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Responding to mail - can the webmaster help?

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Not a rant or even a blubber cos I feel sorry for myself.
I've taken the time to respond to a few adverts on the site (as I guess many of us have). Only had 2 ladies with the manners to say, thanks but no thanks. Now I appreciate that some of the ladies on here must get their boxes stuffed full (oh er!) of horny males requesting the pleasure of their company; and responding to each and everyone would be impossible. But I wonder if we could set up an icon, like the wink facility, that sends back a mail saying simply "Thanks, but no thanks".
Might still not help the culturally inept, but you never know.
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Not a rant or even a blubber cos I feel sorry for myself.
I've taken the time to respond to a few adverts on the site (as I guess many of us have). Only had 2 ladies with the manners to say, thanks but no thanks. Now I appreciate that some of the ladies on here must get their boxes stuffed full (oh er!) of horny males requesting the pleasure of their company; and responding to each and everyone would be impossible. But I wonder if we could set up an icon, like the wink facility, that sends back a mail saying simply "Thanks, but no thanks".
Might still not help the culturally inept, but you never know.

Alternatively, you could simply take the lack of reply as a "thanks, but no thanks" dunno
Someone with a little more patience will be along shortly to explain the why's & wherefores, I'm sure.
In the meantime, :welcome: to SH, and you may find some interesting reading on the subject by using the search button. :thumbup:
Winchy
He has been here since 2005!
Hello!!
I have mine set to ignore for winnks, so I never know they happen!! :smug:
Winchy - I appreciate your comments, but was trying to show that a courteous brief response had more by way of manners than ignoring altogether. I know it's an old fashioned idea and I'll probably be ripped to shreds on here for it.
Sarah - I mentioned "like" the winks rather than exactly the same, but I do take on board what you say.
Thank you ladies
Shug
Quote by shug69
Winchy - I appreciate your comments, but was trying to show that a courteous brief response had more by way of manners than ignoring altogether. I know it's an old fashioned idea and I'll probably be ripped to shreds on here for it.
Sarah - I mentioned "like" the winks rather than exactly the same, but I do take on board what you say.
Thank you ladies
Shug

This has been a bone of contention almost since day one of the board. It has been brought up ad nauseum which is probably why you haven't either had the response you expected or in the numbers you would have liked.