Scumbag single males!

27 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire

as u can see Jedi.... as soon as u start to enter the "single guy debate" your gonna get met with the same old arguments and views......... which i think is even more of a waste of time......

:dry: Same old same old, but still someone's preference, choice and oppinion about who they will/ wont meet , which you cant simply dismiss as a waste of time because its in a thread , its their fundamental right.
i feel its a waste of time, because the arguments invariably
1) go round and round
2) are tainted as people fail to read the the whole post and therefore mis-read/interperet what you put
3) get personal...... using point 2 above as a lever/ammunition to help them
same old same old as darkfire has said
invariably then... when you point things out like this... it descends in to a war of words....
so ill be specific.........................
i think its a waste of time to keep going over the same old arguments time and time again... people on here either wanna meet singles or they dont............its not worth debating..... for me anyway..... there are more important things in life........

27 Jul 2006

I still say be yourself, take a no reply as a no and move on. You can only be judged by who you are and not others.
Couples and females must be bombarded with PM's that they can't answer all it's just too much. I've had a very small taste of that this week and well it's a pain. They will probably send more now lol

27 Jul 2006

Quote by goose35
I've had a very small taste of that this week and well it's a pain. They will probably send more now

:evil2:

27 Jul 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
comments like 'single males need not apply' does get a tad annoying at times.

I dont see why this should be annoying toanyone.... dunno

After all its peoples choice if they wish to entertain single males and if they dont then whats the problem...There are plenty that do..
:thumbup: well said that man! My profile says No single guys' but it also says I already have a male 'intimate' friend who I'm more than happy with.

27 Jul 2006

i agree it is their choice of wether to meet single guys or not but is there really any need to use abusive words such as 'scumbag' just cause they not what they are looking for? :shock:
Personally i think not
If someone was rude about another person openly on the forum cause of their age, sex, colour or religon they would be banned, so why is it ok to single out single guys and be rude about them?

27 Jul 2006

Quote by naughtynymphos1
If someone was rude about another person openly on the forum cause of their age, sex, colour or religon they would be banned, so why is it ok to single out single guys and be rude about them?

Hear hear

27 Jul 2006

Being a single male who isnt looking, this isnt really an issue for me, but one day, i might.
when that day comes, there will be people very clearly stating 'no single males'
but if i see them in the chatroom for instance, i wont ignore them, just because i dont fit in with their criteria, its still a person at the other end of the keyboard, who might, at some point, change their minds, and as a one off, want a single man
Or, they migth know someone, and in conversation be told "so and so is a decent guy, go check his profile, see what you think"
so in the meantime, i wont be annoyed at those who dont want single guys, i shall just try and be pleasant, and hope one day, it will be noticed
until then, those that dont seem to grasp that concept, carry on, one day, i might hit the jackpot......

27 Jul 2006

Quote by J3diMast3r
Given that 95% or more of the posts in LMU and similarly high %ages in the Dogging sections from couples and even those from single males trying to get some kind of meet sorted out ... specify something along the lines that 'you scumbag single fellas needn't bother' ...
Do you think the LMU and/or Dogging forums should be further split to 'no scuzbag singles' and 'lowly single blokes maybe allowed' sections???
Would certainly save us lowlife singles some time reading irrelevant posts

Would you like some vinegar with them there chips? No-one said life was easy! lol

If I were a single male and rebuffed with such a remark as a scumbag I'd be damn glad I hadn't taken things further with the person in question.
It may be a swinger's site but it's not always about sex, often it's about power and oneupmanship and it can give some people of dubious standards a buzz abusing and manipulating others rather than stating a polite 'no thank you'.
As others have said, if you remain true to yourself and a polite and well meaning individual you will stand out from the idiots.

27 Jul 2006

Quote by Dollyminx
Given that 95% or more of the posts in LMU and similarly high %ages in the Dogging sections from couples and even those from single males trying to get some kind of meet sorted out ... specify something along the lines that 'you scumbag single fellas needn't bother' ...
Do you think the LMU and/or Dogging forums should be further split to 'no scuzbag singles' and 'lowly single blokes maybe allowed' sections???
Would certainly save us lowlife singles some time reading irrelevant posts

Would you like some vinegar with them there chips? No-one said life was easy! lol

If I were a single male and rebuffed with such a remark as a scumbag I'd be damn glad I hadn't taken things further with the person in question.
It may be a swinger's site but it's not always about sex, often it's about power and oneupmanship and it can give some people of dubious standards a buzz abusing and manipulating others rather than stating a polite 'no thank you'.
As others have said, if you remain true to yourself and a polite and well meaning individual you will stand out from the idiots.
worship

