seeing people in \"real life\"

30 Jul 2008

A really surreal thing happened to us today and we were just wondering how others have felt about it if its happened to them.
We were out with our family when a bloke we've played with got on our train with his kids, he smiled but obviously didn't speak to must admit it was a weird 15 minutes knowing someone we'd been intimate with was sitting so close. Its a totally different thing to seeing someone at a social maybe because it was "in real life" that it made us feel weird(but slightly turned on at the same time !! lol

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Has this happened to anyone else or is it just because we're still pretty new to all this??

30 Jul 2008

Quote by janemcc
A really surreal thing happened to us today and we were just wondering how others have felt about it if its happened to them.
We were out with our family when a bloke we've played with got on our train with his kids, he smiled but obviously didn't speak to must admit it was a weird 15 minutes knowing someone we'd been intimate with was sitting so close. Its a totally different thing to seeing someone at a social maybe because it was "in real life" that it made us feel weird(but slightly turned on at the same time !! )
Has this happened to anyone else or is it just because we're still pretty new to all this??

It all depends on whether one has swung with friends or not. My ex-wife and I used to swing regularly with a couple of our friends so were used to seeing them IRL. I don't suppose it would be different if we saw 'non-friends'.
I can't say for sure as it never happened to us. With the possible exception of our front door being knocked one day and finding out it was the husband of a couple we'd fucked into next week. Apparently they'd had a burglary and he was hurriedly asking us to keep hold of a copy of the the video tape we'd made of the meet whilst the police had a look through the house (and family members doing the tidy up afterwards).

30 Jul 2008

It hasn't happened to me. It is one of the reasons why I am avoiding going to my local club though, and why I won't play with anyone who has a local postcode!

30 Jul 2008

It hasn't happened to me as yet, but I'm sure if it did I'd get that 'rememberance glow' lol

31 Jul 2008

We had friends, we managed not to go to bed with them one night. It was all agreed, but it fizzled out. How we managed it, I do not know.
Anyway a week or so later, the lady came around and we fucked on the sofa. Ever since then we always kissed on meeting. A respectful kiss on the cheek. Fucking friends is now a no no, but afterwards the lady seemed to deserve that kiss. It was just wrong not to.

31 Jul 2008

Quote by noladreams30
It hasn't happened to me. It is one of the reasons why I am avoiding going to my local club though, and why I won't play with anyone who has a local postcode!

just checked me postcode :bounce:
we (me n the ex) bumped into a guy we'd been intimate with in the local supermarket about 3 weeks later :shock: wasn't a problem for us, but he seemed mightily pissed of dunno

maybe it was because he'd told us he was single and yet there he was with a woman and three kids in tow??
:lol2:
needless to say we never heard from him after that rolleyes