Results...

14 Oct 2003

... I've seen a lot of postings along the lines of:
"does this place provide 'results'" or
"success rate in here"
Surely you're coming into the site with the wrong attitude... it's just a community, it's not here to provide 'results' for you. You get out of a community what you put in, it's not a pick up joint, or a shop. It seems the measure of those folks 'result' is if they manage a meet and have sex.
If you're looking for just a meet and sex, then yes that can be found here, but it's a lot less effort in terms of time and money to take alternative routes for getting sex (I think you know what I mean).
Take part in the place, contribute in some way, and don't just give it the old "what can I get out of this place".... takers get noticed rapidly, and tend to get ignored 2 seconds afterwards.
Success has to be worked for, good luck.
/TheKid

14 Oct 2003

Well said, /TheKid - I think a lot of people have logged on to this site recently, probably due to the press interest, expecting to find a huge bunch of sex-crazed swingers willing to satify their wildest dreams, instantly and for nothing. They soon find out that it isn't like that (or is it wink

), and Swinging Heaven is just like any other community in that what you get out of it depends on lots of factors - some will be happy and some won't. One thing though - this isn't the place to get instant sex - anyone reading this with that in mind, do us all a favour and go elsewhere, and leave the rest of us nutters to our eye spy wink

14 Oct 2003

Well Blow me,
(sorry guys, ladies only) lol

For the first time I find myself in full agreement with TheAnalogueKid. Nice post Kid. 8)
Harry0
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I wasn't joking ladies. pm me for quick reply, if your in the mood. lol.