Scumbag single males!

26 Jul 2006

Given that 95% or more of the posts in LMU and similarly high %ages in the Dogging sections from couples and even those from single males trying to get some kind of meet sorted out ... specify something along the lines that 'you scumbag single fellas needn't bother' ...
Do you think the LMU and/or Dogging forums should be further split to 'no scuzbag singles' and 'lowly single blokes maybe allowed' sections???
Would certainly save us lowlife singles some time reading irrelevant posts cool

26 Jul 2006

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26 Jul 2006

whhhhhaaaaaaaatttttttttttt!!!!!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
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Quote by poshkate
whhhhhaaaaaaaatttttttttttt!!!!!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:

Well, gotta be asked cool

I should add that whilst I certainly can see the reasoning behind the aversion and some single males don't do the 'decent' ones any favours with how they act etc ... comments like 'single males need not apply' does get a tad annoying at times.

26 Jul 2006

So you don't think single males are scumbags but someone else has said they are? confused

Penny's dropped lol

They are most definitely NOT all scumbags.

26 Jul 2006

I'm a single scumbag wave

in fact Ipride myself on the fact that I am the small minority that spoils it for the rest of you inmany areas of life.

26 Jul 2006

Quote by osker99
I'm a single scumbag in fact Ipride myself on the fact that I am the small minority that spoils it for the rest of you inmany areas of life.

im a single cumbag.......... lol

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

26 Jul 2006

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26 Jul 2006

It is a fact, especially in the chatroom, that some single males gives us genune, friendly, non pushy singles a bad name, nothing we can do about it i'm afraid.
We just have to work harder.

26 Jul 2006

I'm part of a couple 'single scumbag' - and proud of it.

26 Jul 2006

Quote by J3diMast3r
comments like 'single males need not apply' does get a tad annoying at times.

Ah - so people who are not interested in meeting single guys should not be so fussy and all swingers should be open to meeting single guys even if it is not what they are into - because it might upset the scumbags if they don't confused

Yes - it is all clear now rolleyes

26 Jul 2006

Just nature of the beat. Just do your own thing and be juged by that what you do.

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Iceraider
It is a fact, especially in the chatroom, that some single males gives us genune, friendly, non pushy singles a bad name, nothing we can do about it i'm afraid.
We just have to work harder.

Indeed Iceraider
It never helps when warnings are given to the single male minority who are spoiling it for others and then some twat comes away with a smart arsed comment before pissing off out of the room eh??
confused

I use this forum as well!

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Iceraider
It is a fact, especially in the chatroom, that some single males gives us genune, friendly, non pushy singles a bad name, nothing we can do about it i'm afraid.
We just have to work harder.

:thumbup:
and remember, people do have preferences - if they say No Single Males, it usually means they dont plan on playing with any therefore you're wasting your time.
Unfortunately, some people's view of single males generally is clouded by the ones who act like twats - get over it and find someone who does want to play with a single guy, and dont berate those who dont.

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire
It is a fact, especially in the chatroom, that some single males gives us genune, friendly, non pushy singles a bad name, nothing we can do about it i'm afraid.
We just have to work harder.

:thumbup:
and remember, people do have preferences - if they say No Single Males, it usually means they dont plan on playing with any therefore you're wasting your time.
Unfortunately, some people's view of single males is clouded by the ones who act like twats - get over it and find someone who does want to play with a single guy, and dont berate those who dont.
Nice one DF. I tried to say that but you do it so much better.

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Darkfire
Unfortunately, some people's view of single males generally is clouded by the ones who act like twats - ...

What you mean the ones who send unsolicited PMs?? wink

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Iceraider
It is a fact, especially in the chatroom, that some single males gives us genune, friendly, non pushy singles a bad name, nothing we can do about it i'm afraid.
We just have to work harder.

:sleeping:
uumm ayy what :shock:
did someone moan about some guys making it harder for other guys rolleyes

I have said this before and will do so again... the twaty-scumbag-tossers are doing the rest of you a favour - they make the interesting people stand out.
If guys get knocked back for being single it is because the people doing the knocking are either not interested in single guys or not interested in the particular people they are knocking.
If you have the right approach to suit the person/people you are approaching, how does what someone else has said kill your chances? The only way I can think of is if they have been put off meeting single guys in the first place - and if they have said that - why are you trying?
IMHO

26 Jul 2006

so what you're saying polo is be yourself and your personality will shine through, damn it I was hoping to disguise the fact that I have none. I am the only man I know who uses his personality as contraception. wink

26 Jul 2006

further more - if all the males registered on this site were well mannered and non-scumbaggy - you would really have some serious competition - then see how hard it would be lol

26 Jul 2006

Quote by osker99
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:giggle:

26 Jul 2006

Quote by PoloLady
It is a fact, especially in the chatroom, that some single males gives us genune, friendly, non pushy singles a bad name, nothing we can do about it i'm afraid.
We just have to work harder.

