i was just pondering the term " fuck-buddy"
isnt it just a modern/ Americanised way of describing someone you are having a "fling" or "affair with"........
what do you think?
i think it is............
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i was just pondering the term " fuck-buddy"
isnt it just a modern/ Americanised way of describing someone you are having a "fling" or "affair with"........
what do you think?
i think it is............
To me, fuck-buddy implies somebody who you're mostly or completely interested in for just sex. Whilst "fling"/"affair" includes "fuck-buddy" type relationships but also others where the main reason need not be sex.
To me a 'fuck buddy' is someone you are friendly with and just have sex with without the emotional hangups of a full blown relationship.
As much as it describes accurately the type of relationship you have with someone, it sounds a little too derogatory for me. I prefer to use the term 'intimate friend'
As much as it describes accurately the type of relationship you have with someone, it sounds a little too derogatory for me. I prefer to use the term 'intimate friend'
'fling'... implies over a short duration of time - having had a fuck-buddy for some 15 years in the past, I don't think 'fling' quite fits
'affair'...to me this implies emotional attachment mixed in there somewhere - also only really applies if at least one person is in an existing relationship
'affair'...to me this implies emotional attachment mixed in there somewhere - also only really applies if at least one person is in an existing relationship
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'fling'... implies over a short duration of time - having had a fuck-buddy for some 15 years in the past, I don't think 'fling' quite fits
'affair'...to me this implies emotional attachment mixed in there somewhere - also only really applies if at least one person is in an existing relationship
i agree with you there but also i think a fling has a certain amount of emotional attachment too even though it is short lived.
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Fuck-Buddy....... IMO a 'gutter type' term. Would never use it personally.
Probably means the same, but I prefer 'Shag-Piece'. :twisted:
A fuck-buddy... a buddy (mate) you happen to fuck.
To me a 'shag-piece' doesn't appear to have any 'mate' status and so suggests something completely different and much more demeaning.
thanx alot for your input...........
i guess that , having never used the term really myself............ i'll give it a wide berth in future......
however... how many times do you think that you need to have had sex with a person before they qualify to be deemed a person that fits the criterion? or how regular does sex need to be?
i guess that , having never used the term really myself............ i'll give it a wide berth in future......
however... how many times do you think that you need to have had sex with a person before they qualify to be deemed a person that fits the criterion? or how regular does sex need to be?
I used to use 'fuck - buddy' as a term for a guy I had regular sex with.
But now I dont like it, I now call him 'my special friend', or alternatively by his real name, after all he is a person.
I've known the guy since I was 16, and been having regular sex with him for 6 years. So special friend just seems to fit better. He's one of my best friends aswell as a sexual partner. But we couldnt work if we made it a one on one relationship.
But now I dont like it, I now call him 'my special friend', or alternatively by his real name, after all he is a person.
I've known the guy since I was 16, and been having regular sex with him for 6 years. So special friend just seems to fit better. He's one of my best friends aswell as a sexual partner. But we couldnt work if we made it a one on one relationship.
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Fuck-Buddy....... IMO a 'gutter type' term. Would never use it personally.
Probably means the same, but I prefer 'Shag-Piece'. :twisted:
A fuck-buddy... a buddy (mate) you happen to fuck.
To me a 'shag-piece' doesn't appear to have any 'mate' status and so suggests something completely different and much more demeaning.
Yeah your right Polo, never thought of it like that :doh:
So i've decided to change it to 'Shag-Piece Buddy'
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