at a social a cpl of weeks ago us and a cpl of freinds were talking bout different things and they told us his mrs had been spotted at a place of work the single lad had commented how she looked and what he would like to do with her,another cpl had been talking to a cpl who lived not to far from them this cpl even commented how his mrs looked as they got into a taxi outside there house,and how she looked very nice dancing away in a vanilla club ,i now turn off our cam when i notice some one whos same village as us ,i have been noticed a few times as around the north east i play sports ,tbh i aint to bothered but the mrs is ,just a thought must be nervy for some people doing the every day things ie shopping ,paying the bills ect and some one saying they have seen you and dont reveal who they are or even chat whats peeps thoughts or owt happen to you like that and it scared you??
I've had a few scary things happen to me but the most scary was when someone used to tell us when I used to go on the sunbed :shock: I was always looking over my shoulder. This person, at one point, even knew what car I had and the car/colour I have is pretty rare.
Since then, I dont put my face on cam / on photos.
Miss Cream xxx
That is exactly the reason I don't put my bracket on cam as often as I would like to. Swinging is totally private to us and brilliant fun, I would hate that to be ruined by people recognising us or idiot stalkers like in that woman's case.
Obviously not all people are like that but it just goes to prove it only takes one idiot to put the heeby jeebies up you.
I've had something similar years ago but not from swinging as didn't do this then, this was when I was single and the guy wouldn't take no for an answer.
My missus gets stalked on a regular basis, not much fun when it happens it has to be said!
I dont go on cam too often simply because i like to be elusive.....lol
I think if someone recognised me then i would simply say they were mistaken.....after all if they are nice they will get the message and respect your privacy. If they are not so nice, then who cares what they think.
Also having a partner who is 6ft 5 tall, massive muscles and ex door security staff helps enormously....
actually we used to have a married man who used to wait till we were in a playroom in a local club he used to leave his wife in a gang bang situation to watch us or follow me mrs rund the club he was harmless just a bit off putting for the mrs and used to constantly send emails in the end we had to tell him never in a million,just makes you wonder what goes through peeps minds sometimes.
Posted on this before.. well similar anyway..
The one thing that spooked us is when we met a couple about 20 miles away.. we got on well and chatted about everyday stuff as you do..Work, family etc (we were very new to this then lol) This guy must have been taking a whole lot more in than we reconed on as the next morning he turned up at our workplace for a coffee stating he's been past the house and noticed No One was in :shock: 20 miles out of his way for a coffee???? Yeah right... Lovely as they were we never played and never will lol..
Mike xx
