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les_southwest
Orgasminator
it has come to my attention that some people have come to say im spreading rumours about where the southwest munches are beiing held let me assure you this hasnt come from me as i would not do such a thing it is well out of order if any one has anything to say about me please come to me direct as im honest and have nothing to hide at the last munch i thought you were all very nice if i make you feel uncomfortable i will stay away i always have done my best to be polite to everyone i speak to and will do my best to be helpfull and polite so please come to me if you have anything to say many thanks les lets hope that this clears this matter up :cry:
Happy__Cat
Sex God
Who was it then? dunno :dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno:
Wasnt me!
wink :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
johneboy
Orgasminator
Quote by les_southwest
it has come to my attention that some people have come to say im spreading rumours about where the southwest munches are beiing held let me assure you this hasnt come from me as i would not do such a thing it is well out of order if any one has anything to say about me please come to me direct as im honest and have nothing to hide at the last munch i thought you were all very nice if i make you feel uncomfortable i will stay away i always have done my best to be polite to everyone i speak to and will do my best to be helpfull and polite so please come to me if you have anything to say many thanks les lets hope that this clears this matter up :cry:

Freckledbird, Postie, anybody.........chuck him some punctuation will you, i nearly passed out trying to read that :eeek:
Happy__Cat
Sex God
Here -
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Its all I've got left!
les_southwest
Orgasminator
sorry about the punctuation but i dont know who it is just wish they asked me instead of going behind my back im honest and polite and would of told them if it was me i have nothing to hide
MikeNorth
Sex God
Quote by johneboy
Freckledbird, Postie, anybody.........chuck him some punctuation will you, i nearly passed out trying to read that :eeek:

Better late than never:
les_southwest
Orgasminator
this is about people starting rumours not punctuatuion its frustrating when they cant come to you
Unknown User
Quote by MikeNorth

Freckledbird, Postie, anybody.........chuck him some punctuation will you, i nearly passed out trying to read that :eeek:

Better late than never:

OI!!
Give him a break will ya?
You can see from the tone of his post that he's angry and hurt. Punctuation doesn't really come high on the agenda when you need to get something off your chest.
Jo__Jo_J
Warming the Bed
Hiya Les
Good on you mate for standing up for yourself. If you know 100% it wasnt you, then you have the right to defend yourself.
and a big Rasberry to them who can only take the Piss for his lack of punctuation.
why cant you help the situation, rather than aggrivating it?
However we do need to know, who is letting the side down.
But it could have been someone who diddnt turn up at the munch.
a fair number of people were supposed to come, but lots diddnt.
I reckon one of them chickens may be getting too big for their boots, and becoming a lould mouth.
les_southwest
Orgasminator
thanks steve_j and jo its annoying when people cant be direct and ask you yourself and start rumours i used to have faith in this site i thought thety were all genuine i know most are but you get a bit disillusioned when folk have not got the balls to ask you yourself i cant say this enough IT WAS NOT ME I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE AND IM GENUINE anymore problems about me please just ask i
johneboy
Orgasminator
Les
Sorry mate, Jo-Jo's right, I was out of order, couldn't offer any helpful advice as I don't know owt about it...please accept my apologies for the piss-take smackbottom
shuffles off to eat large slice of humble pie
In my defence it was 3am and I'd had a drink :cheers:
not sure what my excuse is the rest of the time
EagerSlut
Sex God
Hang in there les mate! You're entitled to put the record straight.
Good luck to you.
ES
:cheers:
les_southwest
Orgasminator
thanks eagerslut the majority of you are great just a few trying to make people fell uncomforrtable by not facing up to you in person
Unknown User
(having quickly read up on what a munch is….)
Munch? ………… in the southwest? ……………. Ooer ………. Will there be any more? :twisted:
oh and good luck to you Les, if theres one thing I can not stand its injustice.
xxxxx
Caron
les_southwest
Orgasminator
thanks caron its a bit of an injustice trouble is mud sticks and people will always brand you the same over some thing like this
postie
Sex God
In all seriousness, if someone is informing people who have no right to know where a location of an SH munch is going to be held, then they are putting people at risk. If someone isn't invited it is for a very good reason.
This site does attract a certain amount of undesirables, and it's rumoured also the gutter-press after a cheap and easy story.
The location is kept strictly confidential before AND after the event.
The only thing i can suggest Les, is inform Devon1 of everything you know, and let him, or a Mod try and work backwards as to who blabbed.... and then kick whoever it was into next week...
les_southwest
Orgasminator
devon 1 does know about this and is looking into it was just saying being branded like this it gets stuck with you and people seem to distrust you im totally honest and would not do this and genuine if people came to me instead of starting rumours there would be none of this it makes you feel uncomfortable on the site now
westerross
Sex God
Quote by postie
In all seriousness, if someone is informing people who have no right to know where a location of an SH munch is going to be held, then they are putting people at risk. If someone isn't invited it is for a very good reason.
This site does attract a certain amount of undesirables, and it's rumoured also the gutter-press after a cheap and easy story.
The location is kept strictly confidential before AND after the event.
The only thing i can suggest Les, is inform Devon1 of everything you know, and let him, or a Mod try and work backwards as to who blabbed.... and then kick whoever it was into next week...

