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steve__theonly1
Sexpert
Forgive me lord i have sinned!
Having consumed a few halfs of stout and searching through the ads i saw a profile i liked and sent a wink!
THIS IS WHERE I SINNED!
The lady in question didnt want any male attention and replied to that effect and that she was taken.
I in turn replied that he was a lucky man-end of sports so i thought.
I then received another messsage from her informing me that because i had replied to her message she was asking to have me removed from the swinging heaven site.
I have sent her another message apologising and pointing out i find it a little heavy handed to ask for a ban when i had only replied with a little light hearted banter-was i wrong?
I have no intention of contacting her again and have been a member of this site since it started with no complaints-- i find that if we have received unwanted winks or messages we just ignore them, but again perhaps we are just old fashioned! wink
Unknown User
Just ignore her. Ok she might have got a little pissed at you for not reading her profile properly ( if it does indeed state she's not looking for guys ) but she seems to have over reacted. It would have been easier for her to just not have replied to you in the first place and deleted your message. It's a bit harsh to threaten to get someone banned though.
It's rude I know and something I hate doing but sometimes I do just delete without replying. Mine clearly states that I'm not here for anything but social reasons at the mo but it still doesn't stop guys ( and couples ) messaging me for meets :doh: I don't like being rude and just deleting but sometimes I can't be bothered with people who just don't bother to read properly.
My advice would be to just reply to ads you like AND you meet their criteria rather than just ones that tickle your fancy.
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Unknown User
You have my sympathy.
Humour is a dangerous thing. I badly judged joke can be cruel and hurtful. But having said that from what you have said it sounds to me like you haven't sinned too much.
Unknown User
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Cheers guys, i may still go to heaven! lol

Not sure about that, you disgusting drunken pervert
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Unknown User
Quote by steve-j
Cheers guys, i may still go to heaven! lol

Thought you just wanted to stay in heaven cool
venus68
Casanova
She over reacted. I get a bit annoyed when people come across as over familiar and assume that I will meet them, but I certainly wouldn't ask for them to be banned.
I've only done that once and the guy got very hostile after a polite rejection and started calling me alsorts of nasty things. I thought that was uncalled for, especially with even after the insults he was still asking to meet for sex :shock: Like he was doing me a favour!!!
I much prefer it when people are just being nice the way you were, so you wouldn't have got that reaction off me smile
Unknown User
This is me publicly apologising for an ill concieved joke.
I am very sorry.
steve__theonly1
Sexpert
Its nice to see that even in the swinging community there are normal and sensible thinking people like us nutters! smile
Unknown User
Quote by steve-j
Its nice to see that even in the swinging community there are normal and sensible thinking people like us nutters! smile

Normal and sensible? Me? I resemble that remark! :silly:
Sarah
Sex God
Quote by steve-j
Its nice to see that even in the swinging community there are normal and sensible thinking people like us nutters! smile

Where?? biggrin