Could we perhaps have a 'dummies guide to getting a meet'? A pre prepared thread that the less suave amongst us just simply go and fill in with the relevant details.
My name is ........................
I am ........years of age
I live in ...................
I am single/married and m/f (delete as appropriate)
My hobbies are ............................
I/we are looking for ..............................
The more astute among you will realise that all of the above is a little tongue in cheek, and of course this thread will go right over the heads of the people to whom it is actually aimed

Ah well
jules
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