it has come to my attention that some people have come to say im spreading rumours about where the southwest munches are beiing held let me assure you this hasnt come from me as i would not do such a thing it is well out of order if any one has anything to say about me please come to me direct as im honest and have nothing to hide at the last munch i thought you were all very nice if i make you feel uncomfortable i will stay away i always have done my best to be polite to everyone i speak to and will do my best to be helpfull and polite so please come to me if you have anything to say many thanks les lets hope that this clears this matter up :cry:
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Its all I've got left!
sorry about the punctuation but i dont know who it is just wish they asked me instead of going behind my back im honest and polite and would of told them if it was me i have nothing to hide
this is about people starting rumours not punctuatuion its frustrating when they cant come to you
Hiya Les
Good on you mate for standing up for yourself. If you know 100% it wasnt you, then you have the right to defend yourself.
and a big Rasberry to them who can only take the Piss for his lack of punctuation.
why cant you help the situation, rather than aggrivating it?
However we do need to know, who is letting the side down.
But it could have been someone who diddnt turn up at the munch.
a fair number of people were supposed to come, but lots diddnt.
I reckon one of them chickens may be getting too big for their boots, and becoming a lould mouth.
thanks steve_j and jo its annoying when people cant be direct and ask you yourself and start rumours i used to have faith in this site i thought thety were all genuine i know most are but you get a bit disillusioned when folk have not got the balls to ask you yourself i cant say this enough IT WAS NOT ME I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE AND IM GENUINE anymore problems about me please just ask i
Hang in there les mate! You're entitled to put the record straight.
Good luck to you.
ES
:cheers:
thanks eagerslut the majority of you are great just a few trying to make people fell uncomforrtable by not facing up to you in person
(having quickly read up on what a munch is….)
Munch? ………… in the southwest? ……………. Ooer ………. Will there be any more? :twisted:
oh and good luck to you Les, if theres one thing I can not stand its injustice.
xxxxx
Caron
thanks caron its a bit of an injustice trouble is mud sticks and people will always brand you the same over some thing like this
In all seriousness, if someone is informing people who have no right to know where a location of an SH munch is going to be held, then they are putting people at risk. If someone isn't invited it is for a very good reason.
This site does attract a certain amount of undesirables, and it's rumoured also the gutter-press after a cheap and easy story.
The location is kept strictly confidential before AND after the event.
The only thing i can suggest Les, is inform Devon1 of everything you know, and let him, or a Mod try and work backwards as to who blabbed.... and then kick whoever it was into next week...
devon 1 does know about this and is looking into it was just saying being branded like this it gets stuck with you and people seem to distrust you im totally honest and would not do this and genuine if people came to me instead of starting rumours there would be none of this it makes you feel uncomfortable on the site now
it doesnt matter wat you say people will always be dubious of you
stay with it les m8 ...
if some 1 has bene opening theyre cake hole where they shouldnt or typed in chat then it iwill all come out in the wash...
one has 1s supprt...
Hiya Les,
sorry to hear about this, if the rumours had come to my ears I would have had enough respect for you to feel totally out of character and done exactly what you are looking for - talked to you directly about it.
Just a few points coming out of this.
The ONLY person who should be passing out details of a munch location is the organiser. No matter how well known a user is, the basic rule should be NEVER to give out the location to ANYONE without the express permission of the organiser.
Anyone who is identified as having given out the location and put other users at risk would be banned.
There are two issues - has the location been given out, and if so, by whom.
If anyone can answer these - please e-mail the moderators (not a PM please, I for one am off out shortly and will not be back till tomorrow night) with details of what you know, and how you know it.
Also, if anyone has been told that it was Les who started the rumour, again, e-mail the details to the moderators.
lhk
Kat
thanks for your support as you guys know its hard to get rid of the stigma that goes with it