some gets ignored till they simply won't leave me alone and then they get an angry response from and the majority hits the bin straight away.
You've only been here a couple of weeks. Give it time. Some wait years. Honestly!
Quote by Hot-one
Does anyone on here bother to reply to posts? been on here a couple of weeks, and sent out to quite a few posts replys one. If your not intrested please take the time and say so. And these posts have been on line since I posted as it tells you when last on line . thanks
I would think that if they don't answer a pm - that in itself, is telling you, that they are not interested
Sex God
Quote by Juniper_couple
Does anyone on here bother to reply to posts? been on here a couple of weeks, and sent out to quite a few posts replys one. If your not intrested please take the time and say so. And these posts have been on line since I posted as it tells you when last on line . thanks
I would think that if they don't answer a pm - that in itself, is telling you, that they are not interested
True
and you might find yourself added to the ignore list!
:wink: 
Sexlightened
We dont have anyone added to our ignore list....
Maybe were just to nice!
Maybe were just to nice!
I'm sorry you feel this way hot-one, but to be fair you've only been a member for a little over a week, perhaps you are being too hasty? or maybe you are expecting too much too soon. Making friends and feeling ready for meets takes time and patience.
Are you sending winks or actual emails? As a rule I always send an email to people I'm interested in to let them know a little about myself.
Are you sending winks or actual emails? As a rule I always send an email to people I'm interested in to let them know a little about myself.
Sexlightened
Quote by blonde
We dont have anyone added to our ignore list....
Maybe were just to nice!
No-one bothers with me ......... so I dont have an ignore list :cry:
:rascal:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Awww :therethere:
You know, now that youve said that your going to be overwhelmed with messages... and then you can use your ignore list!
lol :D
mainly reply to most unless the just silly ones saying nice profile yadda yadda yaddaQuote by LeedsGothCouple
We dont have anyone added to our ignore list....
Maybe were just to nice!
No-one bothers with me ......... so I dont have an ignore list :cry:
:rascal:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Awww :therethere:
You know, now that youve said that your going to be overwhelmed with messages... and then you can use your ignore list!
lol :D
Not as daft as everyone thinks I am then! :rascal:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
