We have one basic rule about meeting swinging partners................if we enjoy what we are doing with them, then we see them again! Simple as that!
However, over the last four years of swinging we have heard lots of silly rules others adhere to!
1. Never see a couple more than three times, to avoid possible emotional attachment!
2. The husband can't have sex with the other woman unless his wife has sex first with the other guy!!!
3. No kissing!!
There are others we have heard!
Anyone like to share their own ideas?
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Rules of Engagement!
Quote by sheffieldfun4two
We have one basic rule about meeting swinging partners................if we enjoy what we are doing with them, then we see them again! Simple as that!
However, over the last four years of swinging we have heard lots of silly rules others adhere to!
1. Never see a couple more than three times, to avoid possible emotional attachment!
2. The husband can't have sex with the other woman unless his wife has sex first with the other guy!!!
3. No kissing!!
There are others we have heard!
Anyone like to share their own ideas?
If it smells or looks bad, it probably is.
:rotflmao: :silly:Quote by sheffieldfun4two"]We have one basic rule about meeting swinging partners................if we enjoy what we are doing with them, then we see them again! Simple as that!
However, over the last four years of swinging we have heard lots of silly rules others adhere to!
1. Never see a couple more than three times, to avoid possible emotional attachment!
2. The husband can't have sex with the other woman unless his wife has sex first with the other guy!!!
3. No kissing!!
There are others we have heard!
Youv'e said it all, don't listen to silly stories !!!
Humm I just spent ages doing a reply about military "rules of engagement" and skillfully
blended it to this topic then was about to post an had to log in again and lost it all awwwwwwwwwww , nuts,nuts,NUTS!!!!!!!!
Anyway, forget "rules of engagement " because:
They are only Your/ their rules and nobody is under any obligation to play by them .
If you cannot reach a mutual agreement then probably its best to walk away an find someone else to play with.
blended it to this topic then was about to post an had to log in again and lost it all awwwwwwwwwww , nuts,nuts,NUTS!!!!!!!!
Anyway, forget "rules of engagement " because:
They are only Your/ their rules and nobody is under any obligation to play by them .
If you cannot reach a mutual agreement then probably its best to walk away an find someone else to play with.
Quote by sheffieldfun4two
3. No kissing!!
I am going for the no kissing one now. had a brilliant night 2 weeks ago, really nice snogging etc.
spent last 10 days putting zovirax on a cold sore ! only snogged one person all night apart from partner and he doesn't have cold sore ? is it just coincedence ? or did I get it from her ? never been one to suffer from them myself ? lovely kisser though. shame :lickface: :love: xxx
Quote by hornet harlot
3. No kissing!!
I am going for the no kissing one now. had a brilliant night 2 weeks ago, really nice snogging etc.
spent last 10 days putting zovirax on a cold sore ! only snogged one person all night apart from partner and he doesn't have cold sore ? is it just coincedence ? or did I get it from her ? never been one to suffer from them myself ? lovely kisser though. shame :lickface: :love: xxx
Well did you notice a coldsore on her when you were snogging?
Quote by PoloLady
3. No kissing!!
I am going for the no kissing one now. had a brilliant night 2 weeks ago, really nice snogging etc.
spent last 10 days putting zovirax on a cold sore ! only snogged one person all night apart from partner and he doesn't have cold sore ? is it just coincedence ? or did I get it from her ? never been one to suffer from them myself ? lovely kisser though. shame :lickface: :love: xxx
Well did you notice a coldsore on her when you were snogging?
no, we talked and had a laugh for ages before we snogged but the virus could have been active at the time. what to do as I like the kissing ?
:love: xxx
Quote by Poohbear
Happy Cats,
Nah never frustrating..get to do everything else with another cpl..when it gets to the shagging point we shag each other..so no frustration felt...in our opinion anyway.
Have soft swung with full swap couples and it's not been a problem so far.....
Mmmmmmm - Maybe it is something we should give consideration to. We'll have to suck it and see!
Quote by alspals
...few years back I was seeing a Jehovah's Witness couple, who felt they could reconcile their obvious guilt about enjoying an alt lifestyle by ensuring I was packed off with the latest edition of the Watchtower & Awake in the morning:lol: :lol:
Errr, methinks that's one for the recycling bin. :lol: :lol: :lol:
Mind, if she was nice, I might be tempted to tell them it was a good read. :twisted:
Quote by O. K.
...few years back I was seeing a Jehovah's Witness couple, who felt they could reconcile their obvious guilt about enjoying an alt lifestyle by ensuring I was packed off with the latest edition of the Watchtower & Awake in the morning
Bible punching Swingers !!! Now there's a thought : Would like to meet them WOW !!!
Quote by O. K.
...few years back I was seeing a Jehovah's Witness couple, who felt they could reconcile their obvious guilt about enjoying an alt lifestyle by ensuring I was packed off with the latest edition of the Watchtower & Awake in the morning
Bible punching Swingers !!! Now there's a thought : Would like to meet them WOW !!!
...yes they were fun OK, and someone managed to balance their sexual needs with the opportunity to sign up another such as myself...the male actually took little part, just sitting quietly in a corner of the darkened bedroom...be afraid, be VERY AFRAID :lol:
Ps..they were Sheffield people..does anyone know if Freckledbird or Sheffieldfun4two are closet JW's..now there's a thought!!
Quote by lilacgem
Different people view things in different ways, I personally enjoy the kissing part but remember Julia Roberts in pretty woman didn't kiss her "clients" so it doesn't become personal
She was a prostitute, lilacgem, not a swinger. Slight difference me thinks. We have enough guys on here expecting easy little cum sluts, ready to drop everything for a taste of their fresh new cock
It seems an odd thing to say. Thousands of swingers prefer to not kiss, because it becomes personal - it is obvious. I just don't see why not kissing needs to be associated with being a prostitute, in this instance at least. Am I being silly here? Should I go back to bed?