:sleeping:
uumm ayy what :shock:
did someone moan about some guys making it harder for other guys rolleyes

I have said this before and will do so again... the twaty-scumbag-tossers are doing the rest of you a favour - they make the interesting people stand out.
If guys get knocked back for being single it is because the people doing the knocking are either not interested in single guys or not interested in the particular people they are knocking.
If you have the right approach to suit the person/people you are approaching, how does what someone else has said kill your chances? The only way I can think of is if they have been put off meeting single guys in the first place - and if they have said that - why are you trying?
IMHO
I'm not moaning, it's just something I have come across in the chatrooms, how often do you see a room with "No Directing" in the title, yet someone gets on cam and all of a sudden there are 30 Stephen Spielbergs trying to direct a porno, and then the whispering that happens, I have whispered once in the chatroom, with permission, you can't hide from the fact that it happens, and it does become annoying for those who actually cam.

26 Jul 2006

Quote by westerross

Unfortunately, some people's view of single males generally is clouded by the ones who act like twats - ...

What you mean the ones who send unsolicited PMs?? wink

I was thinking specifically of the quick shag brigade, the 'success by association (tm Dambuster) society' and the 'every hole's a goal club'. Unsolicited PM's arnt a problem (for me), one-liner ones are dunno

:lol:

26 Jul 2006

My ad states I'm only (for the moment) looking for single males. I get unsolisited mail from couples, do I assume all couples are a pain in the butt, no. So I don't see how you can say that there is an assumption from everyone here that all single males are twats. Grant us some judgement and intelligence.
H.x

26 Jul 2006

Quote by J3diMast3r
comments like 'single males need not apply' does get a tad annoying at times.

possibly these coments are made because that is not what they want..........surely it's exceptable to explain in your advert/post what you are actually looking for and i would hope that would therefore avoid confusion.........
or maybe i've got it all wrong and i should just put up an ad just looking for sex with randoms.........when this isn't the case........... dunno

27 Jul 2006

I'm a single male and if I read 'no single males' then I don't contact them. I don't find it a problem.
However, If I put an add out looking for a couple (on the off chance that one day I'll be lucky enough) I get replies for gay men saying things like 'if you fancy some deep thoat I be in your area at ...
How is that reading an add??? It just winds me up.

27 Jul 2006

Quote by H-x
My ad states I'm only (for the moment) looking for single males. I get unsolisited mail from couples, do I assume all couples are a pain in the butt, no. So I don't see how you can say that there is an assumption from everyone here that all single males are twats. Grant us some judgement and intelligence.
H.x

Phew! So glad you don't mind the unsolisited mail from non single males! :twisted:
cool

Reading a post in the LMU that says 'couples only' doesn't make me think "how dare they not want single fems!".
What does make me laugh (it used to annoy me) is the fact that if I do post an advert it's only ever in the "Women Seeking Women" section and most of the replies I get are from men.... it's amazing how many of them stuble into the wrong section by accident! rotflmao

Some people want other couples, some people are seeking females and some are seeking single men. That's life. I don't think all single men are rude or 'scumbags' etc, I just tend to notice the polite and funny ones and simply ignore the rest.

27 Jul 2006

Quote by J3diMast3r
Would certainly save us lowlife singles some time reading irrelevant posts

seems to me that this was the point of his post..............
seems to me that the way round this would be to do a search on the adverts section for those who are looking for single males... there is an option for this...
as for the LMU... well as i see it thats the whole piont of the section, that it is a "mixed bag" and i for one enjoy looking at all the adverts....... if only for a chuckle some times...
as u can see Jedi.... as soon as u start to enter the "single guy debate" your gonna get met with the same old arguments and views......... which i think is even more of a waste of time......
anyhow, good luck m8
may the force be with you

27 Jul 2006

Quote by DeeCee
as u can see Jedi.... as soon as u start to enter the "single guy debate" your gonna get met with the same old arguments and views......... which i think is even more of a waste of time......

:dry: Same old same old, but still someone's preference, choice and oppinion about who they will/ wont meet , which you cant simply dismiss as a waste of time because its in a thread , its their fundamental right.

27 Jul 2006

Quote by J3diMast3r
comments like 'single males need not apply' does get a tad annoying at times.

I dont see why this should be annoying toanyone.... dunno

After all its peoples choice if they wish to entertain single males and if they dont then whats the problem...There are plenty that do..

27 Jul 2006

I presume anyone putting "NO SINGLE MALES" in their ad are posting in a category advertising for Women or Couples. If it's in a category like Women seeken Men, then it should be reported as obviously it's in the wrong place.
The sheer amount of guys that reply to ads in categories that clearly aren't geared up for em is unbelievable - trying their luck. But it's v. annoying when you're getting hundreds of replies from people that not only are unsuitable, but the wrong bluddy sex!! confused

Why do guys get cross when someone says 'no single guys'? dunno

If they're looking for a meet, then surely they're better off in a category geared up for em, where they won't read that?? :dunno:
On the other hand - you get the people that come across as extremely rude, arrogant and obnoxious, don't just put 'no single guys' but are also extremely derogatory about em too :? Plain bluddy rude and no need for it.......... On the other hand, who would meet someone who was that rude? I certainly wouldn't - to me it's a very telling statement about the advertiser. Not only are they coming across as rude and obnoxious, but also very hardened, cold and clinical too.
Gimme warm n friendly over hardened, cold clinical any day :rose: I swing for fun, for a laugh, for that liberated feeling, for a natter, for wonderful sexual situations cool

Therefore, no matter how fabulous and interesting an ad is, if it's including a derogatory 'no single guys', my perception of the advertiser totally changes.