Dollyminx

27 Jul 2006

Quote by dambuster
Given that 95% or more of the posts in LMU and similarly high %ages in the Dogging sections from couples and even those from single males trying to get some kind of meet sorted out ... specify something along the lines that 'you scumbag single fellas needn't bother' ...
Do you think the LMU and/or Dogging forums should be further split to 'no scuzbag singles' and 'lowly single blokes maybe allowed' sections???
Would certainly save us lowlife singles some time reading irrelevant posts

Would you like some vinegar with them there chips? No-one said life was easy! lol

If I were a single male and rebuffed with such a remark as a scumbag I'd be damn glad I hadn't taken things further with the person in question.
It may be a swinger's site but it's not always about sex, often it's about power and oneupmanship and it can give some people of dubious standards a buzz abusing and manipulating others rather than stating a polite 'no thank you'.
As others have said, if you remain true to yourself and a polite and well meaning individual you will stand out from the idiots.
worship

Dollyminx
Make that two that was brilliant :worship: :worship:

27 Jul 2006

Quote by goose35
Given that 95% or more of the posts in LMU and similarly high %ages in the Dogging sections from couples and even those from single males trying to get some kind of meet sorted out ... specify something along the lines that 'you scumbag single fellas needn't bother' ...
Do you think the LMU and/or Dogging forums should be further split to 'no scuzbag singles' and 'lowly single blokes maybe allowed' sections???
Would certainly save us lowlife singles some time reading irrelevant posts

Would you like some vinegar with them there chips? No-one said life was easy! lol

If I were a single male and rebuffed with such a remark as a scumbag I'd be damn glad I hadn't taken things further with the person in question.
It may be a swinger's site but it's not always about sex, often it's about power and oneupmanship and it can give some people of dubious standards a buzz abusing and manipulating others rather than stating a polite 'no thank you'.
As others have said, if you remain true to yourself and a polite and well meaning individual you will stand out from the idiots.
worship

Dollyminx
Make that two that was brilliant :worship: :worship:
Not so sure about the :worship: ... more a flipa

... hmm, maybe two :flipa: :flipa: ... :lol: ... though 'Be true to yourself' ... absolutely!
I think people are getting a bit hung up on the scumbag word, which was tongue in cheek ...
'People have right to choose' ... yeah, yeah, yeah ... I never said they didn't and choice is two sided of course. No, I wouldn't bother to contact a couple who'd stated no singles though I gotta be honest, some couples can sound a bit 'uppity'.
Undeniably there are a lot of rude, pushy guys, 'scumbags' and we've all seen them at clubs, in chat etc and to the 'decent' guys, it is an embarrassment ... whether I'm the former or the later is not for me to say 8-)

Quote by poshkate
... or maybe i've got it all wrong and i should just put up an ad just looking for sex with randoms.........when this isn't the case...........

:twisted: Yes please biggrin

Quote by yammyym
I'm a single male and if I read 'no single males' then I don't contact them. I don't find it a problem.
However, If I put an add out looking for a couple (on the off chance that one day I'll be lucky enough) I get replies for gay men saying things like 'if you fancy some deep thoat I be in your area at ...
How is that reading an add??? It just winds me up.

Me too ... especially the ones pretending to be single women! rolleyes

27 Jul 2006

I started as a single male, slowly but surely built my reputation and status within SH and other sites and when asked gave other single males guidance and advice.
There will always be more single males looking than any other demographic, yes men are lead by there cock and more often than not don't back that up with brains, and that is their stumbling block.
As a swinging couple newt has chosen not to swing with other men now we are together, we still get approached but a polite no thankyou is all that is required. In all that time only one guy has had to be physically removed from the doorway of a private playroom at chambs because he wouldn't accept no for an answer.
Single males new to this site need guidance from more established single guys, and i publicly thank Marcuso for helping me when i started.

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27 Jul 2006

Quote by Midlandsman1970
Single males new to this site need guidance from more established single guys, and i publicly thank Marcuso for helping me when i started.

:thumbup:

27 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire

Single males new to this site need guidance from more established single guys, and i publicly thank Marcuso for helping me when i started.

:thumbup:

Godamnit Man! ... you posted too soon and just to say :thumbup: too! Was just about to delete the previous 2 posts having merged them in with the first one! :flipa:
Holey shamoley, Batman! cool

27 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire

Single males new to this site need guidance from more established single guys, and i publicly thank Marcuso for helping me when i started.

:thumbup:
There were several who guided me aswell with various helping posts and PM's along the way and still do.
Sassy,Sheddy,FB,H-x,DF,SgtBilko to name but a few

27 Jul 2006

Quote by goose35

Single males new to this site need guidance from more established single guys, and i publicly thank Marcuso for helping me when i started.

:thumbup:
There were several who guided me aswell with various helping posts and PM's along the way and still do.
Sassy,Sheddy,FB,H-x,DF,SgtBilko to name but a few
Don't let on I've been helpful. I've got a reputation to live down to you know rolleyes

but you know you're very welcome hunni kiss