Quite right but I'd kick 'em into last week - less chance of running across 'em again.
It has got to be one of the golden rules that venues are restricted to those that need to know only. Organisers normally stress this in any messages about the location - can't be put too strongly - otherwise it can be real trouble.
I hope the perpetrator(s) read this thread - in fact a mod could usefully rename the thread to attract more attention to it.
postie
Sex God
Quote by les_southwest
devon 1 does know about this and is looking into it.
I was just saying being branded like this it gets stuck with you, and people seem to distrust you. I'm totally honest and would not do this, and I'm genuine. If people came to me, instead of starting rumours, there would be none of this. It makes you feel uncomfortable on the site now.

Mellow out fella.... you seem to have stated your case quite emphatically, and don't worry, most people will take any gossip with a pinch of salt anyhows.
ps... i sprinkled punctuation-dust on your reply there, aint that better! lol
les_southwest
Orgasminator
it doesnt matter wat you say people will always be dubious of you
Devon1
Orgasminator
Oh I hate rumours, either good or bad.
Unfortuantely someone is meant to have said more than they should, about the last meet. Information was put out on another site about the last meet. I am doing my best to find out more about this.
To keep future meets safe, and enjoyable, i have had to put on hold a couple of people that have asked to come to the next meet :cry:
Sorry for the folk involved in this.
Anyone thinking of coming to the next meet, let me know biggrin
dargento
Orgasminator
stay with it les m8 ...
if some 1 has bene opening theyre cake hole where they shouldnt or typed in chat then it iwill all come out in the wash...
one has 1s supprt...
westerross
Sex God
Quote by les_southwest
it doesnt matter wat you say people will always be dubious of you

Maybe, but you can't do more than you've done. Doesn't seem as though anybody here doubts your word - so - time to chill.
Unknown User
Hiya Les,
sorry to hear about this, if the rumours had come to my ears I would have had enough respect for you to feel totally out of character and done exactly what you are looking for - talked to you directly about it.
Just a few points coming out of this.
The ONLY person who should be passing out details of a munch location is the organiser. No matter how well known a user is, the basic rule should be NEVER to give out the location to ANYONE without the express permission of the organiser.
Anyone who is identified as having given out the location and put other users at risk would be banned.
There are two issues - has the location been given out, and if so, by whom.
If anyone can answer these - please e-mail the moderators (not a PM please, I for one am off out shortly and will not be back till tomorrow night) with details of what you know, and how you know it.
Also, if anyone has been told that it was Les who started the rumour, again, e-mail the details to the moderators.
lhk
Kat
les_southwest
Orgasminator
thanks for your support as you guys know its hard to get rid of the stigma that goes with it
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by les_southwest
thanks for your support as you guys know its hard to get rid of the stigma that goes with it

Les I can appreciate that you're concerned but the relevant people are now investigating, aren't they? I'm sure the only stigma attached is by you at the moment. From this thread I'd certainly say that no-one appears to hold you responsible. Keeping the thread going by continually adding your hurt, is keeping it where more people will see it. Maybe that's not such a good thing. Just let it fade away and be dealt with behind the scenes.
MikeNorth
Sex God
Quote by freckledbird
thanks for your support as you guys know its hard to get rid of the stigma that goes with it

Les I can appreciate that you're concerned but the relevant people are now investigating, aren't they? I'm sure the only stigma attached is by you at the moment. From this thread I'd certainly say that no-one appears to hold you responsible. Keeping the thread going by continually adding your hurt, is keeping it where more people will see it. Maybe that's not such a good thing. Just let it fade away and be dealt with behind the scenes.
Les, I'm sorry to have been so frivolous as to inject the wrong note into your thread. However, I also agree with FB in the above, you said your piece in the first post, and you came across as convincing and honest. If you can just let it go, these unfortunate rumours will probably die very quickly.
Good luck,
Mike.
Unknown User
Les agrees.
lhk