Not sure if this is hijacking or not but would just like to say something.
Im not sure how often something like this happens but Im sure its more often than people realise, just that this time, someone was caught out.
Its things like this that stop nervous people like me actually getting into situations like parties and going to places where there are groups of people and it gives swinging a bad name.
Whos to say the next person with a cam on their phone isnt from the media? I know its not only me who is afraid of the consequences of getting caught in the act by someone not genuinely into the lifestyle. I think this person was genuine so that makes it a 100 times worse.
People tell me I should take a risk in life and have some fun, go to parties, munches socials but if this is the kind of thing thats likely to happen then, thanks but thats not the kind of risk Im willing to take. If that cuts down my chances of meeting people then so be it.
I really do feel genuinely sorry for the people this has affected, it must feel like a massive betrayal and my heart goes out to you.